Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

Everyone is telling me to break up with this dude, even my brain says so but just when I'm about to do it, I chicken out.

How can i break up with someone I love and yet so painfully wrong for me?

2007-10-18 23:49:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i dont even know this person but i think i like them im in the
(9th) grade and they are too but i want to give the person a note but im afraid too because we never really had a chance to talk to each other yet and i want to give them a note telling them that i like them and if they want to go out but do i just walk up to them and give it to them because i dont have them in any of my classrooms PLEASE HELP ME i see them again on monday!

2007-10-18 23:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by hollister 2

2007-10-18 23:39:07 · 11 answers · asked by aisha 1

We get along great and he's more attentive to me than any of my older b/f's were! THe only thing that bothers me is that were always so physical....not that thats a bad thing but there is more to life than making out! I think he's totally hot and a great b/f but I am worried about his age and the stages of life we are at!

2007-10-18 23:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by river_runner 1

Basically, here is my dating history with my girlfriend -

2 weeks ago: take her to a movie

1 week ago: take her to a movie ------> now we are going out

this week: ???

Is it stupid to ask her to a movie again? For me, we could go and see the worst movie possible and it would still be a good date, but will she just see me as unimaginative/boring?

I would ask her over to my house, but it's kind of weird (no real living room with TV, so we would be on my bed in my room watching my TV .

Do you think it would be better to ask her to the theater again or have her come over to my weird (you know, living room concerned anyways) house? By the way, we are both in high school.

2007-10-18 23:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Moop 1

2007-10-18 23:05:06 · 29 answers · asked by LOR 1

im of 16 years old and like boys who dress up in baggy clothes or act like a punk

2007-10-18 23:03:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I dated for over 4 years. We broke up about 4 months ago over a miscommunication. During a conversation after our breakup, he promised me that once we got it together, we would try again to fix our mistakes and make it work. We have been around each other since we share the same phone line and we attend the same university. About a month ago, we started seriously talking about us getting back together. Now we act just like a couple, only we're not. Lately, he's been saying he is really thinking about us getting back together but he is afraid that it won't work out and we will have to go through the whole break up thing again. I am not so nervous. We have worked so hard to fix our problems and we are both happy with each other so I think we should. He asked me yesterday if I would feel weird if we went back together now cuz he wants to keep his promise and not necessarily because he wants to. I told him that he is just afraid of the hurt because we are together like that now.

2007-10-18 22:47:44 · 4 answers · asked by First Lady 5

2007-10-18 22:20:14 · 18 answers · asked by muni k 1

I heard that girls like skinny guys. is 5'10'' 130 lbs skinny enough?

2007-10-18 22:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i m in love with a girl who is in my relation and she also love me but we both are at different place now.she have gone some where without telling me,and i can't meet her,can't live without her, i can't forget her & now the situation is that i find no interest in any other girl coz i cant believe any other girl. and have no way to meet my girl. i feel so lonely. i have no friend who can share my feelings. is there any body who will like to be my friend.

2007-10-18 22:06:09 · 3 answers · asked by debu 1

2007-10-18 21:56:24 · 21 answers · asked by NURA 1

My question is whether or not women like artistic guys (actual artists, not just some guy who can play guitar). They say they do, but I hear a lot of women freak out over guys with psychological issues. And in my experience, most TRUE artists, have issues to one extent or another.

I don't know whether to believe the one part of what they say or the other. I am a very romantic man who for the most part is pleasant to be around confident, and fun. But I reach modes of EXTREME darkness (my most creative moments), where I don't think anyone wants to be around me (lights off, no tv, just me and the dark, twisted thoughts in my mind).

I do take medication and go to therapy, but it can only do so much. I want to find the love of my life, but I dread subjecting anyone to the darkness I feel.

Ladies, would you be willing to date someone who has this sort of life? Would it turn you off if someone acted like this?

2007-10-18 21:52:28 · 3 answers · asked by Fun1 4

she knew me as a active person who loves to exercise. I tried to help her , but she is never motivated. she knows she wants to lose weight, but no effort seems to be put in it.

I ended up gaining 20 pounds over the last 3 years. she's about 165. 5 feet. i know you should love someone from the inside... but how do you explain her being paranoid and jealous even a phone call with a guy friend when i am with her!? she checks me emails, monitor me everywhere. even oversea when i was studying, she checks school's club photos on the website for any update of me or anyone.

I run away from camera when they want to take a picture of me!

I told her to stop being jealous. She says she has no insecurities..is it because she feels fat and no one will love her like I do?

I can't stand it, sometimes I sigh* when I see normal size girls

2007-10-18 21:45:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go out with this guy. We are seeing each other for some time. I reckon if he is really big, it will be painful for me.

2007-10-18 21:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by WorldCitizen 1

I love women with big feet...it really looks cool to me when I have compared with a few and theirs were bigger most of them seemed to not mind it either. I have found it easy to find women with larger feet than me as I only wear a 7 to 7.5 in mens are yours also bigger? do you think its weird or unusual that I like this?

2007-10-18 21:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they are a little too forward

2007-10-18 21:24:51 · 12 answers · asked by Seranity C 1

he said he dosnt like me enough to go out with me
he is really cute and funny and smart but he dsosnt like me enough! and this other dude i like last year we went out but he broke up with me and now he likes me agsin and we arefriends so i asked him to see if the boy i like likes me and he said that the boy said no
but i asked a friend to ask him and he said yes
so his friends are trying to get me to like them but i dont like them and i wanna go out with the boy

i am a little older like a couple months and his name is timmy!! i really like him

1. he came up to me witha sucker and said mmmm grape its so yummy! and he was soo close to my face so i thought that he was flirting!

2.then he always tries to steal a basketball from me in gym class

3. in the middle of class he will make this face and he does it all the time!!!!

i think he likes me but my friend tina said that he dosnt like me enough to go out with me and i want help
someone can u plz tell me waht to do!

2007-10-18 21:17:32 · 2 answers · asked by Ava Notorious 2

Basically, a girl I liked was interested in me but she apparently isn't ready for a relationship now (cuz she broke up with her ex recently). I'm not leaving her because she isn't ready for a relationship, but instead she mentioned it quite clearly that she "doesn't know if we'll ever be together because she ain't ready". Did I make the right choice of dropping her like a hotcake?

2007-10-18 21:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so there is this guy, that I know of, but don't actually know... I have seen him around a few places and on local television and stuff. I have heard him speak on a few causes and about other stuff, and we have so much in common, I have this feeling that I am falling in love with him. Everytime I hear him speak I get butterflies in my stomach. We have never phisycally met, but I have had questions answered by him on his blogs and stuff, and it's shocking how much we have in common. The bad thing is, I am married... Is it possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't even know you exsist??? Please help!!!

2007-10-18 21:05:10 · 17 answers · asked by *~*Clandestine_Heart*~* 2

my bf wanted to leave the pub and go out with all his friends and i was being very unreasonable about it to the point where now i realise and im quite embarrised, should i ring him today and appologise?

2007-10-18 21:03:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short: met a guy online, spent 2 weeks talking to him online & phone. Met him a few days ago, hit it off, kissed/made out. He wanted to sleep with me and although he's hot as hell, I declined. Next day we communicated/made plans about getting back together that night for a session. He blew me off then flew out of town for the weekend. Monday he & I exchanged messages online and I told him I'd like to get together again. He said he didn't see why we couldn't. No definite plans were made & I didn't talk to him for a couple of days. Last night I logged into Yahoo Msgr. and he had left me an offline message of "hi!". I think he's a bit of a player but a FWB would suit my life well at this point. I just don't want him to think that I'm wanting to date him or anything-I don't think he's wanting that either. How do I know if he's interested or not? And how do I suggest a hookup and make it clear I don't want/expect a relationship? Do I just tell him I wanna f*** him?

2007-10-18 20:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by CRM 2

Deifne friendship? Do you think people are applying what they deifne to be a good friend in their relationship? if not is it possible the reason they are single or unable to keep their relationship is because they have not learned to be a good friend! yet :)

2007-10-18 20:55:08 · 2 answers · asked by RICK 1

We are adults, so no kiddie games please.

2007-10-18 20:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

This is for a school project

2007-10-18 20:36:12 · 11 answers · asked by littlemissmay 4

i love great kissers!

2007-10-18 20:23:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i talk to this girl for about 3 months already and she looks like she feels really comfortable with me and we chat everyday and call every single day and we love each other due to our mentality and not physical. Like i always tell her that i am ready to meet in person but then she still says that she wants to be sure and want to wait longer....like should i wait as long as she wants? I love her a lot... What if it is too long? i would feel like i would never meet her at all...and that is really depressing...so should i just wait until she reallly really feels good when meeting me even if it take extremely long like 7 months or more?!! = ( Has this happened to anyone before???

2007-10-18 20:20:10 · 5 answers · asked by biscuits 2

So here is my question more like I need advice. So there is this girl that me and my man had a three some with and it was only supposed to me a one time thing. But for about a year she started talking about how she wanted him to father her baby. Now we have been fighting about this for about a year and I am not going to leave him I just want to know how to come to a conclusion without driving him or me insane.....

2007-10-18 20:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by Amber W 2

I want her to feel relaxed, pleasured & happy.

What should i do?

2007-10-18 20:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Slaggy Jacky 1

As human we all come to love someone as we go on with our lives..we love once,twice and maybe more but what about the first time you fall in love..and the last time.

2007-10-18 20:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by kugay 4