my bf has always moved slow with me because i have had bad experiences with guys i know he is ready to kiss me but is afraid to do so because he dose not want to scare me but now i'mready and don't know how to tell him please i need some help please awncer if you can
2007-10-14 19:14:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf has always moved slow with me because i have had bad experiences with guys i know he is ready to kiss me but is afraid to do so because he dose not want to scare me but now i'mready and don't know how to tell him and i don'tthimk i have enough courage to just come out and say it or tokiss him please i need some help please awncer if you can
2007-10-14 19:40:18 · update #1
Get him... Sneak in a kiss when he isnt paying attention. That way it kinda hints to him, and you dont have to be at a loss of words when your trying to tell him
2007-10-14 19:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by ibrollin05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You have to ask the advice of a total stranger, well then, to put it bluntly, You are not ready. Now go and ask Your Mother about Her first kiss.
PS: (Make sure You say 'kiss', and not just 'first time', otherwise You might give Her a nasty shock).
2007-10-14 19:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do...
When you're really ready to give your first kiss to him,
You should stare at him in the eyes with a sweet smile
After that you hug him...
Pull away slowly and make sure your face is near his
Then you close your eyes and motion for a kiss
2007-10-14 19:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by larcy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have to kiss you first - you can kiss him first. Take the lead and let him know with a very soft peck on the lips and then see where he goes from there. Its ok for a girl to let a guy know what she wants be leading him into it - sometimes they are not the smartest and need the help.
2007-10-14 19:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by livelongandprosper2000 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is a great guy who is sensitive to your feelings and needs. That is fabulous, he sounds like a real gentleman. Why don't you just say to him. Would it be okay if I kissed you? And of course he will be pleasantly suprised that you are ready and you can kiss.
Communication is vital in a relationship, it sounds like he is a great guy so be sure to tell him how you are feeling, otherwise he will never know!
2007-10-14 19:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do one of 2 things: just go ahead and kiss him first, or talk to him, tell him you're ready. Don't let awkwardness stop you from advancing your relationship, let him know you're ready, it's the only way, wether you tell him or kiss him.
2007-10-14 19:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u feel the right moment, kiss him. Nothing bad will happen ;)
2007-10-14 19:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Acid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok that's my zone oh ya *pumps fist* love checklist interior the living house ok u ought to look him interior the eyes and carry his hand/ then u pull him nearer and positioned ur brow against him/ then positioned ur hands around him/ then say u love him and u prefer to be with him continuously/ then in basic terms kiss him and say i such as you returned then in basic terms flow from there
2016-12-29 10:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just pucker up and do it a guy never wants to rush a girl he cares about but telling him is a lil korny like "i want to kiss you" sounds like something a 5th grader would do (in my opinion) i would just pucker up and do it, by doing this you well bassicaly be telling him its ok
2007-10-14 19:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by d-lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss him, nothing like talking about it and making it awkward.
2007-10-14 19:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋