Singles & Dating - 14 October 2007

for a night and not cared about it the next morning?

2007-10-14 23:59:24 · 10 answers · asked by Dylangirl 6

Like if you've been chatting to a girl for say 4 hours every single night for about three weeks and you've both seen pics and been on webcam and both planning to meet each other say next month, can you fall in love with someone even if you haven't met them face to face in person?

2007-10-14 23:51:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

at video games. She really sucks but she hates to lose and I feel bad but it is really hard not to win, even with out trying. She can't make it past the first part on halo by herself. Whenever we play i pwn her and I beat her pretty bad. I've tried to let her win but it is really really hard.

2007-10-14 23:46:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 23:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've never had this happen to me before...I'm in love with my girlfriend and I was so stressed this past month that it drew her away from me to the point at where she wanted a break. I'm so pissed at myself and the situation.
To make things worse I got my act together in less than 2 weeks and she still isn't showing any interest in wanting to be back together. She was also stressed that month and we had 2 big nothing fights.
We discussed why we're taking a break; which was because she said I was a different person and we both agreed we had been creating a facade for each other. I don't know what to do...I want her back so bad, but it all seems hopeless. It's barely been 2 weeks since we broke and its felt like a month and she doesn't notice....
Also, I broke her privacy border by accident.. showing up to her house to do my laundry cause you know it's free at her house. She did not look happy at all; she didn't say a word to me nor did she smile. Did I **** up really bad?

2007-10-14 23:33:35 · 7 answers · asked by Karl D 2

When I went out with my friends, we went past a restaurant and I looked through the window and I saw my boyfriend kissing a girl passionately so I went home and I threw his clothes out on the front lawn and turned the sprinklers on. When he came home he got really pissed and he gave me back my house keys. And he said it was his sister that I haven’t met (when he doesn’t even have a sister) when he had a hickie on his neck. I slapped him and closed the door. He drove off. Did I over react? He keeps SMSing me saying that he is sorry and leaving me notes on the front door saying that he is sorry, too. What do I do?

2007-10-14 23:33:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? I went out with him only to talk because I thought he was a nice guy but, boy he showed me another side of him! I didn't fall for any of his advances. I have to take the transit he drives, I really don't want to speak to him ever again! What do I do when I come face to face with him?? I feel really bad that I went out with him knowing he is married(even though he says he's in the middle of a divorce) yeah right!! He was trying to touch and fondle me and stuff , I was so uncomfortable I never thought that he was like that!! After he brought me home, he didn't call me anymore, not that I wanted him to. I really believe he thought I was a quick lay or something but, I suprised him.God knows I've never acted or carried myself like he was thinking of me!! Should I not speak to him when I see him again? I really think he's upset that I didn't fall for his advances. I think I will speak to him. Just to show him that I am a woman of good quality and character! The jerk!!!!

2007-10-14 23:27:42 · 3 answers · asked by Kari L 2

2007-10-14 23:27:17 · 5 answers · asked by Linda Fallsrock 2

I give the worlds BEST BJ's and sometimes he doesn't even want that. But I don't want to smother him either and push him away.

2007-10-14 23:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by perkins51371 1

The whole "ladies first" thing. Is it overrated?

2007-10-14 23:08:51 · 9 answers · asked by asourapple100 4

ever since he left for college, we've been trying to work out this relationship. Its never really been a healthy one from the start..but i can't help but stick around because of how much i feel for him..i've done so much for him so its hard for me to let it go.
i KNOW i should forget about him because of mistreatment, but like i said..i can't let go.
normally when he says its over..he ends up calling me anyway. what should i do? should i continue to work it out and deal with the stress? or deal with the stress of trying to forget him??

2007-10-14 23:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 22:16:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

the boy i like at work made a flirtatious gesture at another girl.. i reacted by turning around and quickly saying goodbye and leaving the room in a hurry... ( i was finishing my shift)
before i left the room he called after me and said hope you have a great day, and was laughing ... which in turn made me smile....

why was he trying to make me jelous? Is he just trying to test my feelings?

2007-10-14 21:53:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got out of a long term relationship 5yrs + about 6 months ago. Finally, I became interested in a guy at work, he's was really nice to me, always happy to see me and we got on like a house on fire. I gathered my courage and tell him how I feel about him. He said he's only want to be my friend, nothing else. He's not attracted to asian girls due to bad experience from his past. Im devastated. This really knocked me down, I dont know what to do now. Will there ever be a chance he'll re-considered me or thats it?

2007-10-14 21:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by Noeyedeer 1

Right me and my bf was together today and it was down a park and he turn round and goes to me is that bull **** u got on as perfume or something and i could of felt like crying bcause it wasnt and i had deoderant and a really nice perfume on and it cant of been me it must of been the dogs around us like but what would you say back if that was your bf who said that to you cause i just said nothing as i felt so upset by it and uncomftable when he said that cause it made me feel like i smell so i sprayed perfume when he wasnt looking but i could of cried can anyone help?? :(
he did hug me after, but when he said it he was like *sniff sniff sniff* then said is that bullshit your wearing for perfume he said it like twice but he brought me a perfume before for my birthday but i also took that as a way that he thinks i smell but i dont cause lots of my friends said i love ur perfume&that but now im so concious! but im not gettin rid of him i love him to bits and he loves me 2 =] ne advice?

2007-10-14 21:23:00 · 32 answers · asked by Lois R 1

Why man like to hurt women they love?bring them out people think they are happy,but are they?it so suffer they are born for men to show of,because they are pretty,but behind the screen,we batter don't want to know a lot,is batter to leave a man like that.love is pain and hurt,i never go into it for all my life,i want to work,praise god,i was given back my dignity in God.

2007-10-14 21:08:10 · 1 answers · asked by Hui Meng C 2

ok ley me fill you in with the detaisl. i met this girl from one of my friends that also happens to be a girl. well the first day we met we had both had liqour. so we end up making out and she spends the night at my house. for the next 2 days she keeps sending me txt messeges how she thinks about me and all this so she stays at my house for a few days but we dont have sex. well one day we have an argument and she goes back home i dont hear from her for days then she txt me that shes mad and to leave her alone i said ok. later on that day she yells me she just wants to be friends. if his was the first time something like this happens i wouldnt work my self over as much. but in the past theres been several situations where me and a girl are interested in each other but then they tell me "lets just be friends" need help please what am i doing wrong im tired of hearing this over and overagain how do i avoid it? this began about 2 weeks and she told me yesturday can i still change it aroun

2007-10-14 20:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by rydeordie07 2

hang on too it for as long ;as you can .the adventure is timeless .

2007-10-14 20:38:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just had a breakup.. what should i do.. i wanna suicide..

2007-10-14 20:37:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

LIKE OMG I CANNOT EVEN BREATH, TODAY I'M GONNA SPEAK WITH MY CRUSH (HE'S SO HOT, HE LOOKS JUST LIKE TOM WELLING BUT EVEN HOTTER). ANYWAY, HE'S GONNA BE ALONE PLAYING BASKETBALL ON THE BASKETBALLL COURT TODAY AND I HAVE NO CLASSES, SO LIKE YEA, MAYBE I CAN SPEND THE 1ST PERIOD WITH HIM, RIGHT??SHOULD I TALK TO HIM WHILE HE'S PLAYING BASKETBALL, LIKE INTERRUP HIM?????? AND LIKE MY FRIEND KARA THINKS (I AGREE) THAT IF I SPEND THE BREAK WITH HIM TOO IT MEANS THAT I HAVE GOOD CHANCES WITH HIM. YAY. AFTER THE 1ST PERIOD (TO SPEND THE BREAK WITH HIM) SHOULD I JUST KEEP TALKING OR ASK HIM IF HE MINDS IF I SPEND THE BREAK WITH HIM????????

THANKS YA'LL!!!!!!

2007-10-14 20:20:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many dates? When did you tell yourself," I love him/her"?

2007-10-14 20:19:12 · 22 answers · asked by 21questions 4

We got tickets to the Raiders/ Chargers game as a gift from his parents to us ( they were given to me) I'm not AS big of a fan as he is ( well I'd call him a fanatic not just a fan) but I really like football. Plus they were playing for first place and it against the raiders for god sake, and we hadn't been out together in forever I was really excited about going with him. Great seats and I love sharing something that makes him so excited. but when I woke up Saturday morning to him talking to his friend. He said "Yeah I know it sucks but I feel obligated cause my dad gave them to her" I was really really hurt. I understand that he might have had different fun with a guy friend. And I told him to take someone else because I didn't want to be where I wasn't wanted. but it was a lie kinda. I wanted to go so bad. What should I do. He's being really difficult about it( I know I over reacted too we had a big fight). I need an outsiders view, specialy a guys point of veiw. please help

2007-10-14 20:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Brizzie 2

2007-10-14 20:03:40 · 17 answers · asked by uxor01 2

i went out with this guy last year and he cheated on me!i told myself i would never get back with him ever again.well my friend had a party sat. and he came well we talked and i started feeling for him again.sun. i asked him out and he said that he would think about it but i dont think i made a good chose of asking him out again.what should i do?

2007-10-14 19:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by chasity b 1

that will make you go crazy. my girlfriend and i had some problems in the past and i started talking to someone else because i was very unsure about us. i broke of the phone affair because it was wrong and i felt like dirt. a long time went by but i still thought about her a lot and eventually left my girlfriend and started seeing the other woman. the other woman is great but i have realized that i'm very much in love with my ex. my ex still calls, text and sends pictures of us together. when i ask her if i could ever come back she says trust is a *****. i understand she is mad but then why still call text, send pictures. i have made up y mind to stop my relationship with the woman i'm seeing now because it's unfair to her if my heart is somewhere else. i plan to take a break and give my ex her space. if she forgives me great if not, hey i learned a hard lesson and will always have regrets. is there anything i can tell my ex to get to her heart and make her see how i loveherandundersta

2007-10-14 19:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by doormat 1

Here's the thing, I'm 21. And I go to this church & I'm a choir director of a small group. So this guy is in my group & for the last few months I've noticed he acts differently around me. I know that his family and mine hang out & stuff and that's one of the reasons why he might seem more comfortable with me but there have been times I've caught his staring at me from the podium(he plays an instrument during service) & in other places, & he's also done other things like him sharing his iPod with me or letting me borrow (I never ask for it) his iPod (he's kinda over protective of his iPod), he waved goodbye to me with an odd smile & look in his eye one time, when our families go out he usually asks if I'm coming along & if i say i dont know he usually tells me i should go, when he gets to use my camera he sometimes takes pics of me when I don't look and etc. Thing is, I have not led him on in any way, i don't have an interest in him but I just find it kinda odd. What are your opinions?

2007-10-14 19:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by tralala508 1

me and this guy are going out and we are rather perfect for each other.. he loves me but i am three years younger than him. he knows this and accepts it because he loves me for me and the person that i am. he tells me he dosent care how old i am because age is just a number, but he tells all of his friends that i am two years older than i am.. If he dosent care how old i am then why does he lie,, well i look older than i am so i can pull it off, but it feels weird and now he is telling me that he wants me to meet his parents but i have to say i am 15 because his parents would say i am too young for him (keep in mind i am very muture for my age and act older than i am).. i dont know why he keeps lying???? does anyone else know.. and what should i do about his parents???? please help.. i would really appreciate it

2007-10-14 19:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex (Amanda) she looks gorgeous, I can be myself around her. we went out for 2 a half years and then the the other half we were on and off. When we first started going out, I broke up with her because she was going to move to Tennessee we live in Florida. I freaked out, got scared. I hate long distance relationships. A week later I talked into going back out with me. We were good but then she broke up with me because the stress of her moving after from me was to much. So we broke up and she told me to started dating other people... I didn't want to so I keep trying to get her back. Being her friend and hanging out with her flirting then kissing. She cheated on 3 boyfriends with me and would run back to them the next day. So I finally took her advice and get a new crush (heather). Amanda had a new boyfriend but gets jealous and tells heather to stay away from her man. Both girls are great with look n personality but not brains. =\ so Im bummed. E-mail me @ jonnyf14@aol.com w/ advice

2007-10-14 19:20:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what happened we was dated for about 5 months and 3or 4 months in he ytold me he had cheated on me with his ex i fell in love with him so i tryed to work it out after about a month though i was getting all stressed out from crying and worrying that he was cheating one me i broke up with him this was about a month or two ago i've recently noticed i still have feelings for him but we havent talked since what should i do should i get a hold of him and tell him all this??

2007-10-14 19:19:21 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole M 1

my bf has always moved slow with me because i have had bad experiences with guys i know he is ready to kiss me but is afraid to do so because he dose not want to scare me but now i'mready and don't know how to tell him please i need some help please awncer if you can

2007-10-14 19:14:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous