Singles & Dating - 14 October 2007

i met this guy during spring break...we talked for a while and i really liked him and he felt the same or so he said. His best friend was with my best friend and it was awsome to be able to hang out with my fave 3 people. I went away for a while and something terrible happened someone told him this huge lie i had said to him. he hated me forever but finally started talking to me again...i thought it was love. he would tell me the most sweetest things but other days he would be a real asshole. I still cry over him, i can't stand seeing him with his new girl...i have a boy friend but i cant get him off of my mind. i feel like i am too young for this and he wasnt the perfect guy when he called me all the names he called me. it hurts me so much to know that he has completly moved on and i know he talks about me and not good....so is it love or infatuation?

2007-10-14 15:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by crazzzypotato 1

he said he doesn't deserve me and wanted me to think whether i'm sure i wanted to be with him for a month. i already posted a question and someone had mentioned that i should be happy he broke up with me. because when i'm 42 he will be about 60. right now i'm 25 and he's 42. you think this might be a reason why he broke up? but he didn't seem to think this when he was persuing me in the beginning!

2007-10-14 15:38:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest, do you mind if your gf/wife was checking out guys, and stuff? Does that bother you? I don't want to hurt my bf about it, but I just have a wandering eye sometimes.

2007-10-14 15:37:24 · 16 answers · asked by Tammy W 1

what's it like to date a guy with a little child? My friend said don't do it, he probably gets the kid on the weekend and wants you as a babysitter while he goes out with the guys...is this true?

2007-10-14 15:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3

i need a new nickname for my gf named gabby it use to be gabby wabby but i wanted to change it she loves soccer kayaking she is really nice and sweet

2007-10-14 15:28:44 · 42 answers · asked by Adam 1

serious answers only. And dont tell me to grow up or whatever, I want real answers

2007-10-14 15:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by kaiors23 2

i am constantly thinking about this one guy who hot and likes me, but sometimes he don't show signs (but sometimes he does-not as often as when he don't though ). i've cried once and am sad all the time. am i obsessed? or depressed? do i even need a boyfriend? i feel that i really do...i'm a sophomore...the boy is shy (sometimes), but outgoing and funny when he does talk...do i wait, and give it time? or try 2 talk to him more...
help!
I am clueless!!!!!

2007-10-14 15:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by Beth t 1

my bf loves me and wanted to ask me to marry him. he needed a friend to tlk to and his friends wouldnt listen, so he tlked to this girl. they started tlkin about it and eventually became friends, she pushed herself on him. and he resisted. one time he didnt and he let her kiss him but he pushed her away. then it happened again and he pushed her away and pulled her back and then pushed her away again. this time he told her off n never talked to her again. we have been together for 3 years and he didnt mean to hurt me. this girl has a rep for trying to split up couples, and now she brags and says she accomplished what she wanted. i cant quit picturing them kissing. only when i picture it he is enjoying it. he didnt really enjoy it. he hated it. he stopped it himself, and hes really truly sorry. when wil this sick feeling go away? when will i get over it? plz help. i love him to death....he didnt mean to hurt me...HOW can i get over this?

2007-10-14 15:22:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years.(I know im young being 12 and stuff,but we met on the computer when i was like 9,my friend told me to chat with her and i met him etc)
And like, I get alot of attention, and now he tells me that theres this girl, Not saying her name, and she and him had sex. He's like 13... And he says he drinks...his friend said he didnt but on the phone it sounds like he smoking at the same time.
I love him so much and when i tried to talk to him,he said he was only acting that way because he thought i was cheating.I know im flirty but come on! Atleast I didnt have sex.Well,we made up but he's always playing around and says im cute when im mad.I just dont feel like he's taking me seriously!I cant visit him b/c my grandparents say no.He's usually in North carolina on the weekends.and im in South Carolina.:( I wanna visit him but how should i convince my parents?
I love him so much and how should I prove to him? He says he loves me but... Lies?

2007-10-14 15:18:52 · 17 answers · asked by the kid 2

ok back in may my ex im'ed me and said she wanted to see me and she would give me head if i came down and see her, so i went down and seen her we went to an abanded house and she started to kiss me i asked her if we can have sex then she just climbed on top of me then started to give me a lap dance and she wispherd in my ear how bad do i want it, i said bad then i put my hand down her pants and ask her again if we can have sex, she wen into the next room and pulled down her pants to her knees then i took them off the rest and we started, after we did it she kept textin me tellin me how much she love me and dont tell anyone bout it and stuff like that and now she's claimin i sexual asulted her? is this sexual asult if i have text messages saying that she loves me after and stuff like that and she pulled down her own pants? i need to kno i got court soon!!

2007-10-14 15:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

asked him back already told me he didn't deserve me(cop out i know). how do i move away with still hope of him realizing he wants me instead if i leave him alone with my dignity intact (remainder of it) .

2007-10-14 15:09:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering why some hot looking girls act nasty, annoying and mean

2007-10-14 15:09:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

...guys stop chasing girls and the girls start chasing the guys more aggressively? Explain.

2007-10-14 15:08:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think he might also be dating his ex again who is about his age and have kids. he wanted me in the beginning and treated me like a queen but i was not ready to be in a relationship to realize i really did like him. i asked him back already. he says i don't deserve him. he told me to give it a month and think if i still want to be with him and we'll talk about it. what do i do in this situation. and what are the things i can do now to increase my chances of him wanting me back.

2007-10-14 14:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

go back to the answers you have given to see if you got thumbs up or thumbs down or is it just me that wonders about that. If you get an up does it make you kinda smile :) or is that just me too? Not that it makes or breaks the day I'm just asking if anyone else checks...just curious.

2007-10-14 14:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i dont think so because they lose their elastic! please settle this 2 hour conversation we had please!

2007-10-14 14:56:27 · 4 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

last night, i went out with my boyfriend for couple drinks, everything was nice and smooth, we went to a club, we danced and had more drinks, 'till i got in his car in the way back home, when i started arguing with him, for no reason, bringing my ex boyfriend, insulting him with no f words, he was calm and didn't wanna fight with me, but i got more aggressive, and louder,
he called me today, telling me that i was beyond mean to him, and totally off line, i kept quiet didn't know what to say, except an apologie, i didn't try to defend my self cause i don't remember anything, he also said that i broke up with him last night, i had nothing to explain, i just feel ashamed of my self.
i told him that i still wanna be with him, deeply sorry, and if there is anything i can do, please let me know.
please tell me how can i apologize to him, he was always nice to me, i don't get ugly like that when i drink, it usually make me happy, and that's a fact, right now he's turned off of me. help me.

2007-10-14 14:52:47 · 19 answers · asked by nestor j 1

When I was online dating a few years ago, on 3 different occasions, I had a date suggest that we meet at Starbucks. 2 of those times when I arrived, he was already drinking his coffee, and didn't offer to buy mine. Since I didn't know better then, I bought my own. My friend said that those men should have waited until I arrived, and paid for both of our coffees. She says I should have ended both dates. The 3d man waited, and paid for both of our coffees. But the others didn't. That is why I don't like coffee dates. I don't know why so many people online like them for the 1st date. They think it is safe and casual or something. To me, it is crowded, hard to hear and it is too easy for either one to leave early. What do you think?

2007-10-14 14:52:46 · 32 answers · asked by LAgirl 3

IS it too creepy? Or charming?

2007-10-14 14:49:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 14:41:26 · 31 answers · asked by single good looking guy 1

ok so a year ago i fell for my best friend. we've been on and off friends and we've been fighting the whole time up until recently. like a month ago things were chill between us again and stuff, we were friends and i told her i would stop talking about her to people even if we werent and im still trying not to cause thats why she didnt like me. but like 2 weeks ago she made up some stupid lie about a fake 23 yr old bf and stuff and i got mad about it so she blocked me. then 2 days later i was walknig and hse came outside with her bff and watched me. i got home and called her about ti and she accused me of walking just to see her house or something and started yelling at me. she has no reason to be mad at me whatsoever. but recently ive been meaning to talk to her about how she acts and if its on purpose or from bi-polar. i want to tell her i cant keep doing this back and forth thing and that she needs to make up her mind.

2007-10-14 14:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by incineratethemachine 2

A 14 year old girl, going out with an 19 year old guy?

2007-10-14 14:34:27 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a girl, that, I looked at her a few times and smiled. I also got her and her friends papers for them in class. She knows that I know her name and have interest in her.

Yet she looks at me, then when I try to look back at her and at least smile, she looks away right away. Then I noticed if I do not look at her while she is looking, she keeps the look longer.

Why does she look away, if she can tell, I've seen her anyway? Why would she try to be so hidden, and not even let me at least smile at her or something?

Is she showing a sign of attraction or is it actually the complete opposite?

2007-10-14 14:34:23 · 23 answers · asked by Adam M 3

Just a guy thing "no girls aloud " Then he starts telling me how great its going to be and how he will have heaps of hot girls around him maybe even sitting on his lap you know the INDY GIRLS not to sure how to take it thats all. I feel i can trust him just a little jeloius do you think its ok will he be faithful

2007-10-14 14:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by Roxy 2

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up. I was thinking of getting him:a basketball(leather;he loves basketball), a book he has been wanting, and depending how much $$$ it is a jersey for his favorite athlete. I also want to surprise him and have him come over and cook his favorite food for him. Does this seem like too much? All tips are accepted.Thanks!

2007-10-14 14:18:58 · 16 answers · asked by iLOVEJESUS 4

ok i tell guys they can only have sex with me if they become my boyfriend, so then they ask me out, have sex with me, and break up with me 5 minutes later, why do they do that?

2007-10-14 14:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hung out with this guy I used to date on Friday. We had so much fun. I love being with him, but we are both dating someone. We were laying in a field looking at the stars and he leaned over me and we were talking and we started kissing. I know this may sound corney but i got the fire work feeling. I'm not sure what I should do. Should I tell my boyfriend? Im not sure what to do. I need different opinions. I just dont know.

2007-10-14 14:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can anyone please help me?? How do we cope with a web love knowing that we wont see eachother for...who knows how long?

2007-10-14 14:07:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy says, "I'm falling for you" does it mean "love" or could it simply be "like" ? I welcome everyone's views, but I'd especially like to hear from guys. Thanks.

2007-10-14 14:04:29 · 11 answers · asked by A.Lee 3

my best friend is a guy and he just got back this weekend. he really likes me and i kinda like him but not as much. i want to kiss him but i dont want to lead him on ... what should i do?!

2007-10-14 13:54:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous