Anything will help, just looking for seriousness though.....THNX!
2007-10-12 05:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.Be sure he wears a condom
2.It'll hurt bu she's right.It'll pass
3.Moan and groan but not that much
4.Have a good time
2007-10-12 05:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.K33p !t R3@l 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
uhm. yes.
in direct order.
1] GET YOUR SELF MARRIED.
hello? is there no siren in your head?
have you even considered consequences?
like in 3 months he may have moved on to some
other girl? and what do you have?
not your virginity!!
thats a no brainer!
2] this doesnt prove any love at all.
just the sorry fact that the two of you..
or just you.. will regret losing something
so intimate that you can no longer give the man/woman
you will eventually marry.
and youll feel disgustiing for a good long time.
just wait.
its SO much better that way.
3] if youre talking wedding night..
then youre all clear.
but if not i seriously suggest that you leave
your sexual activity at makeing out
and respect yourself rather than jump in
just to jump in.
if youre significant loves you,
then there shouldnt be a problem waiting for
your wedding.
2007-10-12 05:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
i hope im giving advice to someone of reasonable age.......
* take protection with you: most important! you don't want to be sorry later.
*take your time: don't be a fast ***, and get yourself all hurt up and tarnish your first experience.don't allow him to rush you either.
*if you see blood at any time, this is normal: this is where your hymen(the little thin layer of skin under the clitoris) has broken under the thrusting of the penis.
* relax yourself: the less tense the better. also the slower pace, the faster it'll start to feel good for the both of you.
*communicate with him: if it hurts too much initially, (which it will a little bit but WILL start to feel good) don't be afraid to tell him that it hurts, so he can slow down at make it do what it do.........lol
* enjoy and make these moments your own: make it last forever, as they say. this is an experience you will reminisce about for the rest of your life.
2007-10-12 05:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well of course I'm going to say that you should feel like its right. You will always remember your first time, trust me. Always use protection NO MATTER WHAT!!!! Don't let them force you to do anything you don't feel comfortable with and if you don't feel comfortable, then don't let it happen and speak up. If its their first time it will probably be quick, but it will still possibly hurt a little. The pain is kind of a burning sensation, but it will go away, and you will live lol. It will probably stay sore for a little while afterwords. And again, use protection.
2007-10-12 05:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by all4ugurlie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
1. Wait for "True unconditional love".
2. Don't do it just for the experience.
3. Don't give your heart to someone who is not worthy of it, because that is what you'll be doing, giving your heart away.
4. Make sure the guy really loves you, because most guys are wired to just want sex.
5. Wait until you are married.
2007-10-12 07:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be sure you're doing it with someone you care about and who cares about you. Sex is a beautiful thing - you won't be great at it at first, it takes practice, lol! Seriously, be safe and make sure it's not someone who's going to be dating your friend a week after it happens (that's what happened to me - jerk).
2007-10-12 06:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I do have some advise for you. If you are under 18 years of age, don't do it! You are not old enough or mature enough to be able to handle a sexual relationship.
2007-10-12 05:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Use lots of foreplay, a condom, and it will hurt a little bit and be sore after wards.
2007-10-12 05:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ariella333 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Wait until your wedding day.
2007-10-12 05:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Semp-listic! 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Make sure your ready-- you can't go back
Use protection..
Use lube that's compatible w/ protection...
2007-10-12 05:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋