well im 16 n i have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now.and i feel really close to him and i can talk to him about anything.even though our race is different(im brown skin and hes white) i still love him. i think i wana spend the rest of my life with him.he makes me feel special .we have our fights but he still makse me feel better.i even gave it up to him. i really think im in love ? is this wrong?
2007-10-14 02:59:46 · 16 answers · asked by LaShar.Baybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can never be too young to fall in love!i fell in love w/ my bf when i turned 21 and we have been together since-the past 27 months..i never expected to fall in love with someone and at 21 it was my first time dealing with love and everything that comes with it.you two sound very happy and it does not matter what skin color,ethncity or backgrounds you have as long as you get along with the person and are treated with respect and be connected on a different level than with others that is love..when you can tell the other person anything and you know when something is wrong with them and them knowing when there is something wrong with you,when you two make each other happy and are each other's best friend.that is love!i wish you the best of luck!
2007-10-14 10:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you want the advise of a 46 yr. old woman that's been there but here I go. Most people now days do not marry their first love. Yes you probably are in love but will it last???? You have a whole life ahead of you and people and times change. You or he might go off to college there are so many things that can happen down the road. Cherish the relationship that you have now. From past experience today I can say that I wish I wouldn't of had sex at 16. I also thought I was totally in love and would spend the rest of my life with this guy. Today I'm glad it didn't work out because I found the right man when I was 25 and have been with him for 22 years.( couldn't even imagine being married to the other guy even though I still have a special place in my heart for him) So no it's not wrong. Just remember to have safe sex. You are both too young for parenthood!
2007-10-14 10:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by Steffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing no matter what age you are you can fall in love. The only problem is mixing it up with lust and there is a big difference. Lust usually last for a while but fades and love lasts forever. So you are fine just be careful because you are still young and you have your whole life ahead of you but if you believe he is the one stay with him and remember to use protection because you don't want to give up those teen years to being a parent. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-14 10:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Travis L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is too young to love! But you are too young to be in love. It's not wrong to love someone. We all have needs and some times we go about the wrong way to get that love. Give yourself some time. Sixteen is a young age to make any decisions about being in love. You say you think you want to spend the rest of your life with him. You even gave it up to him. You need to think about that. I hope you used protection. You have your whole life ahead of you . Your head should be in your studying not having sex. I hope you make the right decision!
2007-10-14 10:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW, my parents are a different race and they got married, didn't they? ANd they fight EVRY day, I mean EVERY day and they still love eachother a whole lot. ANd listen to this, My dad is 18 years older than my mom, he could of been her dad lol. I think you are never to young to be in love. I knew I was in love when I was 11, and gues what, that guy is my boyfreind. He never used to like me, but I knew I was in love and I kept waiting and he is the perfect boyfriend in the world. ANd I am white and he is black. We fight too but we love eachother. You will know when you are in love, It just a feeling. If you think you are in love, then you are. I know a girl who said she was in love when she 5, (My aunt) and she is 24 and is married to the same person. So yes, you ar ein ,ove. ANd you are never to young to love.
2007-10-14 10:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. In fact - it's great! You obviously have found something that most people have trouble finding. Just remember that you are sixteen and take it slow - get to know each other better... and who knows? Maybe you will spend the rest of your life with him. Good luck!
2007-10-14 10:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by gothic chika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone thinks there in love at some point, and if you trully feel like you are in love and he feels the same way, then you are. i dated this guy for 1 year and i thought we were inn love until i found out he was cheating on me. All that trust i thought i had for him, was not even there. So anyways my point is that if he loves you and you love him, then trully you guys are in love.And if you gave it up, maybe he's just in love with you.
2007-10-14 10:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by lozer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your never too young to be in love! you guys seem really happy together and if it turns out that you guys will spend the rest of your lives with each other then thats awesome! just keep it going and things will be great.
2007-10-14 10:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not wrong to be in love, but it's wrong to neglect yourself.
it's nice to have someone to lean on, and someone to plan a future with, but please don't lose your identity in the meantime.
do your best in school, set small goals for yourself. take an interest in other things, and friends. try a hobby or a class (karate? art?).
our love lives are very important, but taking care of OURSELVES and doing things for ourselves is equally important. there is a balance in life, and our world can't just revolve around someone else, nor should we depend on someone for total happiness.
happiness comes from within. take care.
2007-10-14 10:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaaa my friends ur age hav felt exactly th same but it didn't work out. its ok to feel this way just dont take it to th next level anytime soon, like dont run off and get married. just let it be n let things happen who knows? u 2 could b highschool sweethearts!
2007-10-14 10:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋