ok i tell guys they can only have sex with me if they become my boyfriend, so then they ask me out, have sex with me, and break up with me 5 minutes later, why do they do that?
2007-10-14 14:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats because they are using you for sex... what you should do is dont mention the word sex. If they ask you tell them that they have to wait until you are ready and if they dont want to go out with you then you know that they are not worth your time adn if they do stick around then test them until you feel the right moment to give in.
2007-10-14 14:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because to some guys sex is just like sport, they just want to see if they can win. Tofind a good guy (the marrying kind) find a guy who treats those around him with genuine kindness and thoughtfulness. Don't even consider it real until he has introduced you to his friends (esp female friends), his parents, and has told you what all his worst habits are. don't forget, the way he treats your friends and family is the way he will treat you. a good rule is "no ring= he gets nothing! of the precious you, that is!)
2007-10-14 22:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by faithwrkz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just want the sex! just dont say that at all because then they are expecting to have sex and most likely plan to dump you when they have used you
2007-10-14 21:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by kg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's easy, Easy.
Stop having sex and wait.
The right guy will come along.
2007-10-14 21:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are using you for sex!
2007-10-14 21:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by :DDDDDD 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
those arn't the guys who you should be dating, their just looking to get laid. Find a good loving boyfriend, who will support you no matter what and won't leave your side.
2007-10-14 21:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but are you that stupid.. you should know men/boys are all pigs, and you should only be sleeping ith a guy if i love them.
2007-10-14 21:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is either a joke or you're a total dufus.
2007-10-14 21:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use your common sense. U shouldn't tell them that!
2007-10-14 21:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm a guy but i don't do that **** it's rude you know.....
so look wait a month first or until you really want to........
then when you feel you know him heaps make convo that you never really make.......
then get it on.......
just get to no each other so good okay......
feel ups first okay......... =)
2007-10-14 21:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by hockey blader joostin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋