we only been going out for 3days and he ask me for sex already...he wrote a note me at school askin for it...i dont have a problem with it..i never answer it back though...What should i do?
2007-10-09 09:26:39 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say no. three days?! hes only after one thing and he has made it pretty obvious what it is.
2007-10-09 09:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. Many have learnt not to send pictures' of themselves' however intimate the are with their boy/girl friend. Though it is mainly girls' who send them.First He Will show them no matter what he says' and as you live more of your life you may find someone you love better. It may not seem it now but it happens. How are you going to feel when he keeps' them and if you marry somone else, your husband gets' to see them. There is a true saying. Never show someone anything you would not wish your parents' to see. Sorry I cannot be more positive. Maybe you should find someone better.
2016-05-20 00:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about this guy!!! Any guy who asks you for sex after only dating for three days is not worth the time of day. Do not give in. Sweetheart, you sound too young to have sex if you are asking about things like this. You should respect yourself and tell him no. Sex is not something you should be worrying about right now. Please stay away from this boy. I guarantee if you make the mistake of having sex with him today, he will not want to know who you are tomorrow and it will break your heart.
2007-10-09 09:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by brncntry79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably have to end it, because, I sure as h*** wouldn't jump into that after only three days of dating the dude. NO WAY! Respect yourself a bit, or can't you? Obviously that is all he wants from you. After her gets his little fun, he will be on to the next one. If that is what you want, or you really don't care ~ then go for it. You will have to live with yourself in the end!
2007-10-09 09:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? It sounds like you are in highschool. You might not care for this, but it's a huge sin.. if you're a Christian. Writing a note? If he can't even ask you it in person, why would you actually have sex? Three days! It depends if you're ready for it.. I know I wouldn't be after three days.
2007-10-09 09:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont **** him unless he is man enough to try to seduce you. But dont make him feel like he has to rape you to get it. Just let him "rise to the occassion" and take it like a real man should.
Women misinterpret men who ask for sex early as men who just want them for sex when really a lot of isecure men ask for sex early because they dont feel sexually comfortable and they want that reassurance from you that you like them.
2007-10-09 09:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by chicagoxc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's asking you for sex after ONLY 3 days...I think there's only one real reason why he's going out with you. Don't give in!! See if he sticks around without it!
2007-10-09 09:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi606 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say no. if you don't want to you shouldn't. i honestly think that it is too early for him to be asking for sex. and if he has to ask you through a note that means that he doesn't have the balls to ask you in person that's bad. that means that you guys don't have enought trust in your realtionship so sex is out of the question
2007-10-09 09:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by rocking the # 11 =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its rather too early for him to ask for sex. He will not see any value in you any more the moment you allow him. He will tell his friends he took you to bed just in a very short time. be warned...
2007-10-09 11:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no and break up he just want your 4 IT!!!
3days come on he is CRAZY
2007-10-09 09:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~frenchie~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not have sex until your old enough to to talk about it in person instead of through notes at school.
2007-10-09 09:31:35 · answer #11 · answered by midnightjoker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋