well i talk to this girl for about 3 months already and she looks like she feels really comfortable with me and we chat everyday and call every single day and we love each other due to our mentality and not physical. Like i always tell her that i am ready to meet in person but then she still says that she wants to be sure and want to wait longer....like should i wait as long as she wants? I love her a lot... What if it is too long? i would feel like i would never meet her at all...and that is really depressing...so should i just wait until she reallly really feels good when meeting me even if it take extremely long like 7 months or more?!! = ( Has this happened to anyone before???
2007-10-18 20:20:10 · 5 answers · asked by biscuits 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she said she is not ready yet, u just have to respect her wish! who know maybe becos of the fact that u are always so thoughtful and sweet, she might be the one who said she wants to mit u one of this day :)
its doesnt matter if its another few months of wait, people used to say the last thing that come around is the best!! worth waiting around...
hang on and wish u luck!!
2007-10-18 20:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by puzzlesw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my expierence it is never right to speak of love until you have met the person and gotten to know them in the real world.
I tend to meet someone as soon as possible so that the infatuation feels like love and the meeting keeps getting called off. If you do it right off you can say you want to continue this or you can say that you want to continue to see where this leads.
It also depends on how old you are. And how far apart you are.
I don't know one long distance romance that actually made it.
I know because I have tried. It is hard enough to get together with someone local.
Meet her and if she says no, that means she has something to hide, I am sure of it.
Online love is true, but it is also not a sure thing. Most often your expectations aren't real.
2007-10-18 20:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting is good. I met my girlfriend on messenger, and believe me it is better...a) because you get to know the person better and know if he/she is a sicko (which roam freely on the internet). and b) Because it helps to build a relationship before actually meeting.
You can also use webcams for a while, so you get to know each other aside from pictures and then meet.Have patience. It did take me a long time to meet my gf but now we have been together for more than 3 years, the waiting was worth it so hang in there dude.
2007-10-18 21:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by gnomepuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited 3 months before I met my current man - but then we met through a dating site so we knew we were both looking. But from what I gather 3 months is very long for most people, most people only chat for 2 weeks or so, sometimes less, before meeting up.
2007-10-18 21:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it took me 1 years plus to meet her.Which is extremly long.
Patience is what we need.
Plus it wasn't a planned meeting since we bump on each other on that day.
I liked her loads more than a friend but not more than a best friend-I can consider her as my close chat friend.
Just let it flow.
Online relationship is much better as you can easily know that person personality and it is easier to tell the truth on messenger.
2007-10-18 21:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋