i don't know what to do.this one guy told me,that he likes girly girls.and if he were to date a tomboy,he would feel like he's dating another guy.so,i really don't wanna be that girly girl who wears pink and skirts ALL the time.and i really want a boyfriend,but i wanna act all rugged and tough.and not some prissy little girl,scared to catch a football.but i wanna be able to dress in skirts and tank tops and all that.but i don't want other people to find me "too" girly.so what should i do?it seems that either one has consequences to being.help me please!!
2007-10-14 02:31:43 · 13 answers · asked by Δ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Don't change who you are to please a guy. There are guys out there who finds girly girls annoying (ME) and would die to find a girl who's more tomboyish or like me..... be yourself some guy will appreciate you for who you are...
2007-10-14 02:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a guy that like you being yourself....if they guy was really into you then he wouldn't care what you were. That being said there are ways to dress kinda girly without having to go all out with dress and skirts all the time. I think if you go to like a department store and ask for a personal shopper - they are people that work for the store - they will help you find the look that you are going for and the best part is that they do it all for free.
2007-10-14 02:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by binreddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you want? Just be who you wanna be. If you don't want to be too tomboy and too girly, I think that's nice. Because most of guys don't want a girl who is too girly or too tomboy. Too girly girls are sometimes boring and annoying. Too tomboy girls are annoying, too, and the one you said is right. As long as you behave well and be yourself, there will be a guy who loves you the way you are. You really don't have to be anyone.
2007-10-14 02:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by freezin_fredz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should BE YOURSELF! Putting on pretenses for other people will make you very unhappy in the long run. There are plenty of guys out there who would prefer a tomboy, you just need to wait until you find one you don't have to change yourself for.
2007-10-14 02:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by sixftrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be anyone than who you really are. It comes across as false and phony.
It sounds like an after school special - but be yourself.
If you are comfortable in your own skin - with who you are -then it comes through and men are attracted to that. Some are intimidated by a strong woman - or a confident woman but some are not.
The person you should be with will like you for you -- the real you.
2007-10-14 02:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm style of the two. i'm regularly a girly lady around my acquaintances that are women yet as quickly as I carry out with the adult men i'm able to shop up with their conversations and refer to them so i assume it is style of a tomboy. even nonetheless i do no longer placed on boyish outfits or something yet I play activities, skate, and all that.
2016-10-22 08:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still wear girl clothes such as jeans, and a cute t-shirt low cut whatever and still like to play ball. I think what he is saying is he doesn't want to worry if his girlfriend will beat him up, and want's to be able to hang with his friends without his girlfriend. You do not have to wear skirts, but just girl clothes.
2007-10-14 02:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, dont fret, i used to be a girly girl, then a tomboy, now i m in between:) u can play any sport u want, wear whatever u want, dont care what others think, just be happy with urself:) u will find ur real self soon:)
2007-10-14 02:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER change for a man. The right guy is going to love your tomboy side. He is clearly not the one for you, move on.
2007-10-14 02:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by souldoubt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and be happy the one out thair will love u 4 u if you cannt be your self then your not going to be happy and it wount work
2007-10-14 02:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by wessalan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋