Singles & Dating - 12 October 2007

I have a very strong sex drive but my g/f does not. She just can't get in the mood any more and it's driving me crazy. It's been going on for 2 years now and I'm not at all sure what to do. I've tried romance several times and many other things. Is this something that would ruin the relationship for you? Would you leave or stick around and wait for her to hopefully regain her drive?

2007-10-12 07:19:59 · 26 answers · asked by Gary 2

Do you ever try to get to know people whom you don't find pleasing on the eyes?

I do because I don't feel threatened by them.

2007-10-12 07:14:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last week I went to walgreens and then I saw her, the moment I did she stole my heart. I tried starting a conversation with her just by asking her where the batteries were located (I knew where they were). When I was paying I made her giggle when I told her to wait up because my mom was bringing some cheese, but I was mistaken and it was actually bread.

I noticed her name on the receipt, but that's the only type of conversation I had with her. I know I have to ask that girl out, its just like a deep feeling I have that tells me I have to go out with her. The question is how? I don't know if she has a bf so what would you do if you were me?

2007-10-12 06:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kuervo 4

2007-10-12 06:45:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not a very good flirt when i'm trying to be, but when i'm nottrying to flirt, i tend to attract the boys more. this guy that i'm just friends with thinks im flirting. how do i let him down easy without ruining our friendship??

2007-10-12 06:31:38 · 20 answers · asked by KiSs KiSs 2

Is it different angles or pace? I've seen guys in porn and it looks like their pretty much doing the same thing, in and out...in and out...lol. What is the technique that separates the good from the bad. By the way I've never had sex, if you couldnt have guessed that already...lol. So all info from the LADIES will be gladly accepted.

2007-10-12 06:15:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-12 06:14:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked a guy who had a girlfriend (I didn't know). He showed interest by doing small little things, nothing major. We really didn't speak much, just flirty. It spans over a couple months. I flirt w/him but show interest in other guys also and he gets so mad he starts to yell and be mean and then start harassing me! When I approached him in front of his co-workers, he starts denying that I even exist! How to get even?

2007-10-12 06:11:16 · 32 answers · asked by jenn's answers 2

I have been with my man for two years. He just recently started complaining to people that I don't have sex with him enough. I mean come on 1st off we live with his MOTHER ! We Do have sex though we have sex every 2-3 days mabie 4 sometimes, but he wants it like every day 3-4 times a day if he can get it! Yesterday out of the blue he comes up to me and says he knows what his problem is. He said his problem is me not paying him enough attention! He talks about me horriable to other people like we NEVER have sex and like I am so crule to him but I am not I love him! But should I make myself un confortiable and just **** him every day like he wants or should I do what all my family saies and put him to the boot ? I mean I am an intelligent young sexy (if I may say) woman. I feal like I do alot for this man. When I tried to move out last week for good resons he cried and said he needs me. I mean okay how much emmbarrasment over this do I have to take ? Is there any happy median ?

2007-10-12 06:07:38 · 46 answers · asked by michaelxx89 1

i am wondering do guys think about boobs and butts and sex
b/c i think they do
i need some answers and if wat i am thinking is wrong please tell me how i am wrong
thnx for all ur help

2007-10-12 05:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I planned to stay at my girlfriends this wkend because her parents are out, so supposly i thought I will indeed sleep with her at night.

However she has told me she has heavy bedtime incontience (I think thats the right word) and she has to wear some adult diapers at night.

Its all abit strange for a 18 year old girl to be wearing diapers at night.. Nonetheless it didnt bother me, at first, untill I woke up the next morning with a girl lying half on top of me wearing a heavy sagging diaper.. i mean, you wouldn't want to leave her lying in a soggy sack of her own urine, right? yes gross as it may seem..

I still love her I find this abit "werid" in a way. Does anyone have any advice? Its all I strange situation so advice would be helpful . Thanks

2007-10-12 05:52:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've tried to tell her i don't fancy her at all, i've stopped replying to her all her attempts to contact me, but she just wont stop, i'm starting to think it might just be easier to give in, and go through life with a GF i cant stand the sight of!! i'm at my wits end, what can i do?

2007-10-12 05:51:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

basically my boyfriend of two years broke up with me recently so i'm hurting bad and still love him.. but i know i'll get through it.I have try to let go.he was a great guy but life goes on right.. :( my question is actually for the future and is about sex. i had an amazing sex life for the past two years, connected, passionate, intimate, i am very sexual and he was a great lover no complaints- he was my first not that i never had opportuity i just waited for the right guy- i'd been very sexualwith other men before him but wouldn't have sex..i held out 4 the right guy. I'm 21 and know i'm really going to miss sex but i don't want a relationship for a long time now- take care of me, enjoy life. i'm young.i guess what i am conflicted about is do i wait for the next right guy who i love- which is ideal but who knows how long that will be or do i,in time,date a nice guy but not serious just go with it and enjoy the pleasure of sex even though it will be hard bc it won't mean anything to me

2007-10-12 05:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Brightside 1

When your away from your girlfriend for say four or five days can you not just wait til your together again for sex, are men that horny that you have to 'do the job yourself' until then?? Its FIVE days.....is it really that long? Do you not think that you may affect your performance when you do see your girlfriend again?

2007-10-12 05:27:35 · 26 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1

2007-10-12 05:26:22 · 13 answers · asked by Jon B 1

she dose not show me attention she ignores me time to time we hardly ever have sex and she wont give me a chance to get her into having sex she always says she is sleepy or she is watching tv or somthing then when i try when we lay in bed for the night she says "why do you wait until im sleepy and want to sleep" i dont understand and she says she still wants to be with me but im trying my hardest not to break up with her she is distant from me we dont ever cudel anymore its like the only option she is giving me is to leave her alone 24/7 and not even talk to her....im a good looking guy and i know i can have somone that can trat me better and realize and understand my feelings and needs im stuck what do i do????

2007-10-12 05:24:41 · 11 answers · asked by michaelxx89 1

would u rather date a guy who insisted he likes you how you are but while ur dating still idolizes hot bodied chicks and makes no secret of it or a guy who beats you up?

2007-10-12 05:23:56 · 11 answers · asked by the insider 6

Anything will help, just looking for seriousness though.....THNX!

2007-10-12 05:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 3

Until now this has been bugging me. I stay busy and involved so not to let my situation get the best of me. However, many of my friends are getting married and starting families and at times I feel so lonely. I have been single for a verrrrry long time and sometimes cannot bear to be alone. Do other women feel this way?

2007-10-12 05:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Sarcastic 2

I was dating this guy who I was absolutely in love with. We were together for three years and he had his sweet moments but for the most part he treated me terribly. He called me a B**** all the time and disrespected me in front of his mother and friends at the drop of a hat.

He was also very hungry for sex and had to have it all the time. He needed weird fantasies and porn to satisfy him. Sex with just me was never enough. I started to realize that he was either in love with or lust with my bestfriend but she hated his guts. One day, he put me out in some rage... he always had rages where he would punch walls and break things and I just never came back.

Now that Im with someone else, pregnant, and happy he is stalking me. Calling me, texting me, emailing me. emailing my new boyfriend. Calling my friend, though I know thats because he secretly wanted her. How do I deal with this? I mean I'm emotionally warped by all this.

2007-10-12 05:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by Under the Sea 4

OK, here’s the deal. I work as a waitress two evenings a week (full time secretary) and asked this guy who was in the restaurant I work in out for a drink. He was really good looking and I was chuffed when he said yes. Since then I’ve learned that he’s a Director for a music company and works alongside high-profile artists, and I mean A-List stars. He also (I have learned today) is in a band and sent me the link to their site. It’s really awesome music, indie – what I’m into, and he does gigs and also is the singer/songwriter.

I am now so nervous and daunted about the date. I love music, but feel totally inferior to this guy. Any tips on how to get over this? Thanks!!!

2007-10-12 05:08:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ralph has been trying to see the kids-that doesn’t work. I have tried to be an adult (thinking I was the problem) and reconcile with you to help the situation-that didn’t work. I don’t what in the world you are thinking April but you need to really start thinking about your kids and get past the whole bitterness act. You are their mom, you are the one responsible to do the right things for your kids. I know you probably have people in your ear such as your mom, and Rachel and whoever else. Your mom is going to resent Ralph and so on (you’re her daughter and no mom wants to see their child hurt or treated wrong). My mom has been there too. Now Rachel, I know she is your friend and she’s been there or whatever but I mean look at her life, her situation is way worse then yours. Her kid’s dad does her so bogus and he has like 500 kids (after her kid) but I don’t even know either of them at all so I wont even get into that b/c it’s not my business. The point is there comes a time when you

2007-10-12 05:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

Is that totally wrong of me to get turned on by it?

2007-10-12 05:02:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

After I got DUI. I can't concentrate on women anymore. My friends pushing me to know someone cause they all in relationships but me. I can't running around them and being singe. Should I dating bcause of my friend or what?

2007-10-12 05:00:36 · 9 answers · asked by vu_tran764 2

2007-10-12 04:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by hello 1

I have been dating for years now and I have always waited a certain amount of time b-4 sleeping with a guy but what I have learned in my years that it doesn't even matter! You can sleep with a guy soon after meeting them and be with them for so long or on the other hand you can wait to sleep with a guy and still get left by them. It's a risky situation.

2007-10-12 04:56:24 · 28 answers · asked by Kee-Wee 2

My girlfriend recently discovered that her best friend and sorority sister from college had just accepted a job in our area and moved into an apartment only a few miles away from our house.

For “old time’s sake”, the two of them decided to go out for a night on the town.

At some point during the evening, my girlfriend’s friend lost her keys, including the key to her apartment.

Since both of them were rather intoxicated, I was then called to pick them up.

Since her landlord wouldn’t be around to let her back into the building until this morning, my girlfriend told her friend that she could sleep on our couch until then.

However, when I picked up the girls, it was clear that sleeping was the last thing on their minds and they were both ready to continue partying.

2007-10-12 04:54:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I am planning to stay at my girlfriends this wkend because her parents are out, so supposly I will windeed sleep with her at night.

However she has told me she was bedtime incontience (I think thats the right word) and she has to wear some adult diapers at night. Should I be worried that I will wake up next to a girl in a sagging wet diaper?

Its all abit strange for a 17 year old girl to be earing diapers at night.. Nonetheless it doesnt bother me, but does anyone have any support of advice?

2007-10-12 04:53:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently asked out on a date with a ugly 36 year old guy. I am 21. I hate to hurt his feelings and tell him I don't like him because he is sooooo sweet. I AM STUCK IN THIS SITUATION HELP!

2007-10-12 04:49:09 · 62 answers · asked by Sierra A 2

Everytime I ask him a question he answers back with a question all the time and he doesn't like to talk about ''us'' or our relationship.It's like all we have is sex.Waht are some approaches to help him communicate with me better?

2007-10-12 04:47:47 · 3 answers · asked by Toni 1