ok ley me fill you in with the detaisl. i met this girl from one of my friends that also happens to be a girl. well the first day we met we had both had liqour. so we end up making out and she spends the night at my house. for the next 2 days she keeps sending me txt messeges how she thinks about me and all this so she stays at my house for a few days but we dont have sex. well one day we have an argument and she goes back home i dont hear from her for days then she txt me that shes mad and to leave her alone i said ok. later on that day she yells me she just wants to be friends. if his was the first time something like this happens i wouldnt work my self over as much. but in the past theres been several situations where me and a girl are interested in each other but then they tell me "lets just be friends" need help please what am i doing wrong im tired of hearing this over and overagain how do i avoid it? this began about 2 weeks and she told me yesturday can i still change it aroun
2007-10-14 20:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by rydeordie07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is better to have a relationship with the right female i.e, your wife. Rather than giving ears for unknown females and spoils your healthy mind and mood, why dont you get married and get into the right relationship?
2007-10-14 20:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. If you really care about her show her. Usually when a girl says lets just be friends, its because
1) they are not sure about how they feel for you (If they dont like u they can easily be just friends)
2) They still love another
3) they dont want to hurt ur feeling
4) They just want to flirt around
5) etc.......
Its not easy to change someone else, but u can easily change urself. Iv had girls who told me to just be friends and then turned out to be my gf. If u just stay friends with her, u'l have reasons to invite her to go out for a good time. Then u can show her whats shes missing. The key is to care for her and not be like other guys. Show her that u care for her by spoiling her with gifts and compliments on occassion (If she has just done her hair, make sure u notice it and compliment her about it). Be carefull not to do it everytime u c her. Other wise u'l b just like the other guys and she'l think of u as too easy to get if u spoil her every day. Everyone likes a challenge. Dont be macho and act out infront of her friends or her. Be urself and stayu true to that (Unless u r an @*#hole, in that case dont b urself).
Find out what she likes and show interest in that. Support her even if she has impossible dreams.It'l mean the world to her (Sometimes the imposible do happens and u'l b the luckiest guy if u wer the only one that suported her).
There are so many things u can do. Just keep on trying and dont giv up. Just dnt b obsesive.
2007-10-14 21:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jonathan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of a girl would get 2 know u 4 a very short time and d first thing she does is 2 go 2 your house with u, don't she have her own house, and she also drinks, what were u thinking, my friend i don't expect that relationship, if ever there was one 2 work. i think what u really need 2 do is give your self a brake. see who realy is worth worring 4 before u take chances, also keep God close by. u might need him u know.
2007-10-14 21:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by larobamusa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had really good friends who had that problem and couldn't figure out why chicks didn't want to put the forever banner or them. Most of the time they are good looking and have money but eventually their g/f's confess to their "little" problem.
This has happend to my sister twice. She was in love with these guys until she had sex and then it was like..FRIENDS
And some of my best friends stopped dating guys for the same reason.
So....you know what....SIZE DOES MATTER
Sorry but the problem is probably:
TEN TONS OF DYNAMITE WTH A TWO INCH FUSE!
To counter act this...stop having sex with them...date them...marry them.
She will have a harder time leaving once she is married and ...you can buy toys and stuff to help.
Also you can find an indian woman....they are very loyal to their husbands.
2007-10-14 20:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by naharashia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart mate. If she syas stop and your heart says go, then keep trying. Who knows, maybe her telling you to stay friends was just her way of testing you or maybe she was still mad at you. Do something nice for her, maybe she'll change her mind. Show her the part of you that she hasn't seen yet. It might take a while, but it might be worth the effort. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-14 20:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by clarence j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never take a girl on her verbal expression.Watch for the clues and take a decision.'Being just a friend' literally means proposing to become a free loader and who wants that?
2007-10-14 20:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let's just be friends" is code for I don't like you romantically.
Similar to that catch phrase for women "he's just not into you."
You can be masochistic about it and woo her again. But the game has to be interesting. Don't pester her. Let her come to you.
2007-10-14 20:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shove a twix in her mouth please
give her a moment to rethink
2007-10-14 20:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jason K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever anybody says to me (in any context) 'let's just be friends' my standard answer is:
'i have an even better idea. let's not.'
2007-10-14 20:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by synopsis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just too sweet and should try being "the bad boy" lol
2007-10-14 20:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by cHoCoLaTe~cHiPpY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋