So here is my question more like I need advice. So there is this girl that me and my man had a three some with and it was only supposed to me a one time thing. But for about a year she started talking about how she wanted him to father her baby. Now we have been fighting about this for about a year and I am not going to leave him I just want to know how to come to a conclusion without driving him or me insane.....
2007-10-18 20:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know you don't want to hear this but your anger is misplaced.
This tramp is not a homewrecker.
She should actually be commended for being so honest and telling you what she wanted to do.
Imagine if she had 'trapped' him into fatherhood....
At this point it his hard to unring the bell
but it is up to your husband to stop her from breaking up your home without his consent, your home is fine
with his consent, it is not
either way
keep other people out of yoru bedroom in your next relationship
2007-10-18 20:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is the problem. If it wasn't this girl that he obviously cannot speak up to it would be another girl. He's putting HER before YOU. There is no conclusion to make you both happy. I'm guessing he wants to father her baby. What does that tell you? So if you are not going to leave him be prepared to be second wife and the other mother of his children. Are you all going to live together too?
2007-10-19 03:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ground rules should have been set before the threesome ever occured!!
You need to draw a line in the sand now if the whole idea of her having your man's child is out of the question to you! You need to basically tell your man, "It's either her and her desires, or me!" If he chooses her, then cut your loses and run for cover. If he chooses you, then cut the other girl out of your lives completely and move on, lesson learned. If he's not willing to do that (cut her out of your lives) then that's a signal to move on without either of them. Good luck!
2007-10-19 03:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first roll of having a three some is . have it with some one you don't know and you would never run into again, you are stupid, now set and bear the pain of her stealing your man.
2007-10-19 03:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is exactly why people should not bring other people into their relationship. Thre has always been a crowd!!! Now it is also a pain in the butt!!
2007-10-19 03:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the problem is her... tell her to get lost and stay out of your life... and if he is not interested in her he will back you up on that... really you both need to come together and tell her to STOP!!!
2007-10-19 03:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋