i've tried to tell her i don't fancy her at all, i've stopped replying to her all her attempts to contact me, but she just wont stop, i'm starting to think it might just be easier to give in, and go through life with a GF i cant stand the sight of!! i'm at my wits end, what can i do?
2007-10-12 05:51:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it is time to be flat out mean if nothing else is working. She sounds like a pyscho.
2007-10-12 05:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever give in to someone you cant stand the sight of. Be strong about your feeling for her. Keep telling her that you do not fancy her at all. Repeat it daily to her if you have to. Tell her why you think she is not the one for you no matter what she does in the future. If there is no chemistry between the two of you, sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her. If you cant do it then write her a long letter say how you feel about her.
2007-10-12 06:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to have a relationship with a member of the opposite sex, with no physical attraction, if the two people are friends. With true friends, there may even be a physical tinge every now and then, but their friendship is their priority. You, however, don't seem to be able to stand the sight of this girl so I would imagine that friendship is ruled out.
2007-10-12 06:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by bodavisP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you are doing is postponing the inevitable. You are wasting her time and yours as well.
Think of it this way...if you stayed with someone you didnt want to be with, walked out in the street tomorrow and got zapped by a car....faced your last moments of life and looked back at the past week....would you say you lived life the best way you could and did what you wanted?
If you cant answer yes, then changes need to be made.
You seriously need to sit her down and talk to her. Say its just not there and that she needs to move on. Be nice and sincere but cut the tie immediately or she wont be able to move on.
Wish you luck - not a fun place to be
2007-10-12 05:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by catfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible? Yes. Do you really want something like that? No, of course not. Such a thing only works if you LOVE someone, but don't have a physical attraction -- which can and does happen.
As for YOUR situation. Block her, change your email, phone number or IM (however she is contacting you), get RUDE if you have to, but get the POINT across. If that still does not stop it, check out the "stalker" laws in your area.
2007-10-12 05:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wondered this myself. I've been out with a couple guys that are great in the personality department but I'm just not attracted to them.
I think the best solution would be to just lay it on the line, "I am not attracted to you and I am not interested in a relationship with you." It's gonna hurt her and probably make you feel like a jerk but if she refuses to give up when you've tried everything else, it's your only option. Good luck! =)
2007-10-12 05:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Vbonics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 06:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground.....that is no kind of life!! I don't know why you ever got with her in the first place if there is no attraction whatsoever! Strange!! Don't give in.....there is someone out there for the both of you.....the right person. Don't settle for anything less!! Best of luck!!
2007-10-12 05:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give in. It will just be harder to end it later. Be very firm with her, but sensitive, tell her that you are not interested in having a relationship with her beyond friends and you would appreciate it if she would give you some space. Dont settle just cuz you are tired of her harrassing you.
2007-10-12 05:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her in that way then it would be unfair to her and yourself to be in a relationship. You would be building the relationship on a lie. Make it very clear to her that you don't want her as more than a friend and if she can't accept that then you'll have to end your friendship.
2007-10-12 05:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Priscilla D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋