Ok, so there is this guy, that I know of, but don't actually know... I have seen him around a few places and on local television and stuff. I have heard him speak on a few causes and about other stuff, and we have so much in common, I have this feeling that I am falling in love with him. Everytime I hear him speak I get butterflies in my stomach. We have never phisycally met, but I have had questions answered by him on his blogs and stuff, and it's shocking how much we have in common. The bad thing is, I am married... Is it possible to fall in love with someone who doesn't even know you exsist??? Please help!!!
2007-10-18 21:05:10 · 17 answers · asked by *~*Clandestine_Heart*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your experience is real. Whether the right term for that experience is falling in love, I doubt. It isn't bad to be fond of somebody else. Just don't waste so much time with him when your state of life demands that you take care of your family. Stop entertaining that feeling.
2007-10-18 21:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dencel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ok, so there is this guy, that I know of, but don't actually know... I have seen him around a few places and on local television and stuff. I have heard him speak on a few causes and about other stuff, and we have so much in common, I have this feeling that I am falling in love with him. ...
2015-08-23 08:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Beret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can. I believe you can become infatuated with someone, lustful toward another person. Especially toward someone you know you can't have, it makes your desire for them that much more. I believe everyday of your life someone becomes infatuated with you for one reason or another and you never know it. That's why they say everyday someone thinks of you, but you really never know who. At the same time this person your talking about could just be acting the way he's expected to act in public if he's someone in the public's eye, but as far as his real personal life you never know what he's really like. You may think you're falling in love because on the outside you see everything you probably saw in your husband when you first met him-n possibly just maybe your husband doesn't bring that excitement anymore. I don't know its just a guess, could be a lot of things. But I don't believe it's love that your feeling.
2007-10-18 21:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Voss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just infatuated. It is probably due to boredom in your marriage. I would suggest that you spark up your relationship with your husband, by having a regular date night w/o the kids, or some romantic dinners, a night in a hotel with a jacuzzi, or a nice vacation away from the family, or get some new lingerie, toys, oils, and try some new positions. There are plenty of ways to get back into that romantic place. Just talk with your hubby or surprise him!!
If that does not work, get counseling before you end up in an affair that destroys you whole life!!
2007-10-18 21:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me guess. you have a four year old.
there are two different kinds of “LOVE”, passionate and compassionate. Passionate love is where you are attracted to the person and to the way that they make you feel. Compassionate love is where you love the person for who they are. your "love" is selfish and conditional, and , therefore, not "true love". it is an infatuation. i suspect that you have an addiction for "falling in love" which has nothing to do with the person you fixate on, but with the feeling of being swept off your feet. you substitute the desire to be head over heels with chocolate, but, that doesn't last long and soon, you have to find a pesron to "be in love with." that's probably how you got married so quickly.
you could leave your husband for this guy, but, you know that in four years, those feelings will be gne and you will be fixated on someone else. is it really worth it. you need to understand your motivations, accept them, and keep them in line before you do something stupid and hurt the person that you love for who they are( your husband) and not the person you love because you are excited at the possibility of something new.(some stranger)
2007-10-18 21:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by eelai000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you're married, that's bad to fall in love with someone. Sounds like a crush. You can fall in love with an ideal person or an image in your mind, but if you really got to know him, you may not be so impressed.
2007-10-18 21:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by this website is pointless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can get a crush and that's a pretty strong feeling in itself... that's what it sounds like you have with this man from what you have said
It's okay to have a crush on someone and be married to someone else but you really need to leave it at that... a bit of harmless fun!
2007-10-18 21:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really know this person? Have you spent time with him? Have you really become intimate on a social level with him? If not, it's probably a crush, or you have deep feelings of admiration. It's not love yet. Don't give up hope.
2007-10-18 21:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by mrnorthstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single.
2016-03-17 06:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go before its too late,u may keep in touch with him but stop seeing him because u will addicted to him.try to tell him that u are already married and all u wanted was a friend.
don't let your family down or dissapoint them
2007-10-18 21:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋