ok so a year ago i fell for my best friend. we've been on and off friends and we've been fighting the whole time up until recently. like a month ago things were chill between us again and stuff, we were friends and i told her i would stop talking about her to people even if we werent and im still trying not to cause thats why she didnt like me. but like 2 weeks ago she made up some stupid lie about a fake 23 yr old bf and stuff and i got mad about it so she blocked me. then 2 days later i was walknig and hse came outside with her bff and watched me. i got home and called her about ti and she accused me of walking just to see her house or something and started yelling at me. she has no reason to be mad at me whatsoever. but recently ive been meaning to talk to her about how she acts and if its on purpose or from bi-polar. i want to tell her i cant keep doing this back and forth thing and that she needs to make up her mind.
2007-10-14 14:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by incineratethemachine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also wanna tell her in person, why i love her and stuff cause shes been wanting to know for a long time. and on top of that i think its getting near homecoming, which i cant go to since i got kicked out of school but idk. i want to tell her soon and maybe she will understand and change. what do you think?
2007-10-14 14:41:33 · update #1
i really believe you should tell her how you feel about her first. Then, you should comment on the way she's been acting. I had a similar situation with my best friend. Everything will be okay. Youjust have to talk to her. trust me =)
2007-10-14 14:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by EmoCareBear#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and think about this situation. You may love her, but the two of you are involved in an unhealthy relationship. The fact that you are on and off again friends and are going through all this drama for no reason tells you that it maybe best to be her friend from a distance. Apparently, she has a very nasty disposition and you going over there and telling her that you love her will only give her leaverage in whatever war she has waged against you. If you are truly concerned for her, let her know that you would like to be friends with her, but that you cannot continue to be so if she continues this behavior. If she continues to act nasty, then respect her decision and find someone who will not treat you like crap. You have to believe that you deserve to be with someone who will not go all bi-polar on you and will treat you the way you would want to be treated. She obviously isn't ready to be in a relationship with you and you don't need to place yourself in a relationship that will only get worse. It may hurt, but find someone who can be consistant with you and leave this girl alone. I am sure that once she straightens out her issues and realizes what a good friend you have been to her, she will seek you out (don't hold your breath though). Be friends from a distance and give her time to mature and allow yourself time to find someone else as well.
2007-10-14 14:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by chante n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a good relationship at all. You can't force things to be the way you want them. Just accept the sad reality and move on. Maybe once you both have someone else, you can be friends again. But what you are describing here isn't what I would consider a friendship.
2007-10-14 14:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lost Leo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting kicked out of school was your first HUGE goof up! It's never looked at as a fun person. I don't know why you were taken out but thats mistake number ONE! It sounds like she has no interest at all in a relationship and if she does, has a strange way of showing it. It seriously doesn't sound like she has a romantic interest in you. I would move on and just remain friends only or you might lose that too. Tell her how you feel if it's eating at you, and let's just hope you don't lose her as a friend too. This doesn't sound like a girl in love AT ALL!
2007-10-14 14:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by darlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this whole things sounds a bit bipolar. if she doesnt want to be your friend,lover whatever it may be time to move on. some times we have to let go of someone and if they are meant for us they will return. but the on off crazy attitude sounds a little insane to me.
2007-10-14 14:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you should definitely be keeping a journal.
I think this book would sell, probably be a hit movie.
2007-10-14 14:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Call her and ask her if she is bi-polar LMAO I dare you!!!
2007-10-14 14:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been where you are. trust me. it's not worth it. if you follow my advice, you'll think it was bull. but if you don't you'll with that you did. it's your call, but choose wisely.
2007-10-14 14:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her and see what she has to say take it from there and relax! :)
2007-10-14 14:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by polkadot101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋