i just had a breakup.. what should i do.. i wanna suicide..
2007-10-14 20:37:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont.. i'll be here with u .. dont do it.. i love you
2007-10-14 20:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit suicide. Here's something that'll help you heal. Trust me, it's not the end of the world. It happens. We all make mistakes and we learn from them. And even though if it wasn't your fault, don't worry. Be calm. It happens. I wrote this when I was feeling troubled after a breakup a while back, but I never thought of suicide. You shouldn't either. Check it out:
When one decides to take away everything you thought you had, in an instant, thoughts begin to ram the insides of your mind. You feel like your past was worthless, your present is lost, and your future doesn’t seem so clear anymore. Your senses begin to fail you; your vision begins to blur, and you feel as though everything you did for that person and everything you’ve been through has become a waste. All your sacrifices, all your commitments, all your extra steps for that person have been overshadowed by darkness. You wonder why, or perhaps how? And you answer yourself with a different response every time. You feel more angry than depressed. You feel like all you thought you had doesn’t exist anymore. You thought true love would last longer, or perhaps never end, but found out it wasn’t so true after all. You lose hope; you think and wonder. The second one decides or realizes there are more important things in life, that love is no longer real. If the person really truly loved you, he/she wouldn’t have walked out on you like that. That’s proof that what you had wasn’t real. You thought you finally found someone, but you thought wrong. You felt you finally found true love, but you felt wrong. You thought you were finally happy, but you were stabbed from behind, straight in the heart, never to feel, see, or believe the same way again. You feel as though God is punishing you for absolutely no reason at all, when in reality, he is sending you a message. You feel your emotions slowly drifting away. And you ask yourself, “Why?” After all that’s been done and said. After all the love you thought you felt and had. You are yet to understand. But then again, some questions are yet to be answered. Life goes on, people move on, and love never fails to become more dreadful. But why should you feel hurt? He/She doesn’t seem to care. In fact, the decision didn’t even affect him/her. So why should it affect you? Why should you care? Face it; there’s nothing more you can or should do. Be strong; forget about it…
-Petros Bakalyan
...good luck!
2007-10-14 20:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by xxhyeballa323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If somebody has left. . .say good ridance and wish it had happened sooner so you didn't waste any more time with the guy. Get busy, round up friends and start having a good time. It's also a great time to just clean everything you own. Just get busy and keep yourself occupied. It will pass. If you were hurt by someone, remember, you deserved much better. Learn to live without depending on someone else so much. Get out there and get a life of your own. That way you have something to share with someone when the right person comes along.
2007-10-14 20:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends. It's the only way. I had a HORRIBLE breakup this summer. By boyfriend cheated and we were together for a year. It sucks...a lot. But the only way to do it is to think of all the bad times and bad things about him. I reminded myself of this everyday. You need to cry and watch sappy movies. But definitely cut yourself off of the other person...they always realize in the end they lost someone. Always. Whether they tell you or not.
2007-10-14 20:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by duckygirl606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*listen to sad songs and bawl
*listen to happy songs and dance
*get your hair done-something new and fabulous
*shop
*make a list of all the things you hated about him
*write all your feelings down
*go out with friends
*stay in bed and eat junk food
*get a new hobby
*get a new crush
*box up all the stuff he gave you
above all, realize that you are just fabulous, and you deserve the best. if this guy doesn't realize how amazing you are, he doesn't deserve you, and someday, you will meet someone who does. there is no 'right way' to deal with it. go with your gut, lean on your friends, and take care of yourself. and i hope you weren't serious about the suicide thing. if you were, you need to talk to someone immediately.
2007-10-14 20:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by brass in pocket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy, i felt the same way. the ***** broke my heart and its been 8 months but im still not over it. time will help to heal you and devote some alone time to yourself. play the piano, drive around, hang out with a close friend, do some drugs, drink a bit, start smoking, start exercising, take up photography, go hiking, ride a bike, buy a cat or dog. keep yourself busy dont just lie around. and dont go on checking up on him on his myspace or emails. dont wait around for him on aim waiting for him to im you. dont wait around the house forhim to come over or wait for his calls. IT WONT HAPPEN. you need to completely cut him off. then in about 3 months, maybe you can try talking again. but you need to cut off all contact with him so you dont hear from him at all.
2007-10-14 20:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Winning Your Ex Lover Back - http://ExRecoveryFormula.com
2016-01-21 04:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Ex Back Success Story - http://ExBack.GoNaturallyCured.com
2016-02-06 12:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about it...get involved in other activities...hang out with friends, read a book, pray, ......its not worth it to be worrying or even contemplate suicide...u will get over it soon enough.
2007-10-14 20:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by moan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuffing your face with dark chocolate helps.
2007-10-14 20:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell all your female friends what an *ss he is and was and how you are such a victim of his and then they all support you and you get over it.
2007-10-14 20:41:54 · answer #11 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋