Okay, so I like this guy a lot. And he gives me mixed signals. It comes down to the fact, I've figured, that maybe he only contacts me when HE feels like it. One day he acts like I'm his girl...he doesn't want me going on dates with other guys, but then I don't hear from him for 1-2 days. What should I do? Should I just quit talking texting him? What's going to happen when I do this? How can I know that when he contacts me again and I don't respond, that he really wants me back and not just because I'm not responding? Help out please.
2007-10-18 03:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you still texting him...he only calls you here and there because your not the only one, he is doing this to other girls too, you have a choice to make, you either put up with it or just drop him and move on.
2007-10-18 03:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Raz9Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he doesn't want me going on dates with other guys, but then I don't hear from him for 1-2 days." Oh! Gosh. why not go nuts already will ya. Calm down and date whoever you want too. Do not text if he does not answer you. Get a grip kiddo.
2007-10-18 10:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by mikeydonatelli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-2 days isn't a long time to go without talking to your bf, much less a guy that's not your boyfriend yet. If I wasn't officially dating a guy and was calling me every day or several times a day I'd cut him off. Even if it was my boyfriend I'd tell him to back off a little.
2007-10-18 10:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jane T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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well i think u should listen to this very popular statement and
know "You never know what you got 'till itz gone .if he is actin like this towardz u that proberly means that he got someone else(it may not be true) if itz not that then it also mean that he is just tryin to play with ya emotions but know that if u ignore him sooner of later he will feel it. snd Answer all his phones call just act like you dont want him but not to0o much make him want you mske him feel that he gotta have you trust me it worked for me ......................
2007-10-18 10:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by aqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, no one wants the unserious type for a relationship, if he is down with you he should come out plain...what you have said tells that he does not as yet feel convinced to settle with you...live your life as you will without recourse to how he feels.no more contact of any kind with him...ciao
2007-10-18 10:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by xcapee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, get a life of your own, and don't act clingy and desperate. Be happy to hear from him if and when he calls, but have other things to do when he doesn't.
2007-10-18 10:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta remember g/f that men are mixed signals....you are a single female..and date whoever you want UNTIL you commit to just one man..Don't text him, don't contact him, go out on other dates...don't let any man control you hun...
Besides...men like the chase.....remember that...
good luck.....
2007-10-18 10:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He he doesnt treat u like ur suppose to them just move on...Hes probably playing w/ u and thinks that whenever he wants u he'll have u...dont let him think he could do whatever w/ u whenever he wants!
2007-10-18 10:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋