why people can't control there anger, why boys are more aggressive than girls?

Answer 1

I can show you plenty of women that are much worse than men........ anyone can control their temper if they really wanted to.... many people just find it easier to blow their top rather than show restraint

Answer 2

Last first: Boys are more aggressive because their brains are designed to be that way, at least generally. You do realize that there are some girls who are far more aggressive than some boys, right?

First last: Some people cannot control their anger because they don't want to and don't try. Some people have personality, behavior, or mental health problems that interfere with judgment and executive functioning. Most of these people could improve with training or treatment. Some people cannot control their anger because of hormonal or chemical imbalances. They need treatment too.

Answer 3

Anger is just one of a range of socially evolved emotions which have been hard-wired into humans in order to avoid physical conflict. If you show someone you are angry, they will either back down or show you that they are even angrier - in which case it is up to you to back down.

Boys are merely learning how this works, just like learning to give eye-contact during conversations.

Girls use different tactics to avoid physical conflict, which are based on signalling an unwillingness to be aggressive. Mind you, when they let go, they are more physically violent than boys.

Answer 4

In spite of the distorted Homosexual perception of humanity.

The "normal" male as Nature intended, is Hard-Wired to be physically bigger and the stronger of the sexes and equipped accordingly to "Protect", "Provide", and "Procreate".

Consequently temperaments and the plumbing fixtures are tuned/adjusted differently accordingly ... via Hormones.

To Protect, Provide,and Procreate requires agressivity at times.

Anger Management is an aquired skill and those that can't control it may need anything from medication and a Shrink, to
Life in The Pen!

Somehow OJ got neither thanks to a MORONIC Neanderthal Jury!

Gabisha paisana!

Answer 5

A good part of this is stress. A huge lack of self control. Boys are bully cause they are bigger than women, with that feel they can lash out. Men, I mean MEN in general are not agressive that much. Anyone who have dignity and respect of themselves do respect others, then don't agress anybody. Fair enough? My opinion.

Answer 6

Man was given control over everything on this earth which means he needs aggression to take charge of everything. Woman however was made to be a "COMPANION" to man which means she needs to listen and do everything that man says. And women, if you find this offensive, im sorry but its true.

Answer 7

Actually, .....even though i was married to two very very abusive men, i am STILL inclined to say NO WAY! that is absolutely not true!
My Daddy is the most gentle man in the whole world and my two brothers are just like him, even tempered, not a mean bone in them! And my young 8 year old son, my ONLY son, (i have 3 daughters) is my Sweetest tempered child!!!! LOL
So........i have to WAY disagree with that. although, my son DOES take after ME, its after my family trait, its just the way my whole family is...HIS daddy is very violent and my daughters daddy also....
but my Daddy, never in all my life have i EVER seen him raise his voice..EVER....and only once did i hear my brother yell. ONCE. as a little kid. lol

Answer 8

Not sure i think they are just that way , but i have seen a lot of girls be angry and some of my friends who are boys are not an angry person

Answer 9

Physical nature is part of it, but its not all hormonal. Girls are just as agressive, they just express it differently and usually more subtly.

Answer 10

testosterone,yes but it is also a chemical in balance in their brain.could be from drugs and other things.there are some ral angry idiots out there.there is no need for it they are idiots.