Im a 24 year old male, in a relationship. We are getting married in a few weeks. I work 9 hours a day, commute 1 hour each way morning and night, and lately with the stress of the wedding stuff, and normal day to day events, have had no desire to have sex whatsoever.
This is very abnormal for me, as im usually a pretty horny guy, and i never would have imagined i would be the one to turn it down so often. Lately my fiancee has been very upset because she tries to initiate and i just feel like i would rather lay there and do nothing, im not feeling it right now.
In the past if the girl doesnt want to, we guys have to accept that and respect it. How come the same isnt being done to me? Even though i tell her its that im tired she thinks i think she is ugly or no longer interested, its not true. And she even hints that me not wanting to is making her feel bad about herself and i should do it because i love her.
I do love her but i dont want to until i feel right about it.. help?
2007-10-18
09:21:44
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