i am constantly thinking about this one guy who hot and likes me, but sometimes he don't show signs (but sometimes he does-not as often as when he don't though ). i've cried once and am sad all the time. am i obsessed? or depressed? do i even need a boyfriend? i feel that i really do...i'm a sophomore...the boy is shy (sometimes), but outgoing and funny when he does talk...do i wait, and give it time? or try 2 talk to him more...
help!
I am clueless!!!!!
2007-10-14 15:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by Beth t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go tell him you like him and see if he likes you too. if he does, get together. if he doesn't, don't waste time on him. your prince charming may be just another person. loving someone should be very fun and happy. not sad and depressed. the wrong emotions may be hinting you that he is not worth your love. :)
2007-10-14 15:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by cheer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever need a boyfriend. Think about it, would you really like to be the girl who's being defined by the fact she has a "hot" guy who likes her? Or the girl who can play it cool, no matter how hot the guy can be.
If you really like him, why not talk to him more? If it's awkward to talk to him in school or hanging out with him there are always instant messengers and telephones. Ask for a way to get ahold of him. Maybe even ask to hang out but only as friends at first.
There isn't any need to get depressed over any guy. You don't need one. And remember an old quote: "No guy is worth your tears. When you find one that is he won't make you cry."
If he likes you, why doesn't he show the signs all the time? Perhaps he's unsure, and maybe uncertain about how you feel.
2007-10-14 22:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT LAST!!!! a girl posting a question who is actually at the age that they SHOULD start dating!!!! Go for it, that's all I can say. Even if he's shy, help him out a bit. Guys don't like having to break the ice every time. BTW, i'm a junior and the girl that i'm going to MORP (halloween dance) with is a sophomore. Try to keep a good age difference, yet under two years when dating. Good luck!
2007-10-14 22:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Darcy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you obsessed I don't think so.You sound a bit depressed. Do you need a boyfriend hell no. You sound like you want one though and nothing wrong with that. He doesn't need time he needs some guts, to ask you out. So since he probably won't till it's too late you need to walk over give him a slap and ask him out.
2007-10-15 03:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by cset2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him more. If he is a great guy, *then* consider being his girlfriend. You don't *need* a boyfriend-- I went through all of school (middle, high, and college) without a girlfriend. You will survive, and miss out on a lot of the silly, childish games in the process. No great loss there.
2007-10-14 22:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one mixed up person you are your own person you can decide that you do not need at this time to have the sresses of a boy friend there are no rules peer pressure should not apply just your own well thought out ideas.~~
2007-10-14 22:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....im thinking if ure the girl in my school cuz our story is so similar....i like this girl and she knows but sometimes i dont even show signs.....ive seen the gril try to go up to me but then she gets scared or something and backs away....i guess i should talk to the girl and so should u talk to the guy more and once u get to know him more ask him what he thinks about u
2007-10-14 22:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by some guy with questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever thought about whether u like him only because u feel like u need a bf, like the rest of ur friends?
I suggest u talk to him more to really find out what he's like. Perhaps he's not what u think he is. Because it really sounds like u don't know him that well. :))
2007-10-14 22:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre desperate for a bf i think which isnt a bad thing...you may seem a little obsessed also but thats ok too...as long as you dont take the obession to far.. just relax- i know its hard coz i have dealt with it but youll be ok and your guy will come around.
2007-10-14 22:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Chasity B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
o yeah n u really need a boy
i bet almost every1 has 1
2007-10-14 22:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by psych3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋