Ex bf broke up with me about 3 months ago and just recently sent me this email. I'm not going to put the whole thing but this is basically what he said. He said that he needs someone that loves him (which is me) to tell him whats wrong with him. First he was telling how he was doing good in his financial aspect..but the only problems he had in his life were me and Laura..the girl he is seeing now. He says he knows he cant ask for me to wait for him but that he has really been sad lately and noticed I have been doing good. He said that he cant get close to Laura...its like theres a invisible wall there. And then he said the more he feels unwanted the more he wants. And in the end hes alone sad. That I didn't understand. I told him because he doesn;t love her his heart still belongs to me ..which is what I believe to be true. is that what it seems here.? Sorry I know this is kinda confusing
2007-10-18 12:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to get some help but you shouldnt be the person. Youre too emotionally attached and will get hurt. He chose another person to be with and unless he is willing to break that off to come back to you-it isnt fair to you. He cant have his cake and eat it too. Not everyone is gonna be happy
2007-10-18 12:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by navigate33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, that you will not play the other woman with him. If he wants to come back to you, then he needs to break it off with her. Until that happens, I would not put any faith in what he says. Some guys like playing both ends against the middle, so tell him he plays by your rules, or not at all. Self respect goes a long way.
2007-10-18 19:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like alot of people do.....confused and dont know what he wants. becareful, hes feeling anloe and down right now, dont let him use you for a good time and then when he feels better drop you again. he still has feelings for you or wouldnt of said what he did. or he may juss be looking to you for advice. just becareful in what you do and say. being used is not fun at all, i know. ive been used plenty of times as a rebound or a good time. but it never ends good..
2007-10-18 19:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds depressed and unsure of what he wants, like he needs somebody, but not you, because he broke up with you.....just a big ball of confusion....I think maybe meds are in order.
2007-10-18 19:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋