As human we all come to love someone as we go on with our lives..we love once,twice and maybe more but what about the first time you fall in love..and the last time.
2007-10-18 20:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by kugay 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to believe that love covered all problems. That love grew as two get older. Love couqures or problem. Love never ends. I don't want to sound jadded but non of that is true. Only two people who work at a marriage
What is love?
A choice
A commitment
A best friend
A til death do us part kind of love.
A job
A way to get along even in the bad times
An agreement
And love is a chemistry between to people which is intense at first, and then when reality sets in the two people can deal with the ups & downs
My first love never matured, but after 45 years I still remember it & idealize it a bit.
I am smart enough at my age (over 50) that I can and might love the wrong person. But I am now strong enough to walk away. I am also strong enough to not even go out with a guy if he isn't who and what I need. I wasted so much time doing that.
I hope to have a last love, last date, last person to kiss.
But in reality it might not every happen. And I am strong enough to be a me, even when I long to be a we.
2007-10-18 20:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In time, I've found things DO fade into the past. Regardless if it's you first, middle or how many in between. There is going to be that ONE who w/come along that w/ERASE all others & HE'LL be "the one & ONLY". The other ones w/be memories that we just "pull up" from time to time, but that's as far as it goes. So, when the ONE comes along, you'll know for sure, & that w/be the only thing that's really important to you & your life. (^_^)
2007-10-19 11:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There goes the saying, "the first love is always a failure and the last love is always the lost" how true ? Do you agree with my statement ?
2007-10-19 03:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by jameslouis44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that love itself is a matter of how we relate to others, whether as significant others. or as friends we come to accept as equals. I think we love because we have a nature that needs to share how we feel. When we find someone like that they become another love.
2007-10-19 04:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by duaneb_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first love never dies, because that is when you got your little baby bottom spanked,
last one doesnt die neither, because you can still know you had practice gettin ur bottom spanked and can do it again more better next time lol
2007-10-19 03:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by robby o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I forgot my frist and about to forget my last
2007-10-19 03:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋