Singles & Dating - 18 October 2007

well i'm only 16 and i've honestly never had a real relationship yet. so many people that are my age and even freaking 14 already have serious relationships and it makes me wanna have a boyfriend of my own too. not to sound conceited or anything but i'm not ugly at all----at least thats what i'm told and i don't think so either. some guys that i know or that i like only want to talk to me to "hookup" with me but i'm deffinatley not that kind of girl. i hate how theres never really any guys that like me, they just wanna hookup with me cause of my looks. so whats wrong with me?

2007-10-18 12:16:30 · 3 answers · asked by ___ 4

i've never gotten the full meaning of flirting and im still young so dont think that im like forty and i dont know what it means lol. i've always thought flirting was like talking smiling and pushing gently and being really sweet and innocent. a guy has played his stupid game on me before and i want to like reform and start being a flirting queen. how do you do that??

2007-10-18 12:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by cait. 1

Ex bf broke up with me about 3 months ago and just recently sent me this email. I'm not going to put the whole thing but this is basically what he said. He said that he needs someone that loves him (which is me) to tell him whats wrong with him. First he was telling how he was doing good in his financial aspect..but the only problems he had in his life were me and Laura..the girl he is seeing now. He says he knows he cant ask for me to wait for him but that he has really been sad lately and noticed I have been doing good. He said that he cant get close to Laura...its like theres a invisible wall there. And then he said the more he feels unwanted the more he wants. And in the end hes alone sad. That I didn't understand. I told him because he doesn;t love her his heart still belongs to me ..which is what I believe to be true. is that what it seems here.? Sorry I know this is kinda confusing

2007-10-18 12:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by mimi 1

I hadn't really initiated much contact with my ex for the last month...then i called him and we went out to coffee today. it was fun we just talked...not about anything serious but it was good to catch up. well the thing is, it was a mutual breakup but he led it more than i did. i still have a lot of feelings for him...i love him. where do i go from here...what do i do next after today? please help!

2007-10-18 12:08:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We know about each others sexual past..... we know everything about each other. We're not looking 2 bcum boyfriend/girlfriend... but I wonder will it ruin our friendship?

2007-10-18 12:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley W 2

i have a crush on this girl who goes to my school and church..she cute and smart and has a nice personality..i dontknow what to do...its very awkward i cant just ask her ifshe likes me.. also i cant go out with her...my whole family makes me feel awkward liking her..im also good friends with her brother..which is also kinda wierd...my other friends like her too...im in abind plz help

2007-10-18 12:04:22 · 7 answers · asked by Nathan K 1

Be with someone who is very different from you or someone who was just like you?

2007-10-18 12:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 and have a boyfriend that im absolutly crazy about but we dont go to the same school so i realy dont get to c him that much actully i saw him the day we started going out 3 weeks ago and thats it.
i know im 13 y tye myself down but i realy like this boy and i want to c him next weekend but i dont know were because other than the skating rink im not realy aloud to go anywere by my serlf.Movies?( cant go there"to many creepy people") so i dont know wat do

2007-10-18 12:01:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes my back hurts at work from sitting to long in front of computer. and my bf and I have been dating for 10months.

Every time I've asked him to give me a back rub he refuses and turns it into he's tired. at first i started to think maybe it was me. but not to be conceded but I'm very cute girl with a nice body. So why wouldn't he want to?

the two times he did it was very short and he made it hurt really bad and I told him he was hurting my back more than it was already and his excuse was "back rubs are supposed to hurt so when i stop it feels better"

his new one for the month is. "you dont really need one its just mentally it feels good but it really does nothing for you, so theres no point"

Is this true or is he blowing smoke up my butt again??

I'm starting to think maybe its me and starting to think that he's very selfish. and only wants for himself but when i ask doesn't happen.

so confused.

2007-10-18 12:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by ♥cup_cake♥ 2

sometimes my bf will just say the stupidest things just to make me mad.. he goes beyond things and calls me really mean names.. to him its just a joke...then he says he's just kidding when he sees i start feeling bad....but i'm sick of it he does it daily!!.. today he called me a B****, a fuken idiot. and then he says. " i'm just kidding" when he notices that i get sad. and when i ask him why he does it he gets mad and says he doesn't wanna talk about it.. i mean whats wrong with him.?

2007-10-18 11:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so there's this guy who I'm in love with and he loves me too (he told me this already) but the prob is he is with his long-time girlfriend who is also pregnant with his kid. They were together for like 6 years then they broke up and they got back together in January, and she got pregnant in July.
So he keeps telling me he will tell her and leave her but it's taking a longgg time. What do you think?

2007-10-18 11:56:23 · 51 answers · asked by She 1

Hi. So what cologne do you prefer on men?

-- Do you prefer different cologne on different occasions?
-- Do you think the cologne says something about the guy's personality?

-- Which cologne do you prefer?

Any info is greatly appreciated! Thanks!

Jeff

2007-10-18 11:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff 2

ok,, my boyfriend is the sweetest boy ever,, but he flirts like crazy w/ every girl,, and i heard he was guna break up with me for my cousin!! and they flirted so much that he didnt even notice me standin there!! and i havent broken up w/ him cus i dnt want to,, but if i have to i will,,

today,, my ex asked me out and i said to wait until i break up with him,, it slipped out of my mouth i didnt even want to say that!! but,, i didnt regret it cus i still have feelings for him!! WUT DO I DO???

2007-10-18 11:53:55 · 1 answers · asked by k-rae :) 2

whenever my girlfriend gets really drunk she always gets really horny and says i need sex... and i always get really insecure because i think that she will cheat on me...sure shes drunk...and sure we have been going out for over a year...should i feel insecure about it at all? or is this just a phase im going through? she has told me that she would never cheat on me but im really not sure

2007-10-18 11:53:02 · 2 answers · asked by Samuel B 1

We met 2 months ago and ever since then we have talked nonstop. Hes in his first year of college and im still a junior in h.s. well...a couple of nights ago we were talking and we had a really deep conversation. he told me that im his perfect girl and he thinks about me all the time BUT beacuse of our illegal age difference we dont date...and where he is he is looking for "someone". he wants to meet someone speacal.
does he even really like me?
-he talks to me all the time, always trying to get my attention
-makes trips down here just to see me (hes waiting til marrige so i know hes not looking for sex)
-tells me he likes me/misses me
is it at all possible to have feelings for me but still be open for another relationship?
my bff told me that he is *key word* "trying" to find someone (no luck) cuz he does really like me but is trying to hold back cuz of everything going against us...do u think that could be it?
whats going on with this boy?

2007-10-18 11:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2

i just told the ex who is 17 years older who just broke up with me, that i'm going to let him call the shots. he persued me big time and i treated him like crap with my immature crap. so he broke up with me. i told him that i'm giving him the control in the relationship and he can do what he wants with me. and that i won't go wild and crazy on him but that i would relax and just let him do the decision making. sex, etc. dates etc.

2007-10-18 11:51:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a happy relationship of a year, but my ex-boyfriend who lives in another country has been emailing me recently. I haven't written him back just because I didn't feel the need to write to him since I've moved on, but he is not giving up. Should I tell him to "get lost"?

2007-10-18 11:49:38 · 22 answers · asked by Jacinda 4

there is this girl have for my first period (drivers ed) and we always go out to the range to drive and she is always hanging around with her friends, but i want to get to know her, i want to talk to her so i can ask her out to homecoming next week, but the problem is that i do not know how to start an interesting conversation with her, and she also goes in my bus in the afternoon, can someone please give some sujetsions of a good conversation so i can ask this girl out to homecoming.She is a preppy girl just so you know.

2007-10-18 11:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by Kraze K 1

My best friend had asked me to help her with her wedding, I am a wedding planner.I went with her fiancee (who happens to be my ex-bf from high school)to help pick out tuxes. We went to lunch afterwards, and had a few drinks.We ended up back at my place, and we slept together. I feel extremely guilty and don't know what to do. It was a one time thing and I feel bad, but I don't want to say anything because it will ruin not only her marriage, but mine as well.

2007-10-18 11:42:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so i'm in eigth grade, and at the beginning of the year me and my friend vowed we wouldn't fall for a sevie. But now... I found this really HOT, funny guy that i THINK likes me back. the only problem is, he's a sevie, and i'm not sure things would turn out good. WHat do i do now?

2007-10-18 11:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

whenever my girlfriend gets really drunk she always gets really horny and says i need sex... and i always get really insecure because i think that she will cheat on me...sure shes drunk...and sure we have been going out for over a year...should i feel insecure about it at all? or is this just a phase im going through?

2007-10-18 11:40:52 · 2 answers · asked by Samuel B 1

so hard to meet a nice guy. i dont get it..:/ why cant i meet someone who likes me back? why do i meet people who like me, but i dont like them back..why does it happen to ME! ugh! im done with everyone!

2007-10-18 11:39:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I this crush on this Cute boy but he is going out with a PEST. PLEASE TELL ME WAT TO DO

2007-10-18 11:37:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like im too much of a good girl
im 20 and still a virgin!! sometimes im proud other times im not. i do want to have really bad but i cant just to do it i want it to be special and meaningful ya know. there was this guy who i have histlry with and i fell extremely hard for but he didnt want a relationship he just wanted to have fun. i dont know what signal i give off to guys to make them just want to have with me!! lol But i really wanted to be with him lol i even told him that i wanted him to be my first, and we were going to but then he told me he cares about me so we are just friends, i dont know what i did wrong there!! Any other dude would have jumped at it.Did i come on too strong?? Maybe he thought i was just not worth it all. He's 18 and he's alot more experienced then me, so i would think that he would jump at it. there was this one guy all he wanted to do was be my first he was always wanting to hang out. not this guy, i dont know what i did???

2007-10-18 11:36:05 · 3 answers · asked by iloveit 1

ok i just asked a ? it was about my boyfriend cheating on me and about how i got his password and stuff ok everyone is telling me to dump him if i am not pregnant but i knew this boy for ever we grew up together and yea its hard and i know i cant break up with him **** was going good untill 2 days ago i have know idea what to do i cant break up with him HELP ME PLEASE I AM SO SCARED EVEN THOUGH HE BROKE MY HEART I STILL CANT LET HIM GO. THIS IS LIKE MY FIRST LOVE SHOULD I DO **** SO HE WILL BREAK UP WITH ME OR SHOULD I JUST FORGET ABOUT EVERYTHING HE DID TO ME AND LET HIM CHEAT ON ME THE REST OF MY LIFE ............I DONT WANNA GO THROUGH THE SAME **** MY MOM WENT THROUGH BUT HOW CAN I GET AROUND THIS WITH OUT HIM BREAKING UP WITH ME AND ME BREAKING UP WITH HIM?

2007-10-18 11:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1

My boyfriend is turning 21 this weekend, both of us don't drink nor do we want to- his family, however, is really excited about the fact that he can drink, they've been throwing different ideas at him about where to go and what to do- I've expressed that I"m upset the I'm not being considered and can't join (we've been together 2 years, and see each other every day) He rejected their idea to go to vegas, and rejected their idea to go to a casino, today he told me that his (older) sister is going to take him out. Should I be angry? I'm feeling very frustrated, I don't understand why he doesn't see my point, that I am there for him every day yet on this milestone he wants to go out regardless of wether I can join! What would you do? Am I being unreasonable? What would you say?

2007-10-18 11:31:51 · 14 answers · asked by peaches11 1

2007-10-18 11:30:21 · 14 answers · asked by kary f 2

My guy and I were talking on the phone yesterday and I said I was having doubts about whether or not our relationship would work. (Long distance, was going to move to his state soon but now not so sure) I asked if he had any too and he said, "Yeah of course. I wonder if it will work, just like I would with any other relationship."
Later that day I texted him and said, "Based on your feelings for me do you think we could last longtime?" He didnt answer. I called him later and he said he didn't get the text. After we hung up he texted and said, "I lied. I got it. It made me scared." I texted him today and said we needed to talk about it because he has acted distant and weird since that first text of mine. He said he would call tonight.
What do you think this behavior means? Did I push him away?

2007-10-18 11:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i've been getting on really well with this girl and i was thinking about asking her out tomorrow night. Problem is i can't see her but i wanted to do it befire she leaves for a week so i was thinking of phoning her. Any suggestions on what i could say?

2007-10-18 11:25:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this girl who spread a rumor that I like this guy, who nobody likes, he's not nerdy, but kind of like a b-lister, so anyway the girl said that i liked him just because I am planning a winter dance 4 our school with him, when i went to go confront her about it NICELY she replied with "i don't know you" "get out my face" etc... I don't want this to go any farther, i don't know her, but i want this to stop.... NOW .... I'm new and just becoming popular and ui don't need her to ruin my reputation, what should i do?

2007-10-18 11:23:17 · 1 answers · asked by Miss K 3