i just give them what they want, is that wrong ?
2007-10-09 19:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by Hindu-Atheist-Rebel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok someone said i will get hurt,, ha ha guess what, i am a player because of women who didnt appreciate me, i am pass that hurt stage, the only reason i play them is because they are with me because of reasons other then love, do you think im gonna play a decent women ? no way,
2007-10-09 19:55:24 · update #1
It's never bad to be a player and it's all good if everyone knows that it's just a game.
In this world you either play or get played.
2007-10-17 18:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From where i'm standing it looks as though you are not passed the hurt stage, cos if you were you wouldn't be a 'Player' you would get over the fact that you were hurt and realise that all women are not the same. You do come across the decent ones and one day if you keep this act of yours up you will get hurt and then you'd be asking yourself what was it all for? Why do you feel the need to be a player. So, in my opinion its wrong on so many levels not only will you hurt yourself but you are hurting those women you mistreat. No one likes to be played.
2007-10-09 21:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Livelovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I could give you an explanation, but I don't know whether you'd actually understan......
I believe a great majority of players know how to traet a woman right. They know what we want. That's exactly why they have so many good chances of having almost any woman. Let's call it a talent:)
But you may keep the woman happy while you're with her....but did it ever occur to you what happens to them when they find out you've been playing around.
Well, if the girl is fast & is cool with it...then no harm done.
But, what if she's the emotional & sentimental type who probably loved you or something.
You'd be breaking a heart!!! You'd be having fun at the expense of someone else's happiness.
That's not fair, is it?
What if someday you fall head over heels in love with a girl & find out she's been playing with you?
These things happen & they happen when you least expect them. So, be careful.....
So, either you should be careful about the girls you pick or not do it at all. We all know it's not good.
Why, would you wanna do something bad by choice?
Plus now there are all these scary Sexually Transmitted Diseases.....do you wanna take a risk?
I love my life. i'm sure you do too.
So, that's why I think playing around is bad:)
Hope that answered your question.
Cheers!
2007-10-09 19:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think deliberately deceiving anybody is cruel. If you are straight with everyone and you say "hey i am a playa, have no intention of being faithful", then I think its up to you. But pretending to be a nice guy when you are not is wrong.
And if you are trying to get back at those women who hurt you in the past - well is that fair? The women you date now are NOT the same women that hurt you in the past, so it doesnt justify your behaviour.
Its kind of like beating up a complete stranger on the street because you were beaten up by someone else. Doesnt that strike you as a little unbalanced?
2007-10-09 20:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"A player"....my understanding is they play with emotions. It is akin to being a bully only more subtle becasue they are nice and con the woman before delivering the pain. Not only delivering pain but in some cases lasting damage....this is unforgivable and evil. I can almost see you smiling as you cause hurt......is that really who you are? Lies destroy the receiver and the giver eventually because through the lies you loose yourself.
One day you too will hurt .............over something or someone..........and it might be a wake up call.
2007-10-09 21:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a player is bad because you hurt people. I dated a few players back in my day and they broke my heart! I told myself i'm not going to get to serious, i'm going to be a great girlfriend which I was and they cheated on me. Girls tell you that they don't want a relationship, they don't want to get serious but they do the only reason they say that is because they want to be with you.
Trust me it's just not worth it, having something with hot chicks yah that's nice but you will be known as a player in other words a dog and when the right one comes along she will never trust you.
What goes around comes around!
2007-10-09 20:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mel G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are upfront about being with many women, and don't lie to anyone to get sex, it should be OK.
Of course, you should also use LOTS of protection, and get tested for STDs regularly. As long as you act like a mature, responsible adult, I see no reason why anyone should look down on you.
2007-10-09 19:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Marc M 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
cos u dont love the person you only want to go out with somone to sleep with etc then do the same with annother and so on
2007-10-09 21:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by ak222002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some body will play you then see how you like the boot being on the other foot!
2007-10-09 21:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you don't give a women everything she wants, because most women that i have met didn't just want sex, they don't think ohhh want i want for the rest of my life is to sleep with dirtbags who just want me for my body, but hey if thats all you want then fine, but i do hope you feel what you do to women.
2007-10-09 20:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kemodo 344™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋