When I went out with my friends, we went past a restaurant and I looked through the window and I saw my boyfriend kissing a girl passionately so I went home and I threw his clothes out on the front lawn and turned the sprinklers on. When he came home he got really pissed and he gave me back my house keys. And he said it was his sister that I haven’t met (when he doesn’t even have a sister) when he had a hickie on his neck. I slapped him and closed the door. He drove off. Did I over react? He keeps SMSing me saying that he is sorry and leaving me notes on the front door saying that he is sorry, too. What do I do?
2007-10-14 23:33:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should you do?
Well the obvious decision would be to take him back. He cheated on you...and I didnt think that was such a big deal. let him come back and lie and cheat and possibly contract an S.T.D. Why not?
See how stupid that sounds? What do you think you should do?
2007-10-15 00:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hee hee hee!! Great job!! I'm not the type to do what you did, but Gawd knows I've wanted to! You've gotten a little payback for everyone who's ever been cheated on.
Stick to your guns, that's what you should do. This guy is no damned good and he never will be. Cheating is a way of lifew for a cheater. Tell the bum to leave you alone.
2007-10-15 06:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give in. he's not only a cheater, but a liar as well. you don't kiss a sister on the lips - or at least not in my book. if you want him back, think about it a loooong long looooooooong time. because odds are he'll do it again. you didn't overreact. you showed him that you're not to be messed with - he's the one who messed up in the first place, so you haven't done anything wrong.
2007-10-15 06:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know whats worse that he cheated on u or tried to convince you that he was having a makeout session with his sister! LOL
but seriously, no you didnt over react good on you!
there will be more guys and by the next one youll be like my ex...my ex who?
2007-10-15 06:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so did the right thing.... good on you. You have your self respect to think of so move on and find someone that will give you everything... it will do good in the long run.. be strong and don't take him back...
Good luck
2007-10-15 06:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think you did the right thing =]]
if you live together, you'd know if he had a sister wouldn't you...
and you don't passionately kiss your sister...
it's all a bit weird isn't it..
anyway yeh you did the right thing.. and you shouldn't go back to him or accept his apologies.
cheating is not right.
2007-10-15 06:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing...If Im in your place I will do more than that. I will kill him and I will never want to see his face again.
2007-10-15 06:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by jhunabell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, his messges and his notes. Especially because he said it was his sister! Move on!
2007-10-15 06:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him.he cheated on u!!!
go find someone who is really worth ur time.
never stick wit someone who cheats not worth it
2007-10-15 06:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Fix Me In 45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not over react he deserved that! i say end it, you deserve someone better
2007-10-15 06:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋