i went out with this guy last year and he cheated on me!i told myself i would never get back with him ever again.well my friend had a party sat. and he came well we talked and i started feeling for him again.sun. i asked him out and he said that he would think about it but i dont think i made a good chose of asking him out again.what should i do?
2007-10-14 19:54:24 · 20 answers · asked by chasity b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's up to you! What does your heart say? do he make you happy? do you see a future with this person? If in case you do go back with him, Just be very careful... Like they say once a cheat always cheat.... I know, I gave my ex a try again, and he cheated on me with the same girl, now there going to have there child and living together, while I'm here picking up the pieces of my life, so Truth but not all the way, And make him work for your Truth,
2007-10-14 21:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you hit an awkward nerve in him that made him say he would think about it. But the way I see it, once a cheater, always a cheater. From his answer, he doesn't seem all too thrilled about wanting to get back with you again...and I don't think he has the same feelings for you either. I think you should just move on and not feel for him. It's hard especially since all the good times and good memories of you two being together came back, but what about if he hasn't truly changed himself and would cheat on you again. Then you would be hurt and say that that you don't want to be with him ever. Since you already said that the first time, you should not think about hooking up with this guy again. He just seems like he's not sure about himself at the moment either. Leave the situation be and ignore it. Pretend that you never talked to him and never asked him out. If he does call you though, however, in the future, just be careful. Guys who cheat are not guys you can really trust. And for all you know, you might be the other woman if he really is dating someone else......then you would be the one he cheated with on his girlfriend. That's not a good thing.
Good luck!
2007-10-15 03:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do??
R-U-N!!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why would you want to subject yourself to humiliation...again?? Did you like it??
The definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over...and then expecting different results. You need to realize that you'll be treated just the same as before, and probably worse, since you've decided to ask for more of a bad thing.
He's not worth your time. Get some self-respect. Go get a book called "The Rules".
2007-10-15 03:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, You think it was not a good idea because he said "i'll think about it". that was pretty rude if ya ask me.
He is acting like his sh** don't stink.
I would say, if he even calls, that you were not thinking right and want to recall the invite.
Who cares it he bugs him, after all he is a cheater, remember.
You don't need someone like that back into your life.
Good gravy, if he was really sorry about the cheating and the break up he would have jumped at the invite, not thoughts to it!
2007-10-15 03:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a little nervous at asking him out. If asking him out were the right thing to do, I don't think you would be so worried right now. It seems to me that asking him out doesn't fit with the situation at hand. He should be the one running and/or begging you to come back to you...not the other way around. He is the one who cheated. He is not likely to respect you if you are so quick to take him back. It would be hard for him to take such a pre-emptive request seriously.
2007-10-15 03:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run very fast in the opposite direction. This guy obviously had no respect for you last year and hasn't gained any since then. No sure how old you are but always remember you can do better. If you respect yourself others will too. Just keep telling yourself I deserve better because you do.
2007-10-15 03:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by doodlebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really common for ex's to conjure up feelings again, but you CANNOT make decisions based on those feelings!! It's just not a smart idea. Feelings about a guy are good, but find a better guy (with the QUALITIES you want) to have those feelings for!!
2007-10-15 03:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, don't do it again. This guy will cheat on you again. He's just heartbreak, don't give him a chance! If he says yes to going out, say you changed your mind.
2007-10-15 02:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has already cheated on you, chances are he won't stop. Don't waste your time. Move on to bigger and better things. Why take one step forward and two steps backward?
2007-10-15 03:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by lovely2u22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He cheated on you. He will probably do it again. You told yourself to never to do it again for a VERY good reason. Don't do it again, you'll regret it. Once a cheater always a cheater. Burn me once, shame on you, burn me twice, shame on you.
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-15 02:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Freke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋