i feel horribe for doing this but i actually do love him as more than a dad but i know that i need to tell her that her husband is cheating on her with her own daughter, im just afraid to tell her i dont want her to stop loving me because i love her husband.
2007-10-12 19:43:23 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the truth always comes out, you should be the one to tell her. because if she finds out another way like walking in on you two, she will be a lot more angry than if you come clean.
2007-10-12 19:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jack2116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So does your mother and telling her you love him too and not as a step dad would kill her knowing her own daughter was having sex with him.Look it takes two and I bet you wanted it as bad as he did.You both cheated on her, she trusted him alone with you thinking he loved her enough not to do any thing.If you love your mother and care about her feelings you will end this before it goes to far.You have a long life ahead of you and after the feeling are gone you will find another men.Don't take a way her chance at love becouse he can't keep it in his pants on.No you can't tell her what you two did behind her back.She thinks he loves her don't take that away from her she is not as young as you this maybe her last chance at love.if you love your mother as much as she loves you, you will end it with him.You need to find some one your own age and let her have her dream of a better life.Even if it's one sided.
2007-10-12 20:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my advice...STOP having sex with him...as soon as possible...but be really careful about how you tell your mom...did he seduce you or rape you or force you or anything like that? If this is the case then you HAVE to tell her...
If you are underage he could be in a lot of trouble and go to jail.
But if that's not the case...its going to cause some real problems for all of you that you all may not be able to put behind you...be really sure you want to do all of that before you tell her...
Think about how important the relationships are to all of you...
I hope this helps you in some way...
Good Luck!
2007-10-12 19:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by gajeff47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mother about what happened between you and your stepdad. It is expected that your mom will get hurt because you stole her husband. It is just normal. She might get mad and she might slap you but i think you deserve that. Why? because you cheat on her, of all people it is you. Her dear daughter. How much hurt can she get.. you should also ask forgiveness and if she still can't give you that it is her right. settle everything with your mom and stepdad.. You shoukd alsoask your stepdad if he really loves you or not.
2007-10-12 19:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by ApCyuMz_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this man, although not related to you by blood, is supposed to represent a father figure in your life. Second of all, if you love your mother as you claim to, you never would have gone there with your stepfather.
You and your stepdad need to tell your mother. If she kicks both of you out of the house I wouldn't blame her. This is going to break your mother's heart, so don't be surprised if she doesn't speak to you for a very, very long time.
2007-10-12 19:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, If you are under 18 you need to call your local police agency and tell your mother about it.
If you are 18 and over, you need to stop it immediately because it is only going to get worse and it will be a very sad thing that you wouldnt wish on your worst enemy.
2007-10-12 19:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by EddieX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sex abuse whether you love him or not unfortunately. This man is cheating on your mom, & using you. It's easy to fall for someone when they make us feel beautiful & loved but the way he's going about it is all wrong. And if your underage.....you NEED to tell someone.
I say go to a school counselor first, then your mom. In fact the counselor may help you tell your mom. She may be angry or disbelieving at first, then hurt, then in full-on protective mode over you. Be prepared.
Go to someone you trust & tell. Please. This isn't your secret to keep...it's his.
2007-10-12 19:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by mkt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's more important to you-your mom or the man SHE chose to spend HER life with? If the answer is your mom (which it should be), end the relationship NOW! Tell your mom or dont tell your mom thats your decision but you need to end the relationship because thats just wrong and obviously this guy is just using you for one thing!
2007-10-12 19:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way... you love your mom right? so if you were to pick a life partner out for her, would you pick a man like him? If you woudl then it's disturbing. You know step dad or not..ur having sex with a married man... Is this guy really worth it. If ur really young and he's really old, then this issue is fcuked up to even bother with.
Leave him..pronto..
You love a man who betrayed you mom and slept with u despite being married. ::claps:: and I thought my relationship was messed up
2007-10-12 19:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur mother as soon as possible if u dont want to lose a father. Do u know if u dont tell ur mother, what result u have? The result will more worst than u imagine.
2007-10-12 19:55:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you should get some couseling and tell your mom that her hubby is cheating on her with her daughter...how could you do that to the woman that brought you into this world? With family like you who needs enemies.
2007-10-12 19:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by scorpio_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋