Singles & Dating - 14 October 2007

I'm trying to figure out why my girlfriend says some of the things she does. I have been accused of being a little hypersensitive in the past, but I see most people being either hurt or at least taken aback by some of the statements she's made. Examples: Told me I need to lose weight, I'm not the biggest she's been with (not solicited), no sympathy when I work late "aww, poor baby", tells friends/family in front of me that I drive a POS, makes jokes about things I just got written up for at work, and last weekend only worried about how it affected her when I canceled dinner to rescue a friend on the side of the road. I understand keeping a sense of humor, and a little ribbing for mistakes, but I generally look to my partner for emotional support and this has been the opposite from my perspective. I've given up discussing work problems with her because she works longer hours and has zero sympathy. How do I handle this? She expects me to keep her feelings in mind when talking btw.

2007-10-14 03:06:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its only been 8 months and i feel that already my boyfriend is losing interest.. i told him from the start i wanted to wait for sex, and he wasn't thrilled but said okay..

We have done everything else, intercourse aside.. and while this is great i know what he really wants is to go all the way.

My question is not whether to sleep with him, I HAVE decided to wait.. my question is HOW to keep him interested because i really don't want to lose him?

2007-10-14 03:06:04 · 24 answers · asked by starryeyed 5

well im 16 n i have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now.and i feel really close to him and i can talk to him about anything.even though our race is different(im brown skin and hes white) i still love him. i think i wana spend the rest of my life with him.he makes me feel special .we have our fights but he still makse me feel better.i even gave it up to him. i really think im in love ? is this wrong?

2007-10-14 02:59:46 · 16 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2

Cause im not really attracted to this girl in class, but if chubby girls are easy... ill hit on her.....

2007-10-14 02:53:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

"I love your legs", or breasts, or whatever, women will like it and
will be flattered. I feel like I am in a morgue and they are dissecting me. Plus, what a weirdo one can be to go around, scanning women below their waist, checking their legs, butts and in between their legs?

2007-10-14 02:49:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Good looking guys meet a lot of girls, certainly a lot of girls try to pass on him. How to win his heart if I want to have him?

2007-10-14 02:46:20 · 1 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2

I am a light skinned brotha (mixed with Arab and Black American) I have always prefered dark or brown skinned women. I especially like Dark and Brown skinned women from The United States. Many of my Arab cousins mostly date white or asian women.

In America I have noticed that some light skinned folks (not all) say that I am to "pretty" for a dark-skinned girl. (I don't know what the hell that means). My mother is dark brown skinned and so is my grandmother and so on. I prefer the type of women I am familiar with.

Question for you

1. Is it racist to prefer brown and dark skinned women over lighter skinned girls?
2. Why is it percieved that "at least" in America that am dating down the scale if I prefer one?
3. What is up with Black American sistas, that you all seem to dispise each other based on skin complexion? (I am not trying to start an intercultural race war, but in my fathers country of Ehtiopia, Black is Black.

((Inquiring minds want to know))__

2007-10-14 02:37:40 · 3 answers · asked by Andre L 1

without anything to do with sex!!

2007-10-14 02:33:26 · 6 answers · asked by parveen_8123 1

i don't know what to do.this one guy told me,that he likes girly girls.and if he were to date a tomboy,he would feel like he's dating another guy.so,i really don't wanna be that girly girl who wears pink and skirts ALL the time.and i really want a boyfriend,but i wanna act all rugged and tough.and not some prissy little girl,scared to catch a football.but i wanna be able to dress in skirts and tank tops and all that.but i don't want other people to find me "too" girly.so what should i do?it seems that either one has consequences to being.help me please!!

2007-10-14 02:31:43 · 13 answers · asked by Δ 2

met this guy 5 times, been for drink, shopping etc. never held hands or kissed just chatted. He texts every night with kisses at end of each message. we both shy so i cant work it out. He comming tonight for dinner, i dont no if i shud make first move?? dont wanna make a fool of myself.

2007-10-14 02:31:29 · 9 answers · asked by little miss 2

2007-10-14 02:23:28 · 7 answers · asked by Kelli H 1

Is it still possible that LOVE will occur between a 36 yr old man (divorced with a kid) and a fully single 22 yr old lady?

2007-10-14 02:10:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's been contacting me through emails only. We met in a chatroom 3 years ago and she lives in one state I live in another. We did meet in person many many times. Anytime she wanted me to come see her I did. She never came to see me. I did so much for her but the relationship from the start was 1 sided, me doing everything. Anyhow, we broke up AGAIN, always breaking up getting back together, it's a cycle she likes to have. Last night after begging me to put her pictures in my profile in chat and I did she then started on me about my weight and how my diabetes is affected by my weight. I'm not that damn big. I am about 20 pounds overweight and have been trying to lose it. She went OFF on me. She then said I'm going to bed, I'm tired of trying to help you. She didn't respond after that. I found out she was in the chatroom at 1:10 in the morning again. She's addicted to this chatroom bullcrap and says I am. I don't go in unless she asks me to go in. Why is she doing this?

2007-10-14 02:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 01:59:52 · 23 answers · asked by Patricia 3

once we had sex it was amazing but the first time we kissed i thought he is a really bad kisser but he took me to his room and we had sex. i didn't tell my mom yet should i tell my mom or my dad or should i just not tell them at all? should i brake up with him or not?

2007-10-14 01:44:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met and talked with this person a couple times last year, and I think our dads know each other from work. A couple days ago she was flirting with me (I think) and telling me her likes and stuff and making physical contact and put her head on my shoulder for a couple of minutes. Is she just playing me or does she really like me?

By the way we're both in middle school if that helps but we live far away from eachother.

2007-10-14 01:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by laugh_line 1

Just curious.

I like Grunge, indie rock, and hardcore.
Do you like it when girls share the same interest with you, with music?

2007-10-14 01:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it is possible to fall in love with communication using the Internet?

2007-10-14 01:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Catherine 1

My boyfriend is always talking dirty with different women on AIM. He uses AIM on his phone (a sidekick 3), so I usually have no idea he is even talking to anyone at all. Sometimes he will leave his phone lying around, and I will look at it, to see what he has been typing so much about. Most of the time I catch the end of a converstion that is inappropriate. We fight about this because I consider it a form of cheating. He wouldn't call these women on the phone and talk this way, so how is AIM any different? Why would he sit right next to me, and type away about sexual things with another woman and not expect me to get upset about it? Am I just being crazy? or is this a form of cheating?

2007-10-14 00:47:40 · 44 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

we were talking plants and suddently he can't keep his hands off me and says how much he likes me, and I am like 'you're the gardner, and married with kids', and he goes 'yeah, and it's killing me' (!!!) (but I can give you love) gross!!! he has to finish his contract though and if i could i would fire him now, i would. i have to put up with him for 2 more days.
cheating is way disgusting and now i understand all the married women who write and complain. omg, do i have something on me that screams lonely girl desperate for sex? it's gross and funny and ... quite depressing. i mean if i looked like a lady he would never have the nerve to propose like that. i was just wearing slackers and my old t shirt. i'm upset. i feel like crying.
i don't understand ; i should have laughed at him and yelled but i just stood there just saying 'no, it's bad and you know this' disgusted and sad.
why?

2007-10-14 00:40:15 · 28 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

i had been with my girlfriend for 9 month and loved her more than anything but we kept arguen nd both of us got sick of it on friday night we decided to go on a break but i miss her sooo much. we talk alot on msn nd r always laughin nd carrying on something that we didnt used to do wen wer together she said she'd love to get bak with me but she needs time but we have to make our relationship so we r happy nd having a laugh nd all that. what could ido to get her back :(

2007-10-14 00:24:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-14 00:06:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous