i think he might also be dating his ex again who is about his age and have kids. he wanted me in the beginning and treated me like a queen but i was not ready to be in a relationship to realize i really did like him. i asked him back already. he says i don't deserve him. he told me to give it a month and think if i still want to be with him and we'll talk about it. what do i do in this situation. and what are the things i can do now to increase my chances of him wanting me back.
2007-10-14 14:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes to old hes a father figure move on
2007-10-14 15:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow, I am 42 and my boyfriend is 24. He played me in the beginning too. I kind of just let him know that I loved him and when he was ready for a relationship with me, I wanted to be with him. It didn't take him long to realize that I am what he wants. We have been together almost 2 1/2 years now and we are happier and closer then we have ever been. Hang in there if you want him, our situations are reversed, but if he feels that you are grown up and ready to handle a real relationship then you might be just what he needs.
2007-10-14 22:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in different mature level, you are young, it's almost not possible to get alone with him, cause he has children. For him, even it's ex, still his family forever, and who are you? Unless you are mature enough to accept the fact that he will meet the ex regularly and be with you at the same time, or you should just move on, and get boyfriend with your age.
2007-10-14 22:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, my boyfriend and i have an age difference similar to that too. and he spoiled me too!
well if he thinks waiting for a month is a good idea, you should agree to it. but don't totally stop being in touch.
if you have excuses to "Accidently" bump into him, dress as best as you can, and for a month, in case you bump into him, don't ever be off guared, wear cute things and makeup is a must (unless he liked you without makeup blabla)
try to 'bump into him' as much as possible, . seeing you around will make him realize that he loves you still
And, tell him that age doesnt matter to you, and that you deserve him no matter what he says.
(be a whiny baby, tell him that you want him, and that you love him)
2007-10-14 22:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you get him back, do you think you will be treated as good again?
You will not.
Once bitten..................
He will not be the same.
Do both of you a favor and move on.
2007-10-14 22:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Blessed 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont blame him, learn by your mistakes, leave if hes happy with his ex and their kids.
2007-10-15 03:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-10-14 22:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie Jeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing you for attention and affection............if he is still playing his ex,,, he's gonna play you worse
Good to be a QUEEN once, but hell to be a loser twice
2007-10-14 22:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by At peace with myself 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Swallow the pill and move on, you were a sh*t now your in it...
2007-10-14 22:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie Cd 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋