asking money from someone you really like? Help! what did i do?!?

Question

im so damn pissed and wish i can jump back in time; i asked the guy i really really like for some money only because he kept insisting that if i run out of money here at school, i should ask. i never wanted to, i never asked my own parents for money in my whole life and the idea of asking someone for it doesn't really tickle my imagination. might be that i am a weirdo, but i grew up to depend on myself only and i have some silly feminist attitudes at times.. then i run out of it, and ask him. he hesitates! the mere fact he hesitates embaressed the hell out of me. i was so damn hurt and felt that i just wanna vanish.thank goodness it wasn't face to face.. we were chatting, but he didn't exactly say yes the way i expected him.. and i ran off. can't talk to him now. not because of the money thing, but because it means i really don't mean anything to him. if i were him, at least if i had NO money (btw, he did say he has some so he aint broke) i would at least say 'sure' than apologize! :s

Answer 1

The fellow is not only a miser but also does not have any trust in you.Since he did not keep his words of giving you some money,if required, you have no reasons to trust him His action should be an eye opener for you. He has made himself unfit to receive your future friendship.