Just a guy thing "no girls aloud " Then he starts telling me how great its going to be and how he will have heaps of hot girls around him maybe even sitting on his lap you know the INDY GIRLS not to sure how to take it thats all. I feel i can trust him just a little jeloius do you think its ok will he be faithful
2007-10-14 14:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship is all about trust. You really can't stop him from going. You need to work on this yourself since it seems to be your insecurity. Everyone gets jealous once in awhile. He should be more sensitive to that fact. He probably dosen't realize that his talking about the INDY GIRLS is causing you some grief.
2007-10-14 14:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was just a little insensitive and tacky for your boyfriend to be talking about all the women he is going to meet at the INDY and all that jazz. While that does not mean he plans to cheat , it may show a lack of understanding, that he wanted to make you jealous,that he is trying to bait you into a reaction that might lead to a breakup, or maybe he does not care for you anymore.Since you did not give us a lot of info on both of you --- like how long you have been dating, if there have been past cases of cheating etc---only you can determine the answers to the above questions and what they mean.However, I would suggest that you have a talk with him and let him know that he hurt your feelings and is making you suspicious of him and his intentions at the races .How he responds might give you a good clue into his inner thoughts and help you decide if he can still be trusted.
2007-10-14 21:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy talked to me that way I wouldn't worry about him being faithful because he wouldn't be MY boyfriend any more.
Why would you trust a guy who tells you "he will have heaps of hot girls around him maybe even sitting on his lap". That's not my idea of how a guy should live up to my trust. Another woman on your lap? I don't even want to know why. Just leave.
2007-10-14 21:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it's a bachelor party, you should have a serious talk with him. You should also evaluate the point you're at in the relationship.
2007-10-14 21:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he alsways been faithful? i had a boyfriend that would do that too and he was just doing a guy thing let him go and enjoy himself guys need guy things like that to do,
2007-10-14 21:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him
2007-10-14 21:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋