When your away from your girlfriend for say four or five days can you not just wait til your together again for sex, are men that horny that you have to 'do the job yourself' until then?? Its FIVE days.....is it really that long? Do you not think that you may affect your performance when you do see your girlfriend again?
2007-10-12 05:27:35 · 26 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure if this is a serious question but I'm going ahead and treat it as such.
First of all, when it comes to personal matters like this, you can't group half of men-kind into one group and characterize the whole as if all are identical.
Some men can wait, some men can't wait, some men find it easy to deal with it on his own, some men have religious belief that prevents him, some don't. I don't think "performance" concern is part of the equation unless one is paranoid or have false knowledge.
Why is this a concern for you? If your boyfriend does it or not, it's not affecting anything else. That's what he is choosing to do. Is that wrong in your mind? If so, that's a subject you should discuss with your boyfriend, not with the masses.
My suggestion would be to leave him alone to do his thing. It's really not something you should interfere with.
By the way, the reservore has a capacity of only 5 to 7 days. When it gets full, it comes out at night during sleep. There is no way to stop this. (it's typically called a "wet dream")
2007-10-12 05:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it's a nightly thing, either I'm with my g/f or I'm doing it myself. It would affect my performance after waiting 5 days because I'd be busting to get it all out from waiting so long. No one likes a three pump hump after waiting 5 days to get some. Got to keep the pressure from building up so i do what i must to keep it long and meaningful when me and my girlfriend are together.
2007-10-12 05:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by pararoller 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES men can wait. I've waited for sex longer than a few days. It's just that men generally choose not to wait. But waiting has a benefit for us to, since it's generally better when we do get to do it. My wife and I occasional have holding out contests, and even though she usually wins, we can wait at least a week. Younger men are just little hornballs and want the feel good factor. But the frequency doesn't effect performance... unless he takes care of it RIGHT before.
2007-10-12 05:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by crackbubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes we are that horny, yes it is way too long. It never ceases to amaze me how little women understand exactly how men are wired. We think of sex, on average, once a minute. That's sixty times an hour, twenty-four hours a day, yes we think about it while asleep, maybe even more often than when awake. Can you have an urge for somethign thousands and thousands of times before you give in to the craving?
2007-10-12 05:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by juicy_wishun 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-14 15:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey at least he is taking matters in his own hand. And not finding a one night stand. Yea five days can be a long. It will not affect his proformace it can even make it better. Be happy, he is a guy.
2007-10-12 05:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by iceman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think its all about genetics-- Humans are designed to reproduce, like any creature, and we've evolved that way. So men can reproduce in theory many times in a day, so get the urge to **** many times in a day, which is good for the survival of the species. Same way, when a womans pregnant, she want her bloke to be around cos she knows she' out of it for while with the kid. So men wanna **** very often, thats a good thing.
2007-10-12 05:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the "truly horny" to not do some thing about it would mean the women is going to be very wore out by the time he is done with her! & may be even a bit sore!
2007-10-12 05:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i know some guys cant wait but i know some that can because it does interfere with there sex lives with there girlfriend and if they just can wait it would be so much better in bed. i have a friend that was going through it with her boy but she had a talk with him about it and now he doesn't do that anymore and he says its way better when he doesn't do that
2007-10-12 05:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by teddybearerik2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, five days is an awfully long time if you are used to ejaculating more frequently...
Also, it can be seen as the ultimate 'Me time' for when you're alone.
And yes, it does effect your performance - It improves your stamina and ensures you're not walking back into your relationship with 'a loaded gun'
2007-10-12 05:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lowlevel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋