How long does it usually take you to love someone? (Guys/girls, from previous experience)?

Question

How many dates? When did you tell yourself," I love him/her"?

how fast is too fast?

Answer 1

Everyone is different. Some people can instantly fall in love. Those kind of person who instantly fall in love makes me feel that they are easily fall out of love.

I personally will look and observe carefully if I truly want to be in a long term relationship with this guy. If he feels the same way... Feelings about 'love' will surface eventually. It just the feel you'll know when you do. Doesn't matter how many dates, days, weeks, months and years the 2 person are together. When you realize that you can't live out that person and can't imagine him/her not being in your life you don't know what you'll be doing, who you are or what will happen. If the person can give you such an effect in your life then that means you love him/her.

Answer 2

thats not an easy question to answer because there is really no answer. Even when you think you love someone, when you actually do love them its a whole new experience. You can fall out of love and not really realize it, then find yourself falling in love again. You can wake up oneday and jus realize you love someone.

Me and my current fiance...well, i think i hooked up with him on the rebound from my kids father because it happened so fast. we went out a few times, then took the relationship further without even discussing where we were going with it, and oneday out the blue he just told me he loved me. We had not been dealing with each other that long and i didnt even think about where my feelings were with him. so that was kinda crazy.

Each experience is exactly that, an experience. No 2 are the same. Go with your instincts. Telling someone you love them can be one of the biggest obstacles to overcome in a relationship and carry the most weight. so be careful but only you know when the time is right.

Answer 3

I'm really bad, I tend to fall in love in about a month to a month in a half. I think it's too fast to really know someone but I can't help it. I know it's dangerous but if your really feel it then go for it. being in real love. deep love. it's the best thing ever and it's always worth the risk. my only advise is try to avoid the real crazies haha jk :)

Good luck with everything

Answer 4

Quite a long time. Maybe a year maybe 3 months. I've been dating 6 times now. I told myself that I love her when I felt that her smile gave me some kind of comfort.

Answer 5

If you find yourself thinking about her during the day, wondering what they are doing and your tempted to call them at least twice a day, thats a good sign that your in love.

How long does it usually take - sometimes it can take years before you realise it.

Answer 6

depends on the person but i know w/in 3 months, its usually based on the kiss for me, and staring into his eyes. i have found love 3 times in my life, unfortunately 2 at the same time. so the question should be how do you choose between 2 loves?

Answer 7

I did it way too early. One relationship only lasted 3 months before we mutually decided to break up because of long distance.

So I don't think you can really quantify it by the #dates. It really takes time to get to REALLY know someone before making that decision.

Answer 8

I usually know around a year of dating.

Answer 9

Here's a thing...you tell yourself "you love her/him", but is the feeling mutual? But that's beside the point.

Anyway, from my previous experience...parang nagpa-develop lang ako ng picture..."one-hour developing!". That's how fast I get lovestruck.

Hahahaha!!!

Answer 10

For my ex bf i told him after the 5th date. For my bf for 10 months now I haven't told him still because i want to take our time but I know we love each other.