I've had my heart broken before.. and the pain was like nothing else. But, I dealt.. and I moved on. But now, my heart.. is literally, in pieces... I don't know what to do.
2007-10-09 20:22:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what you did before that helped you heal. Something to occupy yourself-- write in a diary about how you feel or talk to someone. It might not always help-- but it's better than nothing. I really do hope you feel better. <3 :3
2007-10-09 20:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, this made me so sad! I'm really sorry that you have to go through this. I know that heartbreak is one of the worst feelings in the entire world. And I do think a year and four months is a very significant amount of time. After all, many people get married after seeing each other for only a year. How to carry on though,,it's hard to say. I think the best thing to do is keep yourself occupied. Go out and see your friends. Go see a movie you've wanted to see for a while. Buy yourself something cool :) It's all about keeping busy and doing things that you can enjoy alone or with friends. Maybe then you'll realize how nice it is to be in control of your life and to only be responsible for yourself. Take this time to heal, and don't worry. It'll get better :) As for her reasoning, she clearly was not right for you if her love for you was only based on your looks. A little weight gain should not change her feelings towards you. Sure, she might feel less attracted to you, but attraction is not even that important after you establish a real relationship. Don't get hung up about this!
2016-05-20 22:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it. Get some comedy DVDs and some popcorn and spend late nights laughing at Ben Stiller or Eddie Murphy or somebody. When you start thinking about him, read the newspaper. Go shopping with your friends. Flirt with other guys. Think of all the annoying stuff about the other guy and what you no longer have to live with. Wear lipstick.
2007-10-09 20:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time helps, as does reading books on interpersonal communication and relationships. Sometimes, things just aren't your fault. The perspectives and wisdom of others can help you to see that, especially once the hurt has passed, and feelings of bitterness and emptiness start to set in.
Then, eventually... one day you realize that the only person still being hurt by the old relationship failing is you... and you recognize that it is time to move on with your life, to bigger and better things. To do otherwise is to die emotionally. So you grow stronger, as you enter your next relationship, and (hopefully) wiser as well.
2007-10-09 20:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O, I'm sure people will say time heals all and that kind of crap, but if you've been truly crushed you never fully recover. its happened 2x to me. 13 and 20 yrs ago and it still hurts. I'm happily married now. but there is still a hole or void or something, you know.
2007-10-09 20:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you've moved on before,why not move on the second time.. try to do things that interests you..go out with your friends..do the things that you missed..be a kid once in while..dont let your emotions conquer you..tell yourself that you can live without him/her..enjoy life..maybe hes/shes not the right one for you..dont go in a hurry..life is beautiful..goodluck..
2007-10-09 20:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two ingredients are necessary to put a heart back together: Time, and motivation.
2007-10-09 20:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by firerookie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get magic glue, strong and last along time
2007-10-09 20:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep smiling baby....and be grateful you aren't with the toe rag that hurt you.
2007-10-09 20:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by dollydagger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a meaningless fling!!
And I'm conveniently free!! ha!
2007-10-09 21:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by mAT2t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋