We got tickets to the Raiders/ Chargers game as a gift from his parents to us ( they were given to me) I'm not AS big of a fan as he is ( well I'd call him a fanatic not just a fan) but I really like football. Plus they were playing for first place and it against the raiders for god sake, and we hadn't been out together in forever I was really excited about going with him. Great seats and I love sharing something that makes him so excited. but when I woke up Saturday morning to him talking to his friend. He said "Yeah I know it sucks but I feel obligated cause my dad gave them to her" I was really really hurt. I understand that he might have had different fun with a guy friend. And I told him to take someone else because I didn't want to be where I wasn't wanted. but it was a lie kinda. I wanted to go so bad. What should I do. He's being really difficult about it( I know I over reacted too we had a big fight). I need an outsiders view, specialy a guys point of veiw. please help
2007-10-14 20:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Brizzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The kick off was today at one fifteen it's already over. we've talked and what I got from it was that basicly I will never be his first choice and he will always feel obligated. we've been together for a while and I'd rather figure out how to work it out that break up
2007-10-14 20:22:24 · update #1
He should want to spend time with you more than with his friends.... you're his partner.
Are you sure he wasn't just trying to placate his friend? Maybe he really did want to go, but he didn't want to admit to his friend that he did?
Or, he is more interested in his friend than you... which opens up a whole new can of worms....
2007-10-14 20:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by A derka der 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how that would hurt your feelings! Maybe he spends most of his time with you, and is wanting to spend a little more time with just the guys? The fact is, though, that the tickets were given to you and he should have respected that and been happy to go to the game at all! Its best to sit down and have rational disagreements rather than screaming at each other. I know its hard sometimes, but its really the only way to work it out!
2007-10-14 20:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your boyfriend but you haven't " been out together in forever" and he's complaining about going to a game and spending time with you? I think it's high time you find another guy who would be thrilled to take you to a ball game or anywhere else for that matter. Also, you did NOT overreact...he did. What a jerk.
2007-10-14 20:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by doodlebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him they're a gift to you, and if he doesn't want to go with you, you'll find someone else to take! He's a jackass, maybe you should figure out someone else to date?
2007-10-14 20:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him: " I know it sucks for you to have to take me so I've decided to take someone else."
Then I'd find a REAL boyfriend!
2007-10-14 20:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out.
Get his side.
Give him yours.
I'm not a guy, but that's the best I got.
Do the mature thing.
Good luck.
2007-10-14 20:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by DefinatelyMaybe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your place I will dump him right away.
2007-10-14 20:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by dicovi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋