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so me and my friends were talkin about how
we'd like to date outside our race
and we try talkin to white dudes or asians dudes
and it never works maybe its the wrong approach
maybe they dont find us attractive i dont know what it is
i would love to try interracial dating
i need an opinion
Are you all men(attractive white,hispanic,asian,other men) intimidated by a black woman trying to get with you?

Khadijah_abdul@yahoo.com

2007-10-09 14:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by khadijah A 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

and if so then why?
Atlanta,Georgia

2007-10-09 14:21:39 · update #1

16 answers

Why the hell would they be intimidated by a woman just because she is black? They are more likely to be intimidated by women like me who can outdo them in the bedroom!

2007-10-09 14:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

Apparently not all white men as I know a few who date or are married to a white woman. But it would seem more common for the couple to be a white female and black male as opposed to the opposite. One of them being my brother, who married a black woman and had two beautiful little girls who are now teenagers.BTW he approached, and persued her.

I think my brothers wife was the best woman he ever had.Nothing to do with her race, but becasue of who she is. I in no way think she intimidates anyone.... Guess that's more of a personal characteristic than a cultured one.

I have a very good black female friend who dates ONLY white men. She has absolutely no problems getting one. Not even ones she's been a first for. She chases them most times.

I also have a female friend that prefers black woman. She is white and mexican. I really have no examples on Asian or others.....

2007-10-09 14:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by savahna5 6 · 2 0

No, I'm a white guy that for a long time only had black female partners (including my now ex wife). You approach a white guy (or asian or black or latino) in the same way: your way. The response will not (usually) be related to your race, but rather a response to you. Helps if you are attractive, of course.

2007-10-09 14:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4 1

First choice = black women Second Choice = White women Third Choice = hispanic/ other U can see this play out even with married men. take a black man married to a white women and have an attractive black women walk in. . . the white woman automatically gets nervous.

2016-05-20 02:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

A black women can come across as a powerful being so any man might be afraid of powerful women. I think that is crazy You shouldn't have to be weak around them. Be who you are. A man really respects a woman who is herself black, white asian or whatever. I'm sure there are many men who would love to date you so don't give up.

2007-10-09 14:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tanner L 3 · 3 0

No more so then normal, but I must admit I don't usually think that I would appeal to black women cus I'm translucent, but I guess attraction isn't do to skin(unless it is really good looking;). I know I have seen some fine black women.

2007-10-09 14:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Michael M 4 · 3 0

I have never had an issue with dating a black woman. Not only am I color blind, I actually did date a very nice black lady from North Carolina some time ago. It went quite well.

2007-10-09 14:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 7 · 1 2

Its kinda rare for women to actually try to get with a guy, its usually the other way around from what i know of.

2007-10-09 14:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I've dated black women. Nope not intimidated. I'm attracted to women. I don't care about skin color. It's all about what kind of woman she is. You can email me if you want to chat.

2007-10-09 14:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

well i don think its a black women thing its just a persoality thing

white guys typically like the ya know bubbly over the top blonde...and as black gilrs are just not like that..(well the majorty of them arent)

but don sweat babe there are plenty of men for you!!

2007-10-09 15:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

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