theres this guy at school that i am really into. as soon as we met, we clicked instantly. we always talk, joke,and FLIRT like crazy.but sadly, every girl he has gone out with so far are MAJOR WHORES. and every single one of his previous gf's hated me soo much. and for some reason, when he sees me flirt with other guys (i only do this when he is going out with one of his gf's) he got really mad at me, and i would ask why. then he would just blow me off. but the next day everything was back to normal. Why does he get mad, he oviously likes his gf better than me, so y does he care?
- i know i already posted this, but no1 has answered me yet
2007-10-09 14:36:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he is jelouse, he may have another girl friend or more, but he just wants what he cant have. And when he can have it, he doesnt want it. Stay away from guys like that, they are nothing but trouble, i can see you getting hurt in the end.
2007-10-09 14:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Eyezz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THere could be many possible answers to this:
1. It could be that he doesn't really like his gf. He just likes the fact that there is a girl there he can get action from, since you mentioned that all his previous gf's are "whores".
2. He really likes you, that's why he was jealous and even to the extent of being mad when you were flirting with another man.
3. He's the jealous and greedy type where he would get jealous even if he already has a gf but he doesn't want anyone to flirt with you either because you can only flirt with him.
either way, all the previous possibilities still leave me thinking hes a jerk and that you should move on. Because if he has a girl friend he shouldnt have a right to be mad at you for flirting with another guy, since he's not your anybody.
so. hope this helped.
2007-10-09 15:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably already have a suspicion that he has a thing for you so thats probably it. He probably gets annoyed that ur so fickle with ur flirtations and r lookin like a whore urself. If u want him go get him if not why flirt for?
If he gets angry its probably because he senses that ur flirting with others to make him jealous and he probably really cares about u and doesnt want u degrading urself with stupid lil antics.
And why does he care? Well u r his friend and when girls flirt in any overly seductive way a guy automatically think "WHORE" or she's "EASY" even if u arent. What friend would want that to be the case and the saying "shes asking for it" is probably what is behind the attitude.He doesnt want u to be termed "WHORE" either but acting like a lil flirt they way u implied is basically saying ho for hire.
Girls who switch from one guy to another is like saying hes no better than the next one which is a real shot to his ego.
2007-10-09 14:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question you should be asking is ' why do I care' - He obviously dates these girls because they are easy and you have the right not to answer to him whether he has a girlfriend or not, he is not YOUR BOYFRIEND so leave him alone and get over him now before he starts to own you. If he liked you, he would ask you out, but instead he is playing you a fool by being a control freak even when you are single, cant imagine what he would be like a real boyfriend, seriously tell him to get over his ego as you are free to do what you want!!
2007-10-09 14:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because this guy has lined you up to be his next potential 'victim' ! . The guy has a serious relationship and commitment problem, so you would be wise to keep well clear of any involvement with such a person. You can be friendly, without the need to flirt , which HE may interpret as a form of teasing !.
2007-10-09 14:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with someone that has multiple whore girlfriends? don't you have high expectations for yourself?
he gets mad because he wants to manipulate you and have you stringing away on the side! you need to get over that guy and find one that will treat you the right way. i don't care how much you "clicked"...girl move on! and how would you feel if you had a bf and he was flirting it up with someone else? don't be one of those girls!
2007-10-09 14:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by d<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason he blows you of is because to him even though he may try not to show it, you are something more to him.
And when you ask him, he may find it easier to just blow you of then actually telling you whats wrong.
Very possibly to him you may indeed be something more.Some thing way more than just a another "whore", but an ACTUAL girlfriend who he can talk to and be himself with, Not just someone he can make-out with.
-Hope this is of any help.
Good Bye
2007-10-09 14:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by apple of sin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, this guy is some serious player. Only players go out with whores. He can never be serious in a relationship and when you're with him, he's going to get jealous over another girl. I bet ya, he reckon he's "da shiat" and every girl should be all over him.
2007-10-09 14:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by DomNix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Likes you a lot but he gets gfs because he is scared you won't like him and when he sees you flirting he gets mad at himself for not asking you out.
2007-10-09 15:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has great feelings about you obviously. He gets mad at you for flirting because he likes you so much, he wants to be the only guy in your life. He gets with other girls to get his feelings about you off his mind. If you want, ask him to get with you. (just saying)
2007-10-09 14:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Megan April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋