Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

My boyfriend works third shift and goes to sleep usually at 8am. He came into the bedroom to go to sleep than an hour later, he woke up and started touching me and waking me up in the process. I love having sex and always want him so I definantly went along with it. My problem is I kept thinking of what turned him on in his sleep - which made me not enjoy it quite as much. What's the chance that he was dreaming of another girl? Or did he really just want me? My body type (really skinny with small boobs) really isn't he idle type (like most guys he loves big boobs) so I find it hard to believe that I'm the one that turned him on. I know this is really stupid but hurts to think that he just used me when another girl turned him on - not me. Help a paranoid girlfriend feel at ease.

2007-10-18 05:17:51 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

She dragged me to this really expensive place. When the bill came, she looked at me and said that where she comes from, its expected the man pays. I busted out my wallet, paid, then looked her in the eye and said that where I come from, when a man pays, its expected he will get laid.

Guess what? I DIDN'T. I mean, what the ???? Doesn't it work this way?

What did I do wrong?

2007-10-18 05:08:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was talking to a guy I've been seeing on the phone. At one point in the conversation something comes up and he tells me he'll call me back. Two hrs go by and he doesn't, so I text him. A couple of more hrs go by and he doesn't text back. So I text him again, letting him know generally it's rude not to text ppl back, esp if you promise to call them.
He ends up calling me at 1 in the morning, but I was asleep. So he calls at 8 a.m. He leaves a voicemail saying this, "Good morning! I thought I'd return you the favor and call you before you called me and woke me up. (friend laughs in the background). Just kidding. So, I don't understand why you sent such a harsh text. Honestly, I don't remember saying I'd call you back, but maybe I'm wrong. Anyway I have class at 10:00 so call me after that. Ttyl." Was he pretty much an asshole or am I just overreacting?

2007-10-18 05:01:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

are saying out loud ..."wow", "i can't believe you would ask me that?"..(so you do not answer).....this i could NOT believe, but that person ASKED AGAIN???...I just said ..."that is personal"....DO YOU know anyone like this?...and what do you say when they ask you inappropriate questions especially at work????...believe me, I was shocked!!! To her it was a regular question!!! ???? get that!!!

2007-10-18 05:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4

its been the same thing every weekend for a longtime now,if you know what i mean. but now i want more,i want a girl to have a serious relationship with but,ive asked girls out and its not going well!! but im classed as a player,which isnt the case anymore.have i poisoned my own name?

2007-10-18 05:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 05:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by MJ 6

For ladies, which one of the above is more important. Intelligence also relates to the level of education, appearance not only a handsome face but also body tone, and humor is pretty much self explanatory.

If you had to rank them from most important to least important, what would the order be?

2007-10-18 04:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 3 years older than me in school to try and get his attention and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there" and he did my tie up for me.
Why do you think he did this?
All answers appreciated.

2007-10-18 04:56:56 · 1 answers · asked by IloveNewYork 1

I haven't initiated contacted with my ex for 2 months. She was the last person who initiated contact with me the last couple of times. However, I recently initiated contact with her through myspace and AIM. We talked for a little bit through AIM but she seemed very cautious and appears to hold a mask in front of me. I'm planning to visit her the next week before I leave the country and hopefully still communicate with her through AIM. Do I apologize what happened and bring up the past or do i try to pickup where we left off (I don't want her to feel uncomfortable about bringing up anything in the past). I guess the whole point of the meeting is so I can make her feel comfortable around me and not have to be too weirded out.

2007-10-18 04:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 1

Ok well i had sex with somone that has a girlfriend, and now i might be pregneant.He cheated on his girlfriend with me and when he told her she obviously brok up with im. He tells me he loves me and things like that but yet he still wants his ex-girlfriend. When ever i talk to him its kind of akward and weird. He tells me he doesnt know what he wants. Should i just move on and get ovet ther loser or stick around and see what happenes with him and his girlfriend so i can be there to get with him

2007-10-18 04:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by tiffy lynn 1

What is it about me that keeps them away? This has been happening for years. It sucks.

I usually smile back at people who smile at me so that shouldn't be the problem. I'm not ugly [I'm not gorgeous, either.] I act confident. What's the problem? Aren't I doing everything right? I know you'll say I should approach them but I'm shy, even though I don't come off as it.

2007-10-18 04:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by april.may 3

2007-10-18 04:36:21 · 1 answers · asked by HELLO 1

Quick Question......

Do you prefer tall girls or petite girls???????????????????????????????????????

2007-10-18 04:36:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you know without wasting all of your time on them.

2007-10-18 04:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by :o) 3

There are girls, like me, who wait for the guy to come to them, but if the guy is waiting on her? This might be a trick question for most people. What would u do if u were like this?

2007-10-18 04:31:15 · 22 answers · asked by ღ 5

Many are proud about their birth(=it is not in our hands=) and some are happy that they GIRLS(Angels) and some are very happy that they are Boys (Romeos) I do not find any significance between these two, Then why there is a difference you feel, please answer me.

2007-10-18 04:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

I'm completely grossed out by this, but don't want to tell him because I don't want him to think that he is weird.
He has also asked me to lick my own blood after we've slept together while I have my period, which I've refused to do. But he keeps on asking me to!
What should I do? I'm afraid that his distasteful (in my opinion) fantasties will start to affect the way I feel about him after a while. I do love him but I never want to go through with what he has requested time and time again....
Help me!!

2007-10-18 04:26:52 · 45 answers · asked by Liljana C 2

do ya think girls with sort hair are attractive if so why


of course i do!!

2007-10-18 04:12:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 03:56:09 · 39 answers · asked by Kristen 1

Yesterday I asked my boyfriend to marry me but he said no because he didn't see his life going in that direction right now. We've been together for 3 years and we practically live together. So I don't understand it! Should I just try to get him to change his mind or leave him and find someone who will marry me?

2007-10-18 03:44:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this one of a kind girl that I will meet no greater than her!!! she head over heels for me she says i am special. when she smiles i smile, we be on the phone for hours as computer as well !!!The problem is she lives 3 to 4 hours away!!! I am not the type to be with a girl from long distance never did this before cause the majority of long distance never works out. I need advise an suggestions in how to deal and make it work

P.s. we are not together yet!!!

2007-10-18 03:43:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I like this guy a lot. And he gives me mixed signals. It comes down to the fact, I've figured, that maybe he only contacts me when HE feels like it. One day he acts like I'm his girl...he doesn't want me going on dates with other guys, but then I don't hear from him for 1-2 days. What should I do? Should I just quit talking texting him? What's going to happen when I do this? How can I know that when he contacts me again and I don't respond, that he really wants me back and not just because I'm not responding? Help out please.

2007-10-18 03:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6

I think he has been flirting with me. But so far, that's all he does (trying to hug me, asking me to hand shake for no reasons, winks one eye to me), etc. What can I do to encourage him to be brave enough to ask me for a date?

2007-10-18 03:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by questioning 1

2007-10-18 03:28:36 · 26 answers · asked by jesse m_violated for nothing 3

My guy swears he would die for me because he loves me so much. His actions contradict his words. He is forever looking and watching other women, especially blondes, with this **** eating grin on his face. I am not referring to a glimpse at an attractive woman, but to sit and watch, ignoring me. At minimum, I find this disrespectful. I guess, where is the line drawn? What are the thoughts provoking the facial expressions? AM I just stupid???

2007-10-18 03:19:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

isnt the "the rabbit" just the best best buzzy little friend a girl can have

2007-10-18 03:16:20 · 16 answers · asked by bdsmslavegirly 4

my ex told me that im a psycho and that untill i change she doesnt want to be with me. we were fine untilll like 8 months ago she became a B*tch and tryid telling who i can and cant talk to to so i listined and when i aske her to do the same for me she said ok but did it anyway never respected my feelings or anything. The problem is that i really love her and care for her how can i get her to be respectful and just be a good girlfriend ? The one problem is keep in mind that i stay at her house for school and **** so i cant really leave advices please thanks.

2007-10-18 03:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Hurt kid 1

2007-10-18 02:44:15 · 23 answers · asked by sweet_sunshine 2

When I was 17, my teacher of literature asked me and my friend to substitute her for one lesson for the 12 year old kids. We agreed, and most of the kids didn't listen to us, but there was one guy, who was very sweet: behaved really well, and did all what we asked him to do. In a couple of days he came up to us and gave us a chocolate each as a present. Then he ran away because he was too shy:) Now, after 5 years we meet, and he still remembers me. He's grown up, really handsome and as nice as he used to be:) I feel a soft spot for him now...Weird?:)

2007-10-18 02:27:48 · 58 answers · asked by LadyLike 2

Like when you're in the gym or wherever and you notice some guy who keeps looking over at where you are?

2007-10-18 02:19:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous