met this guy 5 times, been for drink, shopping etc. never held hands or kissed just chatted. He texts every night with kisses at end of each message. we both shy so i cant work it out. He comming tonight for dinner, i dont no if i shud make first move?? dont wanna make a fool of myself.
2007-10-14 02:31:29 · 9 answers · asked by little miss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both have a few things on common but lots of differents, he was he one who suggested to come round and taste my cooking
2007-10-14 03:32:30 · update #1
make subtle moves to tell him it's ok to make the first move, if you know what I mean.
let him know subtly that you're in the mood.
maybe watch a movie on your couch at the end of dinner and get a little closer?
2007-10-14 02:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make the first move, believe me-I'm a guy, wenever a girl makes the first move it makes a guy think he has the hand in the relationship(like I do somtimes) and since ur not even sure how exactly he feels abt u-maybe he just wants to get in your pants..so if u make the first move-he's gonna think he can get what he wants..and if he does-u might never hear from'em after that
2007-10-14 02:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by I'mAnIdiot! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 07:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that *you* can't read signs, it's that he's giving mixed signals. You've been together five times, but he hasn't done anything. Yet he signs his text messages with kisses?
I've been with a guy like that and the confusion never ended. :( I tried kissing him and he didn't react; just kept talking.
I agree, don't make a move yourself. I'm afraid tonight will not bring any new information, just more confusion. But who knows - let's be hopeful! :D
2007-10-14 02:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by slishou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait a little to first see if he's gay(not saying he is) but dont make the first move just yet. Just go with the flow of things
2007-10-14 02:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by beauty beyond description 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be daring and ask. Opposits atrack. You won't get what you want by being shy. Go for it. He can say yes or no, but at least you will have an answer!
2007-10-14 02:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring relationships into the conversation, then say casually, "Have you been interested in anyone lately?"
If he says, "Yeah, i've got my eyes on someone," and he flirts with you, then say, "Me too strangely i'm staring at him."
If he doesn't co-operate then jst carry on chatting. Have an emotional heart-2-heart if it helps.xx
2007-10-14 02:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH no your good if you feel up to making a move. It will only make your time together much more enjoyable.
2007-10-14 02:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make the first move.. thats his job. YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THAT.
2007-10-14 02:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋