ok back in may my ex im'ed me and said she wanted to see me and she would give me head if i came down and see her, so i went down and seen her we went to an abanded house and she started to kiss me i asked her if we can have sex then she just climbed on top of me then started to give me a lap dance and she wispherd in my ear how bad do i want it, i said bad then i put my hand down her pants and ask her again if we can have sex, she wen into the next room and pulled down her pants to her knees then i took them off the rest and we started, after we did it she kept textin me tellin me how much she love me and dont tell anyone bout it and stuff like that and now she's claimin i sexual asulted her? is this sexual asult if i have text messages saying that she loves me after and stuff like that and she pulled down her own pants? i need to kno i got court soon!!
2007-10-14 15:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BY THE WAY!!!! forgot to say i couldn't get it in at first then she told me to "SPIT" on it an i did. AND I SAVED THE TEXTS!!! lol
2007-10-14 16:28:17 · update #1
no man.. both parties consented to it.. you should get de msgs as proof against her in what she's claiming.. sexually assaulted people dont send love notes to their "assaulter"........ they get traumatized or something like dat... if she said dont tell anyone abt it, seems like she planned it from day one.. kick dat *****'s butt in court!!!
2007-10-14 15:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Dean O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it's worth the stress you're putting yourself through. If what you're saying is true you will be fine even if it does go to court.
Sadly it's hard for a woman to prove sexual assault in court WITH evidence, letalone without.
I hope things happened as you say & that you're not deluding yourself.
2007-10-14 22:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i took my boyfriend to court recently because i wanted a restraining order on him...but that's a little bit off i just wanted you to know that i know what i m talkin about when i tell u this-it most deffinitely is NOT! she willingly did it and you have good proof that she did so you're off the hook don't worry about anything...oh and when you go to court you can completely relax it's better because the more nervous you are the more u'll start blabbing if the judge asks you something so just relax the law's on your side...i would say good luck but you don't need it lol well have fun putting that little skank back in her place byee
2007-10-14 22:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by slavka123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She played you man. Did you ejaculate inside of her? If you did, she may have proof if she gets pregnant by it. Just tell the truth about it, and make sure you saved the text messages so you can show them to the Jury and the Judge. If you do not have the texts, and she gets pregnant, just tell the truth. If you tell the truth they should trust you if everything you tell is proven.
2007-10-14 22:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Mr. Ha Ha. Sexual assault is no laughing matter. Go to court, present your evidence and see what the judge thinks.
2007-10-14 22:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sincerely hope you saved those text messages! That will be your proof that it was mutual. Sounds to me like she is unstable and I have no doubt that the court will see it that way too.
2007-10-14 22:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds consentual based on the way you described it (and therefore NOT sexual assault), but your age relative to hers is also a deciding factor,too. Is she of sufficient age to grant legal consent?
2007-10-14 22:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to contact the phone company and get all the text messages to use as evidence. Better still, you might want your lawyer to do that.
2007-10-14 22:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any time you put your penis into a vagina you run the risk of it being considered assault. Even if she forced herself onto you. So the only way you can be sure to not be charged for assault is to keep your penis in your pants.
2007-10-14 22:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by drinkerofink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but she might try to prove it that way,
while you're consulting your lawyer, if you end up going to court for it,
you should try proving it with the text messages and phone records,
PLUS, try to prove that there's no sign of physical struggle. (like she doesnt have bruises, bite marks, bla blabla,) <-unless you guys played it real wild
2007-10-14 22:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋