Singles & Dating - 9 October 2007

for incidents that happened in the past(racial incidents) ,and i got on friendly terms with her and then ignored her everytime she tried to get my attention,am i being racist?

2007-10-09 19:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ex. after you u did some stuff a girl felt that she did not satisfy a guy? what would she do?

2007-10-09 19:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by dimples 1

2007-10-09 19:17:18 · 11 answers · asked by avrod07 1

i will go out with this girl i had realised that she likes me but scared of me a bit and always want me to the the actor, we will have lunch together and then have a walk in the park at night presumably. I real wanna kiss her that day to show her that i like her but the issue is when will i know is the right time to do it, I am just wondering if there are some signs that girls show during this time. I wana make sure i kissed her at the right time and she will want it that time. Thanks a lot.

2007-10-09 19:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend apparently got this girl pregnant when we weren't together and i just found out after having been with him for a year he said he was afraid of losing me and he is right because if i found this out a year ago i would've never been with him. now i have fallen deeply in love with him. but thats not the issue, his baby mom is terrible she leaves messages telling him how he wants her back even though he says he never tells her that and she also says on his voicemail that he has another woman and she calls me names. i tell him about it and he says i'm letting her ruin our lives. i already told him i would accept the child and i would like to make it work but his baby mother is a pain. i didn't even find out about the baby from him until a couple of months ago i heard her on his voicemail talking about him not seeing his son. he said he was waiting for the right time to tell me because we had been arguing off and on. i don't know what to do he is my first love and i'm confused

2007-10-09 19:11:46 · 16 answers · asked by Angelina M 1

i have a friend that came to me recently about a sleeping pill overdose. she took 30 pills all at once. she never went to the hospital or anything because the people she was with didnt think it was necessary. she says that it felt like her heart kept stopping or missing beats. she says it still occassionally happens even though the od was 2 months ago. could any lasting damage have been done? what can happen to your body when you take that many at once, besides the obvious death?

2007-10-09 19:08:56 · 8 answers · asked by avalon552 3

so. my guy friend came to my house one night.
i stupidly let him in my window.. he told me how
he loves me ..and wants me. hes my boyfriends
best friend.. he was always such a nice guy.

so we were sitting on my bed talking..
he started touching me..
and i liked it.
but i made him stop.
then he started again.
then he started takin my
clothes off.. i dont know
why i couldnt stop him..
i was so scared.. then
he raped me. and didnt
use a condom or anything.
now hes telling people that
we did it.. and its not true.
my bf asked about it.. i told him
i was stupid let him in my room..
and he touched me.. but i didnt
tell him he raped me.. i know i
need to tell him.. but hed freak
and kill the boy who raped me.
im so scared.
someone please hhelp me..

i made up this email..
amber isnt even my
real name..
i would tell.. he told me he would kill me
if i told.. im so scared. hes been texting
me saying hes sorry.. i dont know what to do.

2007-10-09 19:03:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm about 5'6 and 135 lbs and he told me to lay off the junk food. He threatened to leave me if I gained any weight and told me that I look like I weigh 150 lbs because he couldn't lift me.

We don't kiss or make love anymore. I never receive compliments from him like I used to.

What should I do?

2007-10-09 18:58:31 · 31 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Hey everyone, well, this is what happened. . . i have bin going out with my gf for about 4 months and I love her soo much. I'm not the kind of guy to play around with girls or cheat on girls or w.e . .until this night i went to the club and i had a too many drinks and I made out with a girl that I knew. Now i know its no excuse that I was drunk. . I just don't know what I was thinking or how I could have done something lyk this to someone I really love and care about. And I really really love her and I don't know what to do now . . . And trust me. . i do care about her. .and I've felt so depressed every time i think about it every single day. . I know that if i tell her it'll crush her and it will crush me too. . .please help me someone. . .how should I go about this?

2007-10-09 18:55:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is it just something guys do?

2007-10-09 18:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by Mandy 3

I think I really like this guy. I've told him that I do. But I dont know if he still thinks I do since I told him before summer started. That doesnt really matter though I suppose. I feel tired sometimes, liking him because I honestly think he doesnt feel the same way. But then again I just cant seem to let him go. Sometimes I stay up just to talk to him on the phone and it makes me realize that I'm liking him more and not less. So really, what should I do?

2007-10-09 18:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by kimuzukashii 2

I mean, every guy i talk to or date doesn't ever like talking about their feelings. Why is this so?

2007-10-09 18:31:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 18:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who had this guy who would flirt with her and talk to her a lot whenever he saw her off somewhere. Now, he does'nt talk or flirt with her whenever he sees her, he doesn't even speak to her. He acts like he doesn't know her. She hasn't done anything to him. Can someone explain this behavior?

2007-10-09 18:23:07 · 6 answers · asked by goodsamaritan_1999 1

I am always hunting my man down and often I get rebuked. Why? What does it mean?

2007-10-09 18:18:59 · 17 answers · asked by Izzy2834 1

ive been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months. he's been going through a lot and is very stressed right now. this has led him to be distracted from keeping his apartment clean. i thought it would be nice if i went to his place while he is at work and clean it for him. even though he gave me a key and told me to come anytime i wanted, i feel like i would be intruding. would you feel that it would be intrusion or would you just be so happy about the clean apartment that it wouldnt matter? i really want it to be a surprise, so i dont want to tell him. but if i should...then i will. THANKS!

2007-10-09 18:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by icedchai8907 3

This is very complicated to say the least. You see, I like this guy and to an extent, he likes me too. He says that he isn't ready for a relationship and neither am I, however; I seem to have very strong feelings for him. I have two classes with him, and the campus is small anyways, so it is very difficult to go for a few days without seeing him. He says that he is waiting until after he graduates and then he feels he will be more ready to finally begin a relationship. I usually never like a guy this long when I feel that he could be the least bit interested in me, but I cannot diminish these strong feelings. They are so strong that when I see him and he happens to not see me, it hurts like hell. I do not know what to do. I want to stop feeling things for him and focus on my life right now, but I can't. He is not the smartest guy nor is he the cutest, but in my eyes, I see his personality, his sweetness, his heart, and soul. What do I do? I am open for suggestions (all I can get).

2007-10-09 18:15:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think theyre really trashy

2007-10-09 18:07:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 22 years old and have never had a gf,and never really even had a girl interested in me that i have liked. my virginity is not a choice, girls just dont like me! it seems i always fall straight into the friend wagon, never the boyfriend. this has made me lose self confidence to the point where i really dont see myself picking up ever again! lately I have been getting really depressed about it, especially when i have mates talking about going out with a girl or taking them home, something i can't relate to but wish i could! I am quite ugly and do understand why most girls aren't really into me (short, overweight, pale, freckles, bad scar across my nose, bad teeth, very hairy back and chest...etc). I have contemplated suicide, however really just couldn't do it to my family and friends..... I am too embarassed to talk to anyone i know about it, mainly cos i feel like im just whinging....im fit and healthy, i should be happy!

2007-10-09 17:53:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 17:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Roxy 2

I have lied to him over and over again. I promise him I will be honest, but i end up lying again.

2007-10-09 17:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

WELL NO ONE IN MY SKOOL ARE VIRGINS AND I FEEL SMART BUT LIKE AN OUTCAST CUZ THEY ALL TALK ABOUT IF THE GUYS ARE BIG AND THEY MAKE FUN OF ME WELL I LIKE THIS GUY ALOT AND I THINK I MIGHT LOOSE IT TO HIM BUT I DONT WANNA BE AN IDIOT ABOUT IT OK AND I LOVE HIM ALOT AND WE ARE CLOSE AND HAVE BEEN FOR THE PAST OH IDK 6 YEARS CLOSE I MEAN IT BUT OUT OF ALL MY FRIENDS IM THE ONLY VIRGIN SO WHAT DO I DO DO I GIVE IT UP TO HIM OR DO I REMAIN AN OUT CAST AND THE GIRL EVERYONE MAKES FUN OF

2007-10-09 17:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see alot of questions from girls about losing thier virginity and everyone tells them its a big step and guys say how much they like virgin girls. but what about vice versa. is it a big deal when a guy loses his?

2007-10-09 17:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl who has a tattoo or piercing...
HOT? NOT? or DEPENDS?

2007-10-09 17:22:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and I know I'm in love with her, but I can't bring myself to tell her. I sense she feels strongly for me too, and I feel that she wants me to say it because she won't first. But something holds me back.

I know I shouldn't hold grudges for past relationships, but in the past I've dealt with a lot of untrustworthy women, especially my last gf, who would take advantage of my feelings. So I can't shake the feeling that there's something I don't trust about her. Am I being paranoid? Everything I know about her so far suggests she's different from the others, but I just feel so guarded.

2007-10-09 17:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by redguard572001 2

Sometimes we get infatuated with people and think we love them. Sometimes people fall out of love. I'm dating someone who always comes to see me, but says he only loves me a little. He hasn't called me in 5 days, even though we have been together over 2 years and we have always talked or seen each other everyday.

It has been a rocky relationship. Part of me thinks it is over, but another part of me says I love him and I should just give him his space and not give up on our relationship. Howver, I don't want to be loving anybody that doesn't love me. Is it true love if the other person always needs space or rarely agrees with you? How do you know if it is true love?

2007-10-09 16:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by oh really 3

Could you tell someone something without even knowing them and just looking into their eyes?

2007-10-09 16:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

شيماء لابسة اية

2007-10-09 16:54:34 · 15 answers · asked by zoma_ e 1

today was bad, I thought I had completely driven him away and he said that earliar but tonight he texts me I explain why I have been crazy (family issues) apologize and he says thats ok but right now we need space and to give it time. He says he still really cares about me. Arguing combined with school work for both of us is stressful. I know he has no one else. I want to give him time but I love him...is space ever a good thing?

2007-10-09 16:52:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-09 16:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by L 3