basically my boyfriend of two years broke up with me recently so i'm hurting bad and still love him.. but i know i'll get through it.I have try to let go.he was a great guy but life goes on right.. :( my question is actually for the future and is about sex. i had an amazing sex life for the past two years, connected, passionate, intimate, i am very sexual and he was a great lover no complaints- he was my first not that i never had opportuity i just waited for the right guy- i'd been very sexualwith other men before him but wouldn't have sex..i held out 4 the right guy. I'm 21 and know i'm really going to miss sex but i don't want a relationship for a long time now- take care of me, enjoy life. i'm young.i guess what i am conflicted about is do i wait for the next right guy who i love- which is ideal but who knows how long that will be or do i,in time,date a nice guy but not serious just go with it and enjoy the pleasure of sex even though it will be hard bc it won't mean anything to me
2007-10-12 05:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Brightside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will know when you are ready... I don't think that you are yet, you are still hurting to bad. From experiance once your without sex for a little while, you kinda get used to it.
Don't jump into something with someone who does'nt care about you just for sex.
2007-10-12 05:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 15:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, coming out of a long term relationship must be very hard. But remember, you are still very young and there are PLENTY of other guys out there who you will meet. Now you get the chance to go and explore and have fun meeting new people. It will take time for you to heal but remember, you will find someone else especially since you said you weren't short of offers before your boyfriend.
good luck and be happy!
2007-10-12 05:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by RLJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're giving it this much thought, it sounds like you'll regret a casual fling. ~whisper~ You know...you can take care of yourself and still be sexual. That's why God invented batteries!
Don't do anything you'll regret in the long run. I'm sure the right guy will come along if you're as nice as you seem to be.
2007-10-12 05:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by QWERTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're going to be into the causal sex thing.
So just wait around until you meet a decent guy and have fun and sex with him and see where the relationship takes you.
2007-10-12 05:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same problem but she broke up with me and whe have a kid together but sex was great i had other relationships but she wass hot i did things i didnt know but i have 2 move and find some one that will respect me or just have fun with
2007-10-12 06:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst enjoy yourself . you will know when its ime to have sex . Always remember to use protection . Thers alot of nasty stuff out there . Good luck and be safe
2007-10-12 05:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you shouldn't have sex with any one before you get married.It hurts when you brake up with someone youv had sex with.Not all people say they get hurt after they brake up with someone they have had sex with, but in the inside it still hurts them.
2007-10-12 05:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might as well have a good time while you look around.
2007-10-12 05:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a great healer....wait for the time to fly by and u will be ok.....
2007-10-12 05:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy_00r0pq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋