the reltionship was about a year
2007-10-09 10:28:07 · 50 answers · asked by Mel Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him, "Too bad loser, you had your chance, you blew it, and I am not going to get suckered in just because someone else discovered you were a loser too. Beat it!"
2007-10-09 10:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by rulestheroostwithkindness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances following the break-up. What made him do what he did? Has he identified the problem? Even so, do you trust he's changed? If you have even the slightest doubt (which I assume you do since you posted here), you should really consider how hard it will be for you to rebuild that trust. Every time he doesn't answer/return your call, you'll have those questioning thoughts. Every time a girl calls him or you see him interact with a girl, you'll question it. Can you deal with that? Also, consider what your friends and family say about it. I'm sure you've spoken to someone about this. Know that couples go through their fair share of problems. To date someone who's cheated on you is possible, but usually not without some form of relationship counseling. Be strong, good luck.
2007-10-09 10:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by christopher3712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore him all together. You cant move ahead in life if someone and something is holding you back.
I have very high morals/standards and would care about the cheating issue...at that point I would have written him off
some people may not care the cheating issue at all but I think you should not address the issue just life your life and live a good one ;)
you might retain a friendship with this person and things can be semi-normal but in the end I would cut the ties before there is more loss...
you are probably young and have your whole life ahead of you ;) keep your head up, make goals, move on and explore life
2007-10-09 10:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Amazing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY reason why he wants to go out with you right now
is cuz the person he cheated on you with doesn't want
anything to do with him anymore.
If you wanna be a booty call, thats up to you.
But he's already proven he is capable of cheating on you
once, the first time is always the most difficult, so expect him
to do it again, and he'll expect you to keep taking him back.
2007-10-09 10:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by babybeefcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were smart to break up with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't take him back...you will be in for another heartache and you will look like the fool for taking him back knowing his track record. Tell him sorry but that you are not willing to start up with him again and are not willing to end up in the same boat. Then move on and find a nice, respectible boy.
2007-10-09 10:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by kikio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about the situation and what he put you through before. Did you guys love each other? Why did he cheat on you? Did he feel bad for cheating? Are you willing to put your heart out on the line again and trust him? Reflect and think about if you really want to do it. Who knows, he might deserve a second chance.
2007-10-09 10:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go. He will cheat again. Then you will take him back and he will cheat again. he is using you.
It makes him feel good if he can take you up and put you down. What is more you know it otherwise you would not have asked this question here or anywhere else
2007-10-09 10:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have felling for him and you still like him going with him. But if your grossed out just break up with him. Cause if you don't want to get cheated again I would move away from him.
2007-10-09 11:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by iHeavenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could cut the break lines on his car. Seriously, why are you even giving him an open door..shut that door in his face girl!!! He is realizing how awesome you are and wants you back. Don't let him do that to you. There are guys out there who wont cheat and break your heart
2007-10-09 10:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to go through the exact same stuff that caused the breakup in the first place? How much more punishment in this relationship do you think you need?
2007-10-09 10:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, " Whatever his name is, I'd love to go out with you, but don't you have a date with whatever her name is tonight? Oh, okay. Good-bye. Call me when you decide to stop cheating on me. Wait, that's be about ten years from now, isn't it?"
2007-10-09 10:32:00 · answer #11 · answered by Lalalalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋