OK, here’s the deal. I work as a waitress two evenings a week (full time secretary) and asked this guy who was in the restaurant I work in out for a drink. He was really good looking and I was chuffed when he said yes. Since then I’ve learned that he’s a Director for a music company and works alongside high-profile artists, and I mean A-List stars. He also (I have learned today) is in a band and sent me the link to their site. It’s really awesome music, indie – what I’m into, and he does gigs and also is the singer/songwriter.
I am now so nervous and daunted about the date. I love music, but feel totally inferior to this guy. Any tips on how to get over this? Thanks!!!
2007-10-12 05:08:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he said yes when you were just being yourself. So don't ruin by being all goofy and stuff, just be yourself. Who cares who he works with if he likes you he will continue to like you and he may introduce you to those people and you will have to be yourself and not act all silly in front of them too. My friend works with a lot of entertainers and when I met them I say hello and how are you. I do not ask for autographs I act like I meet people like them al the time and the appreciate meeting "normal" people. If it works out you may get photographs and Christmas cards from them and it will all be normal so don't ruin it by being all nervous be YOURSELF the girl he said yes to! OK Good luck!
2007-10-12 05:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However A-list you are, to have a great-looking person have the confidence to risk asking you for a date is always flattering. So many people talk about really liking someone, but very few ever have the courage and honesty to do anything about it.
Besides, guys are constantly asking girls out and getting knocked back. So few girls are willing to take the risk. This guy must have felt 10 feet tall when you asked him for a drink - especially in public.
So he knows, and we know, that you're a hardworking, intelligent, ballsy woman who's willing to take a risk when she sees something she wants. How is that inferior to anyone?
Plus, he knew you were a waitress when you asked him out. As far as he knows, all you do is waitressing. he doesn't know you have another job. if he's got any kind of corporate responsibilities, he knows that a good secretary is a vital part of the team and worth her weight in gold.
Shed this 'oooh, poor ordinary little me, what have I done to deserve this prince?' attitude. You already made him feel great when you asked him out. If he wants to go out with you more than once, let him make you feel great.
You're a great woman. If he's a great guy, he'll realise how lucky he is to have met someone who's not into all that false worship business but likes him for who he is.
2007-10-12 05:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't drink too much!
Secondly, stop thinking you are inferior. Granted, he has a high profile job, etc, but he obviously saw something in you that attracted him enough to go out with you on a date. The only person who will make you feel inferior is yourself - so, think of some topics of conversation before you meet up. Don't constantly ask him about who has he met, and so on - make out you're interested in him, his hobbies, interests, family....conversations about his job should come from him.
Dress up, be comfortable (now is not the time to try a new hairdo, make up, outfit), and keep telling yourself "I am confident"....even if you don't feel it, ACT it! We all act from day to day, and when you start acting like a confident person, you will start to feel it.
Good luck - I hope it goes great for you.
Remember, he's lucky to be going out with you....
x
2007-10-12 05:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your research .. he is still the same hot guy you asked out .. AND he accepted!! WOO HOO!!! Go out and have some fun.
A word to the wise ... since he works with A list people,. he just sees them as friends, or clients. Do not gush over them, and if you do chance to meet any while you are with him, treat them as if they are just anyone else on the street. WHY? Because then they will respect you .. and treat you as a friend. And for goodness sake, do not ask for an autograph or a picture with them ... or they will see you as just another crazy fan.
Rise above it all and you will be amazed at the new cool friends you amass ... and the hot dude you get to keep
2007-10-12 05:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by beckymarie2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best advice for you is to remember who asked who asked who out. He asked you which means he really likes what he sees, so it's all on him. Try and relax because he wouldn't have asked you out on a date if he didn't think there could be something and just be yourself, it's easier that way. Don't flop for him make him work a little. Good Luck.
2007-10-12 05:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by skibm80 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One glass of wine. only one! sit down in a darkened room with your favourite song and concentration on your respiratory. call a chum and talk it out. Typing now and returned stresses me extra advantageous than verbalizing my nerves to a sturdy listener. exercising! it is going to strengthen your potential for this night and get some out now. Have a large date!
2016-10-22 03:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start with a little yoga too relax the mind. Take things easy enjoy the experience have fun good luck.
2007-10-12 05:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by gino d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe! He's a person. And remember, he said yes. Try not to dwell on the info you now know, relax, be yourself, and have a good time!
2007-10-12 05:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about things that you like. If you find his music interesting, tell him about your love of music as well. Nothing can go wrong when there's music involved. Good Luck.
2007-10-12 05:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you don't know all the above, just be yourself. He said yes for a reason!!! Have a nice time x
2007-10-12 05:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by creamball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋