i have a crush on this girl who goes to my school and church..she cute and smart and has a nice personality..i dontknow what to do...its very awkward i cant just ask her ifshe likes me.. also i cant go out with her...my whole family makes me feel awkward liking her..im also good friends with her brother..which is also kinda wierd...my other friends like her too...im in abind plz help
2007-10-18 12:04:22 · 7 answers · asked by Nathan K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also shes a grade under me :(......im not desperate..
2007-10-18 12:08:24 · update #1
try to get to know her better, give her some hints ... make her fall for you. your family might be less likely to object if you get her to ask you out
2007-10-18 12:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have what is known as a conundrum here; but your biggest problem is what you say you won't or can not do--you can't ask her if she likes you and you can't go out with her.That shuts out the potential resolution of your bind.Look at it this way-----if you are friend's with her brother, your whole family make you feel awkward for liking her, your friends like her, you can't ask if she likes you ,and you can not go out with her , I agree with you that it is weird, but where does that leave you?. Unless and until you change your mind about what you can and can not do, and things you will and will not do, I do not see any help for you or any solution to your dilemma.Resolve this issue first and the way will become clearer for your next move.
2007-10-18 19:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel and realize that you're going to be teased no matter who you like....that's just a part of having a family....and so what if you're friends with her brother? You'd think that that would help you out....
2007-10-18 19:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't worry about outside circumstances when it comes to liking a girl. If you let others influence your feelings, you won't ever find the happiness you're looking for.
2007-10-18 19:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Flyers Fan of #18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. Don't worry, if she likes you back, she'll say yes. And parents and family are always weird about their son or brother or whatever dating. Don't worry. Good luck!
2007-10-18 19:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by i_luv_flip_phones 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say you're friends with her brother, so ask him what she likes. brothers know a LOT about their sisters (i should know). from gathering info from her brother, give her a present with a really pretty card that states your feelings for her and asks her out. if she likes you, she'll say yes, but if she doesn't.....you know how that'll turn out.
goooooood luck!!!! :)
2007-10-18 19:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by shadow dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will be teased no matter who you date or have as a girlfriend so mights well be someone you know
2007-10-18 19:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by justinjedi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋