my best friend is a guy and he just got back this weekend. he really likes me and i kinda like him but not as much. i want to kiss him but i dont want to lead him on ... what should i do?!
2007-10-14 13:54:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sing him songs from The Little Mermaid, especially "Kiss the Girl" & see how it goes.
2007-10-14 13:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Raintrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out what's in your heart. if you like him, what makes you not like him enough to go further? what makes you want to kiss him? obviously your friendship has been moving in a romantic direction, but having been bestfriends for (how long) y'all should be able to communicate pretty honestly.
basically, kissing him isn't the only thing that's going to lead him on; flirting with him, crossing the boundaries of being friends, etc. all that is what's going to make this into an awkward situation. so if you really, deep in your heart, don't want this relationship to be a romantic one, you need to agree not to cross those boundaries. and if you do, you've got to communicate pretty clearly to him that you don't want it to. if he's a real friend, he'll get it.
hope this helps
2007-10-14 21:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by K-Os 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say that you want to go slow. That way you guys aren't rushing each other. Take the time to enjoy each other's company. If that doesn't work, be kind in the break up. He is your nest friend. It could turn into something really beautiful.
It could be your happy ending, but you won't know until you give it a chance.
2007-10-14 20:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Faye R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I was the same way when I was younger, but please, please, please don't go through with this! What do you really want? My guess is, you DONT want an attachment to this guy, even if you think you want part of one right now. Trust me, things will turn out much better if you don't do anything at all with him physically or otherwise--keep away from anything intimate, including holding hands or talking for hours on the phone. It may seem harmless, but it's not. If you do this, you will end up hurt and so will he. Please be careful and keep your distance until it runs its course. Good luck.
2007-10-14 21:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only kiss him if you want to take the relationship further- don't just kiss him out of curiousity - might ruin the friendship if he feels rejected after-especially as you know he likes you so much and you don't have the same feelings-it would be a bit selfish.
2007-10-14 21:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by wowzer4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do the normal routine in life. If you like him, try to find out if he is married or not. If yes, you must control your emotions and be the best of friends. If he is not married, do the normal routine in life and soon enough, he will finally propose.
Being best friends is the best couple to last forever.
Cheers :) GOD BLESS YOUR FRIENDSHIP.
2007-10-14 21:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mutya P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it goes without saying that best friends like each other. People who do not like each other are not usually friends. Don't kiss him if you think that that might hurt him. If he is your friend then you need to behave in a way that is in his best interest.
2007-10-14 20:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go to the movies, then if he starts to pull "The Move" (Pretends to be tired and puts his arm around you, then he goes in for the kiss) you know.
2007-10-14 20:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you like him. But mention that its not as much as he likes you. Yea it may hurt him a little but a little kiss will make up for all of the pain. lol
2007-10-14 20:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm okay so let me get this straight.. you KINDA like him.
but you WANT to kiss him...
well either
A. you like him more than you want to omit and in this case just date him and see how it goes.
B. your a hooker. and in this case your gross.
jeeez i can tell you must be in middle school..
2007-10-14 20:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋