i mean, i'm still a virgin and i came from a "conservative" family but i really do wanna have se/x.. this is maybe due to curiousity..im only 19 by the way..
2007-10-12 21:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by czai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm older and still a virgin
If you are a Christian, and you care about what the Bible says about not having sex until marriage, then follow the Bible
If you don't care about Jesus or the Bible, then it's your choice
2007-10-12 21:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Zsazsa A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously old enough to have sex and everyoe has their own opinion as whether it is "ok" or not to have sex before marriage or whether you are too young, etc... This is your life, your choice. I would say not to rush into it, wait until you are ready and are with a person you really care about and love. If and when you do decide to have sex, just be careful...practice using a condom...buy a pack, practice taking it out of the package correctly, unrolling correctly, and not ripping it...you dont want to be a teen parent. since you are a girl, you obviously cant practice on yourself, but read the instructions and i heard some girl have practiced on something like a bananna...lol...i know it sounds silly, but you will need to pt it on correctly to protect yourself and your partner from having baby and from STD's.
2007-10-12 22:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that crosses your inner beliefs and anything that you'll regret later on--if you're only doing if for the pleasure or the sake of it, it's not worth the trouble. 19 is still young enough! You have your whole life ahead of you--I wouldn't rush into anything like this if I were you. Personally, I believe in waiting for the right person and after marriage--it makes it so much more special and memorable. Also when you do it with someone, it's like giving them a piece of yourself than you can't get back to give to anyone else if you later find the right one for you :) Hope that helps.
2007-10-12 22:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're of age, so I suppose that is a personal choice. If you feel like you're ready to roll in the sheets with someone, then by all means go for it.
Just be sure she's legal too :)
Anyways........it is ok to have sex.
It's your life and you never know when it's going to end, so why spend the entire time molding yourself and your values around what society thinks is "right" and "wrong.?"
Do what you feel is right, and if wanting to have sex is weighing on your mind...then sure....no time like the present right?
2007-10-12 21:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to have sex after another 6-7 years with your wife, it is OK. Otherwise, you still have my respect because you are a virgin. Do not do something unbecoming of your family background!
2007-10-12 21:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex, go ahead. Just make sure the occasion and the partner are of your choosing...and don't forget protection. Babies and STDs can really ruin your life.
Don't expect too much the first time around...for many of us it was over even before we really had a chance to enjoy it. It gets better with practise, trust me.
2007-10-12 22:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not ok. unless u r ready for a huge responsibility! Don do it yet... u've got plenty of years ahead of u. Sex shud be with some1 that u care, n love. It should be special. Not sth that u just play around cos of curiousity!! Think rationally...
2007-10-12 21:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to, then you have to make sure protection is used at all times. "Meaningless sex" leads to babies being born every day and a lifetime worth of responsibility.
2007-10-12 21:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by SW1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have sex miss i cannot see why not.
go for it!!!!!
advice tho; use protection of some kind.
if you are on the pill or make sure the guy wears a rubber!!!!
important.
can you do that...
william.
intercourse692@yahoo.com
2007-10-12 22:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married then you can have sex! because they say sex before marriage is a sin
2007-10-12 21:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by â?}-{annA]-[?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋