Singles & Dating - 14 October 2007

ok since you are reading this what is the deal with you guys with like the thousands and thousands of points for like answering all these questions... do you not have anything better to do then sit on the friggin computer and answer all these questions... and after saying that do you get anything if you do... i mean that is sort of like the whole thing like on my space all you lamo's typing out those lame surveys get a life and live it losers... and further more if you think i am lame for typing this and you try to put me on the same level as you step off cuz i gotta ole lady and i def dont sit on here all the time doing something as lame as that... plz share your comments thoughts and what not peace holmes

2007-10-14 17:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by smiles 1

until i find a girlfriend i am so sad

im so lonely and i dont have any frinedss out of school and if i had a girlfriend shed be with me the whole day

i wish a had a friend to share all my feelings to

am i a loser for saying i wish i had a girlfriend to share all my feelings to?

i wish i had one friend that i could spend the rest of my life with and be happy with her

im 17 and im so sad, i enjoy listening to sad songs and this prevents me from doing hw

i just wish i had a girl that cared about me so i wont be so lonely

2007-10-14 17:41:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been datind this guy for about 1 month, last nit he got hit by a car and came to the hospital where i work he asked to be brought here b/c he wanted to be with me, I went to the emergency room to be with him and the EMT pulled me to the side and told me that I seemed like a nice girl and he felt compelled to tell me that the guy I was dating had told him that I was his weekday g/f and that he was out w/ his weekend g/f. and that the girl he was w/ (which my b/f claims was just a friend) didn't know how old he was, he apparently told the EMT not to say his age in front of the girl (she was 18 he's 31), I actually talked to the girl and thanked her for coming to the hosp. w/ him. My b/f denies ever doing any of this he swore he NEVER said any of these things but why would the EMT guy lie, I don't know him and he sais he was just trying to look out for me b/c I seemed like a nice person who din't deserve to be w/ a jerk like that, my b/f denies everything, Who should I believe?

2007-10-14 17:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by Danny82 2

ok so theres this guy lets call him mike- i think he lies me cuz i ee him looking at me all the time but i think he likes someone else cuz i see him checking out other girls

i like him a lot but hes very poplular while im not that popular-i mean i have friens just not as many as he does...

another thing is im a big ugly *** seriously i look the worst out of all girls at school i like to dress up and sometimes i do and put on makeup but sometimes i dont do anyhting at all i just go as if i just came out of bed but i still see him staring at me, no matter what. i want to ask him to this dance which is coming up, on nov 8 how should and should i even ask him? i know ill look pretty at the dance but i dont wanna be rejected plz help me

2007-10-14 17:26:51 · 12 answers · asked by milli 1

boyfriend is nice how do i beack up with him in get over it
the rison i am beacking up with him is becuasei want to go with another boy that is older in that byes me thing in gives me money when i ask i am 9 in the i am with is 9 in i am looking for a boy that is 10 or 11

2007-10-14 17:24:57 · 9 answers · asked by Tatiyana W 1

I've been talkin to him for 1 year and a half alreready, he is 10 years older than me, he lives in NY and I live in CA but I'm moving out to NY next year to work, we trust, care, and 'love' (he says he loves me and can't let go of me yet) each other, we share everything. We talk on the phone almost everyday. I don't make any plans with him for the future and I don't illusionate my self with this guy. Oh and we've never seen each other in person, we are planning to do it though sooner or later.

2007-10-14 17:19:18 · 12 answers · asked by Ana 1

Its cause I been skatin for 2 months and now I want to play the guitar.
And im 14 years old.
and I told my freinds, and they said dude, ur nuts, u want to be a good skater and now u want to play guitar, u have to consintrate in one thing only, skate or guitar.

IS it true im nuts.

2007-10-14 17:03:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im dating this guy and he has things about him I want to change nothing major and not really things that if they didnt change I couldnt deal with, but it got me thinking that maybe he is better off with someone who loves everything about him, I told him that I was thinking that and told him to give me a reason to stay.... and he couldnt give me a reason, I mean I know hes not the best with words. but then later i told him I was hungry and he asked me where I wanted to go and I said I dunno you chose and he got angry how I never choose somewhere even though i was the only one hungry, but when i wanted him to give me a reason to stay, or even when we talk about anything serious he doesnt say anything... whats up with that?

2007-10-14 17:03:08 · 13 answers · asked by Lostandconfussed 1

My ex broke up with me (it'll be a week this coming Tuesday) but I am still so much in love with him. We've been talking on and off on the internet and now I haven't heard from him in almost these past 2 days. I've been talking to his friends and now they won't answer my ims. I'm worried he's telling them not to talk to me...
I really want him back...I feel like he's the one...I've im'd him with talking over coffee and just being face to face and haven't gotten any replies...I'm thinking of calling him just to see how he's doing...Is it wrong that I want to see how he's doing? This is what I typed to him today: ...i just wanna say that I really want to keep you as a friend...i love you and still care alot about you...i think us staying friends is the first step is overcoming what happened between us and starting off fresh.

He's told me he misses me and wants to be close to me...so then why is he trying to push me away? (i feel he's trying to push me away)

Please help...

2007-10-14 16:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1

okay so my boyfriend's mom told him that i was a controlling gf becuz i asked my bf can he come over cuz i was bored and then he said okay and then i drove down to pick him up. and i tuold him can he plz hurry cuz it was cold,she was talking ti him and then when he got in the car he told me his mom said that i was controlling.? wtf?...well is she being like this? i didnt mean to rush him

2007-10-14 16:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2

If you unlock the door for a girl and walk to the other side of the car are you really hoping that she unlocks your door. Is that really a test?

The only reason I know that is because a guy opened my door and then I unlocked the back door for my friend. Then I get in he shuts both the doors and walks around the back. My friend starts to tell me "hurry unlock the door!" I'm like "what" quick unlock it and so I reach over and unlock it. He gets in and he is like really exicited and says "Girls don't usually do that" I reply I didn't know that your suppost too. (Joy) told me I was suppost to." I've been doing it ever since except when I forget and recently the husband told me if we were on a date I would fail. Ooops. I didn't know it was an actual test. After that incident I thought that it was just poliet.

2007-10-14 16:51:14 · 6 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6

I've had four relationships in the past year, none of them lasted more than a few weeks, and there was never any real reason for the breakup, we usually just sort of drift apart. I often receive the compliment that I am a gentleman, that I'm courteous, chivalrous, sensitive, and that I'm cute. I've always heard women/girls say that they want a gentleman, someone who will be sensitive and honest with them, unlike all the other jerks that just want to get in their pants. Granted, I did keep unnecessary things to myself, but if asked questions regarding the two of us, I tell the truth.

Basically my question is: Do girls want a guy that will have the respect for them to tell them the truth, provided that he is asked a sensible question? Or do they just want someone who will tell them what they want to hear, regardless of whether it's true or not? Personally, I'd rather be respected than have someone kiss up to me. Anyone want to make sense of this?

2007-10-14 16:48:31 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

for those of u who have, it hurts, doesn't it?

2007-10-14 16:48:23 · 19 answers · asked by Caity 4

Dont tell me how a man treats his mom is how he will treat you.Its bs

2007-10-14 16:46:05 · 18 answers · asked by innocentheartbreakerr 1

For me its been 3 times

2007-10-14 16:37:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anyway I can test his interest. Should I move on?
What would you do?

2007-10-14 16:33:33 · 11 answers · asked by Hm 1

i am really frustrated at myself right now.
i cant seem to FLIRT! Everytime a guy starts flirting with me, i accidentally push him away, because i dont know what to do or say, i just like smile and look down. i really want to flirt back to keep the conversation going, but i keep giving them the wrong message and they back off.
theres a guy i like, and he flirts with me all the time. he recently started backing off because i made him think i dont like him.
help me???? all i need to know is what to do, then i wont be so nervous.

you dont need to tell me confidence is the key, because i know that. but if i had something to be confident about like the skill to flirt, then i will be fine.

help???

2007-10-14 16:32:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my bf was SO anoyin wen i didnt hold his hand then wen i finally did b/c if i didnt he wuldnt shutup!!
but now he has tried to kiss me and i am afraid that he will agravate me like he did about my hand until i do kiss him
and the truth is i dont want to kiss him i dont really want him to be my first kiss to tell the truth b/c i really dont feel tat way tat strong
and now it is weird wen ever we are watchin sumthing alone b/c im scared he will try AGAIN!!
so any advice?!

2007-10-14 16:27:06 · 16 answers · asked by LM 2

i have prayed, stop talking to the people i flirted with. no matter what i do , i feel the need to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend. its like i dont wanna lose my boyfriend (well at the moment im so mad at him, i dont care at the moment) but i cant stop flirting i have even told people that im tryna stay commited so leave me alone, and the next thing u know. i flirting again. what should i do?

2007-10-14 16:24:45 · 18 answers · asked by onesensitivepoet 2

No one thinks its a good idea to have sex when you first me someone.. I think we all agree on that! But ladies, is there a time period that has to go by before you think its right to become intimate, or does this just depend on how attracted you are to that guy.. Come on girls.. be honest now!

2007-10-14 16:20:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel funny asking this but there's this guy in one of my classes. He's kind of known as the "bad boy of the school" or whatever, but I find him pretty endearing nonetheless. He's shown some interest in me, just looking at me a lot, and trying to make random conversation with me. The other day he walked past me and twirled his finger in my ear. I was kind of confused why he did this??? (and why my ear of all places?)

Any clarification is great, thanks!

2007-10-14 16:20:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a bf right now, and i love him so much, were both 18, im a virgin so im not really ready to give this up. but i promised him that after our college graduation in 2 and a half years, i`d give this as a gift. that is, if he`ll last.
anyway, i was talkin to him today when he stumbled on some questions about my ex. so i told him the truth about what me and my ex did, (my ex touched my breast, well thats the farthest thing we did). then my bf said that he was disappointed..so i asked "if i wasnt a virgin anymore, would you leave me?" then he said "probably"...

i dont know..im a little confused, i dont think he loves me that much to accept me if i wasnt a virgin..

p.s.
i told him that the after graduation thing is off.

2007-10-14 16:16:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy who is your friend drinks from your cup and does not mind the girls' saliva...is that an indication of something? Does that mean he likes you more than a friend or am I just being silly? My guy friend drank out of my cup today when I did not want the drink and he does have a girlfriend. I know it's just something very simple but do guys generally just drink out of the girl's cup since supposedly guys don't care about saliva?

2007-10-14 16:14:23 · 19 answers · asked by Jordin K 5

ok, i reely REELY lke thz guy at my skool and ive liked him all throlast yeer too, and i think he likes me bak, but im jst not sure...


iz thre ethng i could do to make him kno tht i lke him w/o acctuallytelling him or asking him out?

2007-10-14 16:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is a serious question so please no rude answers.. thanks :-/

2007-10-14 16:04:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

So she (girl I talk to everyday; good friend) just come up to me and says "I have a secret" and I ask her what it was and to tell me and she was like "no" and I asked her later how large it was and she said "fairly large." I am texting with her right now and I brought it back up about the secret and asked her who does it deal with. She said "you" and I asked "Who all knows" and she said "me and jane" (a friend of hers that went along with her on vacation this week) and and then I asked her "What percentage does this secret have to deal with me?" She said "probably 50" and I said, "Will I ever find out this secret?" and she said "No.. Probably not..." and then I said "Seriously! Like ever in my life?" and she said "Yes". WHAT COULD IT BE?

2007-10-14 16:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets say a guy broke up with you once, then you wanted to work things out and did, then 3 days later he said he was cheating and still engaged. then u say u hate him and never will speak to him again if you can help it, then w eek later he text you sayin he loves you and wants you back you say you dont know, then he sends you flowers and says text me tomorrow if i still have a chance, you do. then he wants to meet but you are reluctant to do so, so he gets angry and calls you fat ugly stupid smellly, verbal abuse.then he brings a girl to your workplace and you hang around for a bit then just get up and leave work. then he says sorry and wants to work things out but everytime you want to give him another chance he fs it up. then he keeps sayin he loves you and misses you, then he asks if relation is too damaged you say yea, ut then he says let me fix things, you say ok but things will be diferent im starting fresh. i shouldn love someone like you. what do you hink of the sutuation?

2007-10-14 15:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay soooo here is a file for my pictures just go to my myspace and request as a friend then you can look at them it is myspace.com/prettygirl24 and then my other ? is I am trying to change my picture on yahoo answers and I changed my avatar but when I go to edit profile it dosen't show any changes to my picture.If you look at my picture tell me if I am hott or not!Only teen boyzz answer no scary pedifiles rawr

2007-10-14 15:49:13 · 15 answers · asked by sunshine_britt 2

i feel like i fell in love with someone ealse i do love my husband its just that i have feelings for somone ealse. i dont know what to do. someone help please i cant tell him but i dont know how to tell him could anyone help

2007-10-14 15:40:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hes 18 but we love each other and i can't go to my dad cuz he would murder me and him if i even talked about gettin with an 18 year old.....I am not gonna get with him if it is illegal because i don't want him to get to any trouble.... but if you know any thing please let me know!

2007-10-14 15:40:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous