im very sad?

Question

until i find a girlfriend i am so sad

im so lonely and i dont have any frinedss out of school and if i had a girlfriend shed be with me the whole day

i wish a had a friend to share all my feelings to

am i a loser for saying i wish i had a girlfriend to share all my feelings to?

i wish i had one friend that i could spend the rest of my life with and be happy with her

im 17 and im so sad, i enjoy listening to sad songs and this prevents me from doing hw

i just wish i had a girl that cared about me so i wont be so lonely

Answer 1

It's just not the right time for you to have a gf. You need to become secure as an individual and grow now. Be happy now. Don't waste your days being sad and lonely, the day will come when you find someone. But if it's not this day or the next day, so on, don't waste those days.

Answer 2

Hi there. I am sorry that you are sad. I wasn't always happy when I was 17 but just because you do not have a girlfriend doesn't mean that you cannot enjoy life. When I was your age I dated a little but for the most part I was single too. Sometimes I would wish that I had a boyfriend and thought that it would make everything right so your desire for a girlfriend is normal especially if all of your friends have girlfriends. But you should not let yourself be defined by whether or not you are dating somebody. Sometimes when people want to be with somebody and are sad when they are not, other people sense their sadness and the negative feelings can push them away. You have to start feeling good about yourself as an individual before you can portray happiness and positivity to other people. And if you don't have a girlfriend in high school don't give up. It may not be your time. See what life brings in a few years. It may get lonely at times but when you find the girl you should be with, you'll know it, and what you are going through now will not last forever.

Answer 3

You're not a loser. We've all felt this way.

If you say you don't have friends, it sounds like you're shy, and finding a girlfriend is going to be hard.

First, learn how to make and keep friends, and getting a girlfriend will be easier.

Set a goal to make three friends at school. Your homework for tomorrow is to talk to three people in school. Ask them about their teachers, talk about the class, ask them what they like to do after school.

Your homework for tomorrow night is to think of three things you like to do that you can do with other people, whether it's sports, video games, or sharing a pizza.

Practice talking to people at school, and when you feel comfortable, start inviting people to do things with you. Join a club at school. Play sports after school. Practice smiling.

Try not to listen to sad songs. Switch to loud, energetic music! :D We care about you and don't want you to be sad. It's just going to take some time to make friends and meet a girlfriend.

Answer 4

hey there. i feel exactly the same way bro ever since moving . if i would have wrote a question and the details it would probably be identical to yours. anyway, I find that you either mix in with the RIGHT people or nobody at all, that's my advice. I firmly mean it.

as for a GF basically the same thing. unfortunately in order to achieve that goal you need to work on yourself first,work on
confidence, self-esteem, sense of humor, and be financially good (enough to take her our and such) and then you are ok!

oh and by the way, the "loser" thing you have going on is all bs. you just need to work on your social status which is simple as basic math. a loser would just give up and leave things how they are. GOOD LUCK! HANG IN THERE

Answer 5

sweetheart, you shouldnt rely on anyone to bring you happiness. why dont you play a sport or go hang out at the mall or go to the gym and play basketball or something? theres many opportunites to make friends out there. no you are not a looser. but it all starts at home. are you getting enough love from there? you shouldnt mope around all day honey. make the best out of life. start listening to happy songs. if people see you sad and with a frown and negative they wont be interested in you. if you are happy with a smile and your head up high and having a good attitude you will attract alot of people that way. trust me, because just look at a person smiling and positive and ready to great you when you walk in the door..that makes that person friendly and approachable right? or would you go approach the person with there head down and with a frown and mad at the world? you have to start making yourself happy and knowing how to please yourself and love yourself in order to have someone else to do it for you babe. trust me. i see it everyday. check it out next time how people interact with someone frowning and with someone smiling. get a job or a hobby so you wont be bored, go out and make some friends. dont make anymore excuses..dont listen to any more sad songs, today i want you to go out there and make a friend. and smile with your head up high..practice that for a whole week and listen to some cool songs that makes you happy and in a good mood. and you saying you will be sad until you find a GF thats the wrong attitude because you can still be sad once you find a GF unless she is someone you really care about and she feels the same. realationships arnt a pice of cake so you can still be sad. you're only 17 you have many many years to find a GF dont rush to grow up. there just might be someone who is intersted in you but scared to approach you. like i said change your attitude and start talking to all the hot girls..and maybe something will change in your life. matter of fact I KNOW something will change..smile head up..good attitude..cool songs that gets you in the good mood..skipping along the side walk..you're set..good luck..you can do it!!

Answer 6

hello i am Jacqueline
I'd love to be your friend
I don't like it when people are sad
It just means they need to surround themselves with positive
attitudes and influences
and trust me a girlfriend is not what you need
No girl wants a depressed boyfriend
Then again if a girl is what you want
there is your reason to pucker up butter cup
:)
feel free to hello me when ever your in need
wishing you the best
~j

Answer 7

Sweetie, I've been there. But you've got to realize that you can't expect someone else to make you happy. Think of how much pressure that would be on them. A relationship is about give and take...you can take only as long as you give as well. Please learn to be happy just to be you! Once you can do that, others will notice...believe me. A sad, needy person is easily indentifiable.

Answer 8

Your 17. The right girl will come along sooner or later. Also, stop listening to sad music.

Answer 9

A lot of people feel like this at one time or another. But life's rough, try and be optimistic. Someone will come around someday.

Answer 10

First off no it doesnt make you a loser.

but you have to be happy with yourself before anyone eles could even try to make u happy hun.

just try to be a little more outgoing because if your stand-offish people wont know how to approach you.



Idk if I helped but I tried



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